ive been madly in love and the sex ahem sorry making love was brilliant..but ive had the filthiest wildest one night stands which were mind blowing.


so is it amazing casual sex ???

or making lurve with the one you love ????

you cant really answer this unless youve tried both!

i think for me the answer is...i always will want the other or want both..get both,feel guilty and be back to square one

Casual sex is good... and defintly feels good, but sex when you are in love i do this is better.. Its just the whole Auora surrounding it..

Nothing is better than sex with the one you love. Very recently, I made love to/fucked/boned a person whom I love. I had no hangups, my mind didn't have to wander, I was 100 percent comfortable, I didn't have to pretend I was with someone else and it was the hottest sex I have ever had. It wouldn't have been like that if she were someone I had just met.

mebbes u fucked the wrong people if your mind had to wander.....mmmm?

jonylawson said:

Absoultely. I once watched the Celtics while having sex.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

One of my exes was so jealous that he wouldn't allow the TV to be on cause he thoght that I would watch the guys on it and get off to them

It's not a myth, however sex when you are in lust can be equally as good. I have had some of the most mindblowing sex with guys I didn't love.

amen to that(but with lasses like).....mebbes gay lads and horny hetero blokes whom it is avalable to think alike eh?!

if sex is readily available to you its pretty hard to say no..thats a fact.look at princes songs.that guy was sooo in love pink cashmere,crucial,adore,the one,lets have a baby,dionne,the beautiful ones,nothing compares etc etc UNTIL THE NEXT ONE!

I don't know, I think fucking a hot, stinkin', anonymous women can be fun too! Names are just lables anyway. Let's skip the small talk and get to what we know we both came here for anyway.

LittlePill said:

Perv.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

Damn right!!!

I think U can have the best of both worlds. If U're with a lover with whom U're truly compatible, U can have the sweatiest, dirtiest, fucking-so-hard-we-moved-the-bed-three-feet, kind of sex. But you can also have some of the sweetest love making going on too. In my mind one leads to the other. If you can trust each other, then the nasty stuff is that much cooler because U dont reallyhave 2 wonder if you're gonna freak the person out if you do this or that.

Think it depends if the person you're in love with is crap in bed.

TheFrog said:

some days you want to listen to 18 and over other days the holy river!

I've never had casual sex and never will, so I can't answer that question. I'm going to assume that men like casual sex more than women do even though women like to get theirs and move on to (Think Ananda Lewis). I honestly think sex with yourself is always the best because you're always satisfied

Janfriend said:

I thought that too til about two weeks ago. It just ain't the same.

Janfriend said:

That's the truth!

i would have to say - this matter is completely subjective as people approach things differently

causal sex can be AWESOME - if u're honest ENUFF to admit that u are only in it for the minute ...whoa!!

sexin' whilst one is in love - is cool, too - the other person just adds to the fulfilling sentiment of the thing..


whichever way u go its a thing of beauty and should never be any thing LESS