I have a huge character flaw and that is in not accepting a lot of people for who they are. I used to be able to look at people and "somewhat" accept them for their annoying habits, but a lot of the time their, what I would call "flaws", would irritate me to no end and I would place people into certain categories. I felt at the time that it was wrong of me to do, however, I did it all the same.

Recentely, I've been taking a closer look at people than I did before, which kind of threw be back because I always thought that I was one that took a close enough look and really didn't judge people. I've found that I had, and do... and probably always will to some extent.

The thing to me is this... is it they that have the flaw or myself for even judging them for who they are as human beings?


*Granted, yes, I have had some alcohol which may have something to do with my posting this, however, I really, really do think that this is fucked up. Actually, well... see... it's the alcohol. We're simply human in judging, eh? We're just all fucked up! By the way... I got my eyes out in under 10 minutes tonight... like y'all cared anyway!

Yeah... so... I'm SO going to regret this the next time I log on.


*clears throat*



Yeah.

What if I judge you for judging others?

Ottica said:

You mean your size 12 feet?

CarrieMpls said:

Hi, you...

Eh... let's wait until I am sober and I will answer... lol... seriously though... do you see what I mean? Right! It's a human trait... right? It means we're "normal". Doesn't it? Aaargh.

2the9s said:

trying this...

Ottica said:

Good job.

Ottica said:

totally normal.

I'm judging you for drinking while flawlessly posting... something bkw's been trying to do for over two years now!!!

I think I shouldn't drink and post. Moderate me... please.

I mean... I remember the fiasco with Insatiable! (I got TONS of laughs from that Insatiable!)

June7 said:

But B is always drunk when he posts anyway.....

I'm judging everybody on this thread.

althom said:

I only judge people when they get on my nerves.

Anxiety said:

I'm judging you right now!

althom said:

I'll be the judge

Anxiety said:

I think you have the flaw Heather. People are who they are, and it is not for us to say how they should act..

They certainly have their stories, as do you, me, and everyone here.

I try my darndest not to judge, but I find myself doing it... And then I wake up.. It really is not a good thing.


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[This message was edited Thu Mar 11 9:00:28 2004 by sag10]

Ottica said:

omg memories....

Finally someone to have fun with on here. :scheme-ing:

INSATIABLE said:

shausler said:

oil changing nerd

shausler said:

:buff:

I'm stronger than you.

shausler said:

actually as i age i find i am less and less tolerant of other people's crap and have learned not only to 'judge' others, but to save myself a lot of time and energy by avoiding those who don't meet my standards. it's a fallacy to assume that it's bad to 'judge' people, because judging other people is necessary to our survival. for example, the child molestor at the day care center. it's good thing someone judged him because he should be locked away from innocent children.

XxAxX said: