Do ya do this or do ya date the same age group? Is Vanity a Factor? Is Sex is Mentality? What is the Deal?

what is age when it comes to the matters of the heart?

as long as she's legal, age doesn't matter.

Heavenly said:

aww

BabyGirl said:

Hello BabyG

I prefer older men...just not too old Vanity isnt really an issue but from experience the sex is usually better.

BabyGirl said:

older man here

Heavenly said:

yeah BUT I saw ur post in another thread "small man here" hehe

BabyGirl said:

Busted

But i still love ya babe

29 and not small baby.....

heh heh.....

BabyGirl said:

Co-sign

i have to say that after dating men who are within my age range i really do want someone who is a bit older. i'm tired of this mid-20's crisis that all them seem to be going through.

BabyGirl said:

I prefer older women...just not too old Vanity isnt really an issue either, but from experience the sex is always better.

I only date old men with beards.

I'd just be happy to date a mature woman for a change. Even the ones I've dated who've been close to my age have seemed really immature, sadly. Older women seem to love me, but their daughters who are my age -- you know, the ones I'm interested in -- seem a mite disinterested. Maybe I'll regrow that goatee for that edgy, Samuel L. Jackson-as-"Shaft" look.

I once enjoyed a mild flirtation with a man much older (21 years). I think it can work. Love is love, right?

Zelaira said:

I prefer older guys. I'm 19, but my boyfriend is 25

Lleena said:

hey, if it's true love then why not... age is nothing but a number

I prefer older men. I'm 19, and my boyfriend is 29. We've been together for a year and a half, and we've had a roller-coaster relationship, but we're in love and all in all it's an amazing relationship. I love him so much, and age doesn't really matter.

I prefer men around my age!

I cannot imagine myself with a younger man.. They just do not have the maturity or, honesty that I require in my life.

PERSIA said:

*Insert R. Kelly joke here*

As long as they have something going on between the ears, I don't care how old he/she is.

Heavenly said:

Here is a thought to your question: The Legal age for consent sex is 16 in the state of Penn. With this as known do you still think the way you do.


36 year old man manulipating a legal 16 year old into thinking she wants to have sex

My dad is 26 years older than my mom and they have been married for 33 years. Nuff sed.

jillybean said:

that's all good but what about the negative side. Every case is different and things like this usually can't be generalized because there are good stories like yours. (Which makes me feel good to see)

I have gone in both directions. I think the biggest age gaps have been a girl 6 years younger than me and a woman 13 years older than myself. I honestly don't have a preferance really [insert joke here]

mrbungle said:

I agree, I was just trying to reiterate (or iterate) that it isn't always a case of gold diggin' young females and perverted, in the midst of a mid-life crisis males when the age difference is notable. There is a downside, however, my dad is now 80 and can't do much, whereas my mom is only 54 and has lots of energy.

If it's really love, then great. But when someone has a pattern of ONLY going for those who are MUCH younger or older, like 15 or more years older/younger, then that's perhaps a sign of a personality "issue". I think it's kinda weird when men serial-date women young enough to be their daughters (and vice versa). When a guy is 50ish and the womenn are 25ish, don't try to tell me he couldn't find someone his own age who is loveable--he needs to admit it's all about the physical and/or having the trophy-girl to show off, and for her it's probably about feeling secure and having a daddy-figure.
[This message was edited Mon Mar 8 16:15:32 2004 by AnotherLoverToo]