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Printableshausler said: XxAxX said: actually as i age i find i am less and less tolerant of other people's crap and have learned not only to 'judge' others, but to save myself a lot of time and energy by avoiding those who don't meet my standards. it's a fallacy to assume that it's bad to 'judge' people, because judging other people is necessary to our survival. for example, the child molestor at the day care center. it's good thing someone judged him because he should be locked away from innocent children.
 aww. don't be afraid dear, he's in jail now | |
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XxAxX said: shausler said: aww. don't be afraid dear, he's in jail now no dear thats not it  | |
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shausler said: XxAxX said: aww. don't be afraid dear, he's in jail now no dear thats not it oh. are you judging my reply then?  and if so, can you explain why it is bad to "exercise good judgment" when it comes to interacting with people you know to be harmful? | |
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XxAxX said: shausler said: no dear thats not it oh. are you judging my reply then? and if so, can you explain why it is bad to "exercise good judgment" when it comes to interacting with people you know to be harmful?no XxAxX merely lamenting whatever i did to get locked out by yourself i take the responsibility but sad i am nonethe less | |
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shausler said: XxAxX said: oh. are you judging my reply then? and if so, can you explain why it is bad to "exercise good judgment" when it comes to interacting with people you know to be harmful?no XxAxX merely lamenting whatever i did to get locked out by yourself i take the responsibility but sad i am nonethe less awww. sweetie you know i love ya, i'm just a weirdo that way  c'mon. spank auntie Xxa for old tymes sakes and let's make up ok? | |
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you know that [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 10:18:56 2004 by shausler] | |
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Ottica said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s] | |
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2the9s said: Ottica said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s] I know. I don't even know what it means or is. I asked once but he is sometimes difficult to understand, so I stopped asking. I don't understand why I can't get my name back, though. He done banned me good! The account is there but is unable to be de-banned or something, I guess. Grrrr.... Think of a name! | |
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2the9s said: Ottica said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s]  It needs to be AzureStarToo
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s] It needs to be AzureStarToo
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s] It needs to be AzureStarToo
LMAO!
I LOVE it! Or what about AzureExcelsior!
Though someone might snitch on her... | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: Your username sucks. tic tac edit [This message was edited Thu Mar 11 19:10:13 2004 by 2the9s] It needs to be AzureStarToo
I agree! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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Ottica said: I don't understand why I can't get my name back, though. He done banned me good! The account is there but is unable to be de-banned or something, I guess. Grrrr....
Damn that's some bitter petty-ass shit... 
You'd think telling you to go fuck yourself would be punishment enough! | |
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Ottica said: AnotherLoverToo said: It needs to be AzureStarToo
Or: ICalledIanAWhinyBitchAndGotBannedAndLostMyOrgName | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Ottica said: Or: ICalledIanAWhinyBitchAndGotBannedAndLostMyOrgName
I lost about 9 of them! | |
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2the9s said: Ottica said: I don't understand why I can't get my name back, though. He done banned me good! The account is there but is unable to be de-banned or something, I guess. Grrrr....
Damn that's some bitter petty-ass shit...
You'd think telling you to go fuck yourself would be punishment enough! A major character flaw?  | |
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2the9s said: Ottica said: I don't understand why I can't get my name back, though. He done banned me good! The account is there but is unable to be de-banned or something, I guess. Grrrr....
Damn that's some bitter petty-ass shit...
You'd think telling you to go fuck yourself would be punishment enough! Yeah... those were some pretty nice e-mails, eh? I forget what it was that I did even... lol. | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Ottica said: Or: ICalledIanAWhinyBitchAndGotBannedAndLostMyOrgName That's right... that's what I did. Shame on me! | |
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Ottica said: 2the9s said: Damn that's some bitter petty-ass shit...
You'd think telling you to go fuck yourself would be punishment enough! Yeah... those were some pretty nice e-mails, eh? I forget what it was that I did even... lol. That was the email that was semt to me by mistake remember?
The good ole days! 
It's great that you are back though Heather.  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Ottica said: Yeah... those were some pretty nice e-mails, eh? I forget what it was that I did even... lol. That was the email that was semt to me by mistake remember?
The good ole days!
It's great that you are back though Heather. Yeah, I know! I just read the e-mail again... funny shit! Ahhh, yes... the good ole days! And... thank you. 'Tis nice to be back! And, the best part is that I didn't have to grovel and say I'm sorry when I wouldn't have meant it!  | |
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Ottica said: And... thank you. 'Tis nice to be back! And, the best part is that I didn't have to grovel and say I'm sorry when I wouldn't have meant it!
Yes, the old grovel to the grand master and you shall be reactivated power trip. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: Damn that's some bitter petty-ass shit...
You'd think telling you to go fuck yourself would be punishment enough! A major character flaw? | |
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I care way more then I should about things.  | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I care way more then I should about things.
You mean, like  ?When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Ottica said: Yeah... those were some pretty nice e-mails, eh? I forget what it was that I did even... lol. That was the email that was semt to me by mistake remember? I do indeed!
It's great that you are back though Heather.
It is indeed.  <---tears of joy | |
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bkw said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I care way more then I should about things.
You mean, like ?uhh no not really | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: bkw said: You mean, like ?uhh no not really Okay, you're being serious 
Are you saying you have too much empathy? When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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Ok, Heather, to address your topic though:
Is there a difference between 'judging' and 'forming impressions' of someone? If so, what are those differences? Are there times that using instincts and impressions can be helpful and protective in nature, rather than negative? Is there a way to BOTH be kind AND set boundaries about what is acceptable behaviors? | |
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