2the9s said: Diva said: Can I have some? No. Diva, I think you should rub some of 9's popcorn under one of your hairy armpits, then slip it back into his carton. | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: No. Diva, I think you should rub some of 9's popcorn under one of your hairy armpits, then slip it back into his carton. | |
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2the9s said: AnotherLoverToo said: Diva, I think you should rub some of 9's popcorn under one of your hairy armpits, then slip it back into his carton. Wussy-Boy!! If you're lucky, she'll let you lick the butter out of the armpit hair, too! | |
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CarrieMpls said: jessyMD32781 said: personally I have decided to stop relaxing my hair after 12 years of doing so and letting be natural.
What's with all this getting back to nature ish? Just kiddin. Shave, relax your hair or don't. Whatevs. well, i'm not doing it for health reasons since there aren't any so you can't really say i'm going back to nature. at least not in the way that i intended it. Alos, you can have your hair natural and not worry about odor. i'm doing it because i have very long, thick hair that's very easy to blow out straight when it's relaxed. My whole life i've gotten tons and tons of compliments on it and on how it makes me look like all these different nationalities. After a while it started to bother me and i also started to realize that a part of me thinks that without my hair being relaxed, long and straight, i can't be beautiful. There are also many other people who think the same thing. I need to get rid of that. so i do understand what therapy is doing as far as rebellion goes but when she started with those health issue stuff she really turned me the wrong way. | |
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Ex-Moderator | jessyMD32781 said: CarrieMpls said: What's with all this getting back to nature ish? Just kiddin. Shave, relax your hair or don't. Whatevs. well, i'm not doing it for health reasons since there aren't any so you can't really say i'm going back to nature. at least not in the way that i intended it. Alos, you can have your hair natural and not worry about odor. i'm doing it because i have very long, thick hair that's very easy to blow out straight when it's relaxed. My whole life i've gotten tons and tons of compliments on it and on how it makes me look like all these different nationalities. After a while it started to bother me and i also started to realize that a part of me thinks that without my hair being relaxed, long and straight, i can't be beautiful. There are also many other people who think the same thing. I need to get rid of that. so i do understand what therapy is doing as far as rebellion goes but when she started with those health issue stuff she really turned me the wrong way. I was just teasin. But when I think of "natural" and women wanting to live a more natural life I think of trying to be more like the way we were born. Instead of chemically treating the hair on our head and removing it everywhere else, leaving it all be and being happy with who we are without succumbing to societies expectations. Of course, I've been dying my hair so long I don't remember my natural color and I shave and wear make-up and deoderant and all that. Whatever way you're happy. |
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CarrieMpls said: jessyMD32781 said: well, i'm not doing it for health reasons since there aren't any so you can't really say i'm going back to nature. at least not in the way that i intended it. Alos, you can have your hair natural and not worry about odor. i'm doing it because i have very long, thick hair that's very easy to blow out straight when it's relaxed. My whole life i've gotten tons and tons of compliments on it and on how it makes me look like all these different nationalities. After a while it started to bother me and i also started to realize that a part of me thinks that without my hair being relaxed, long and straight, i can't be beautiful. There are also many other people who think the same thing. I need to get rid of that. so i do understand what therapy is doing as far as rebellion goes but when she started with those health issue stuff she really turned me the wrong way. I was just teasin. But when I think of "natural" and women wanting to live a more natural life I think of trying to be more like the way we were born. Instead of chemically treating the hair on our head and removing it everywhere else, leaving it all be and being happy with who we are without succumbing to societies expectations. Of course, I've been dying my hair so long I don't remember my natural color and I shave and wear make-up and deoderant and all that. Whatever way you're happy. that's mostly what i was trying to say while expressing my opinion on the subject. I tried to make that clear but from therapy's responses i don't think it was. People should do what makes them happy even if what makes them happy makes other people sick. life's too short. yeah, i've been relaxing my hair so long i don't remember it's natural texture. that also played a part into my decision. i've been relaxing it since i've been 10! | |
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2the9s said: Diva said: Can I have some? No. Why am I not surprised. I mean, especially after the Lucky Charms fiasco. --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: 2the9s said: Wussy-Boy!! If you're lucky, she'll let you lick the butter out of the armpit hair, too! --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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jessyMD32781 said: CarrieMpls said: I was just teasin. But when I think of "natural" and women wanting to live a more natural life I think of trying to be more like the way we were born. Instead of chemically treating the hair on our head and removing it everywhere else, leaving it all be and being happy with who we are without succumbing to societies expectations. Of course, I've been dying my hair so long I don't remember my natural color and I shave and wear make-up and deoderant and all that. Whatever way you're happy. that's mostly what i was trying to say while expressing my opinion on the subject. I tried to make that clear but from therapy's responses i don't think it was. People should do what makes them happy even if what makes them happy makes other people sick. life's too short. yeah, i've been relaxing my hair so long i don't remember it's natural texture. that also played a part into my decision. i've been relaxing it since i've been 10! It's interesting how similar your "un-relax" experience is to my decision a few years ago to start shaving my head. After years of loving my wavy/curly, so-called "good" hair, I had to come to grips with the fact that it was leaving me a few decades eaerlier than I'd planned. And, in starting the shaving process, I learned a lot about self-acceptance, about confronting the things my mostly black, mostly Southern family thought about hair (though, that had been a lifelong process for me) and about how I thought I'd be received as a "generically" bald, young black man. Some 4 years later, I'm actually thankful for the process. That said, if I'm ever in a movie, I'm going to have make-up fit me with some long, Lenny locks -- just to see how the other half lives. | |
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ThreadBare said: jessyMD32781 said: that's mostly what i was trying to say while expressing my opinion on the subject. I tried to make that clear but from therapy's responses i don't think it was. People should do what makes them happy even if what makes them happy makes other people sick. life's too short. yeah, i've been relaxing my hair so long i don't remember it's natural texture. that also played a part into my decision. i've been relaxing it since i've been 10! It's interesting how similar your "un-relax" experience is to my decision a few years ago to start shaving my head. After years of loving my wavy/curly, so-called "good" hair, I had to come to grips with the fact that it was leaving me a few decades eaerlier than I'd planned. And, in starting the shaving process, I learned a lot about self-acceptance, about confronting the things my mostly black, mostly Southern family thought about hair (though, that had been a lifelong process for me) and about how I thought I'd be received as a "generically" bald, young black man. Some 4 years later, I'm actually thankful for the process. That said, if I'm ever in a movie, I'm going to have make-up fit me with some long, Lenny locks -- just to see how the other half lives. | |
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jessyMD32781 said: Therapy said: No! i never made any assumptions, i was mostly speaking in generalities. I was also expressing my opinion. I happen to think it's a good idea for everyone to shave their pits. I understand that not everyone is going to do so and that's fine. People are going to do what people are going to do and i don't really care that much. stop portraying me as the armpit shaving Nazi just because i don't agree with you. In my first paragraph I meant stanky. when something is beyond stinky it becomes stanky. Also, I was objecting to your statement about aluminum causing deadly diseases and, as sinisterpentatonic pointed out, alzhiemers is one of those diseases. Perhaps I should have said diseases in general but whatever, the message is still the same. I object to that kind of hysterical reasoning that is not based on hard core proof. I respect the rebellious aspect of your decision as I stated a few times before but the whole health aspect is shaking at best. damn, how many times do i have to say it. I RESPECT YOUR DECISION NOT TO SHAVE YOUR PITS AS A WAY TO CHALLENGE SOCIETY'S FEMININE IDEAL!!!!! HEAR THAT, RESPECT!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T! SING IT WITH ME NOW!!!!! I like it when people take it upon themselves to challenge themselves and other people. personally I have decided to stop relaxing my hair after 12 years of doing so and letting be natural. I know that people are going to think that i lost my natural mind but it's something i need to do. so i do respect actions that make people go, "what the hell is wrong with her?" while allowing for personal growth at the same time. i just don't like stanky, hairy pits. and yes I know that not all hairy pits are stanky but it's an association that i will never be able to get out of my mind. and i have a right to that. [This message was edited Sat Feb 28 15:36:15 2004 by jessyMD32781] I think you did make assumptions about me. I too, was expressing a different opinion! How have I portrayed you as anything? I don't think I've made anything up, I've just said something about what I've read, that you wrote. I think there is a link with aluminium and disease. I don't know how much, I am not hysterical about it and am level headed about all that. Percentage wise, this went 15% towards this decision, other reasons contributed towards the decision to grow my arm pit hair. I 'hear' that you respect my decision but I don't care if you do or don't, really. I don't think you're genuine in respecting my choice, and I think that, because you wrote that you respect my decision in such a piss taking way. I hear you when you say that you like it when people challenge themselves. And I also hear that you respect other people when they ask what is wrong with you for relaxing your hair. I suppose I respect and have an understanding of where that other person is coming from, but that is AFTER my own experience. And if a person is saying something like that about me, then I imagine I'd feel quite misunderstood and pissed off. And that's as important, if not more important because it belongs to me, to be considered as well as the other person. I respect the fact that you don't like hairy, stanky pits. And I recognise that you have a right to your opinion. I, also, have a right to my opinion. | |
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Therapy said: jessyMD32781 said: i never made any assumptions, i was mostly speaking in generalities. I was also expressing my opinion. I happen to think it's a good idea for everyone to shave their pits. I understand that not everyone is going to do so and that's fine. People are going to do what people are going to do and i don't really care that much. stop portraying me as the armpit shaving Nazi just because i don't agree with you. In my first paragraph I meant stanky. when something is beyond stinky it becomes stanky. Also, I was objecting to your statement about aluminum causing deadly diseases and, as sinisterpentatonic pointed out, alzhiemers is one of those diseases. Perhaps I should have said diseases in general but whatever, the message is still the same. I object to that kind of hysterical reasoning that is not based on hard core proof. I respect the rebellious aspect of your decision as I stated a few times before but the whole health aspect is shaking at best. damn, how many times do i have to say it. I RESPECT YOUR DECISION NOT TO SHAVE YOUR PITS AS A WAY TO CHALLENGE SOCIETY'S FEMININE IDEAL!!!!! HEAR THAT, RESPECT!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T! SING IT WITH ME NOW!!!!! I like it when people take it upon themselves to challenge themselves and other people. personally I have decided to stop relaxing my hair after 12 years of doing so and letting be natural. I know that people are going to think that i lost my natural mind but it's something i need to do. so i do respect actions that make people go, "what the hell is wrong with her?" while allowing for personal growth at the same time. i just don't like stanky, hairy pits. and yes I know that not all hairy pits are stanky but it's an association that i will never be able to get out of my mind. and i have a right to that. [This message was edited Sat Feb 28 15:36:15 2004 by jessyMD32781] I think you did make assumptions about me. I too, was expressing a different opinion! How have I portrayed you as anything? I don't think I've made anything up, I've just said something about what I've read, that you wrote. I think there is a link with aluminium and disease. I don't know how much, I am not hysterical about it and am level headed about all that. Percentage wise, this went 15% towards this decision, other reasons contributed towards the decision to grow my arm pit hair. I 'hear' that you respect my decision but I don't care if you do or don't, really. I don't think you're genuine in respecting my choice, and I think that, because you wrote that you respect my decision in such a piss taking way. I hear you when you say that you like it when people challenge themselves. And I also hear that you respect other people when they ask what is wrong with you for relaxing your hair. I suppose I respect and have an understanding of where that other person is coming from, but that is AFTER my own experience. And if a person is saying something like that about me, then I imagine I'd feel quite misunderstood and pissed off. And that's as important, if not more important because it belongs to me, to be considered as well as the other person. I respect the fact that you don't like hairy, stanky pits. And I recognise that you have a right to your opinion. I, also, have a right to my opinion. how dare you accuse me of not being genuine! i am not a liar and everything i've said in all of my posts are the truth! how fucking DARE you call me a liar! THAT right there is worse than any assumption that i may have unwittingly made. you don't even know me! this is stupid. if you have personal issues with me then send it in an orgnote. | |
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i'm sorry, i just can't get over your gall at accuse me of not being genuine of my respect for you. perhaps if i made that declaration now it wouldn't be genuine as i have lost a great deal of respect for you but i say what i feel not what i think people want to hear. so if i say that i respect you then i fucking mean it but for you to say that you don't think that my respect is genuine...well then fuck you. you just completely lost my respect. i hope your satisfied. [This message was edited Sun Feb 29 16:59:48 2004 by jessyMD32781] | |
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2the9s said: yeah, i'm pretty sad right now, too. | |
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jessyMD32781 said: i'm sorry, i just can't get over your gall at accuse me of not being genuine of my respect for you. perhaps if i made that declaration now it wouldn't be genuine as i have lost a great deal of respect for you but i say what i feel not what i think people want to hear. so if i say that i respect you then i fucking mean it but for you to say that you don't think that my respect is genuine...well then fuck you. you just completely lost my respect. i hope your satisfied.
[This message was edited Sun Feb 29 16:59:48 2004 by jessyMD32781] Hey, all I can go by is what I read here and what I read... I RESPECT YOUR DECISION NOT TO SHAVE YOUR PITS AS A WAY TO CHALLENGE SOCIETY'S FEMININE IDEAL!!!!! HEAR THAT, RESPECT!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T! SING IT WITH ME NOW!!!!! errr, this to me does not come across to me as respecting my decisions, because of the way it is written and with such sarcasm. I never called you a liar, which is completely different from what I've said in all my posts; I think you have totally misinterpreted me. And maybe, I don't get your humour What I'm sorry for, is my part in what looks like a misunderstanding - I don't understand you and I don't think you understand me. It's interesting to me that the only thing that you have commented on, from some of my posts, was about what I challenged you with, like in the last one about the genuineness of your respect for me. I wrote a good deal more in my posts before, which included actually sharing with you that I agreed with you, but you've not mentioned anything about that, the times I have expressed a similar stance to your own. Perhaps it is best to leave it at that. I don't like the 'fuck you' bit. Believe it or not, I'm not satisfied about losing your respect jessy, I'm a bit sad that this interesting topic ended up this way; in misunderstanding. But I think it's best to be left. | |
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So weird that this thread is popping up right now. I just had to shave my entire body for the play I'm in (I play a transsexual). We don't open until May, but we are doing a photo shoot tonight in full costume and makeup, so I had to do it. Man, it feels so weird! No leg hair, no underarm hair, no chest hair!!! The only hair I have on my body is on top of my head!!! Now I have an appreciation for what you ladies go through (although most of you have probably never had to endure the pain of shaving your nipples! OUCH! ) Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. (Ecclesiastes 7:9) | |
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Therapy said: jessyMD32781 said: i'm sorry, i just can't get over your gall at accuse me of not being genuine of my respect for you. perhaps if i made that declaration now it wouldn't be genuine as i have lost a great deal of respect for you but i say what i feel not what i think people want to hear. so if i say that i respect you then i fucking mean it but for you to say that you don't think that my respect is genuine...well then fuck you. you just completely lost my respect. i hope your satisfied.
[This message was edited Sun Feb 29 16:59:48 2004 by jessyMD32781] Hey, all I can go by is what I read here and what I read... I RESPECT YOUR DECISION NOT TO SHAVE YOUR PITS AS A WAY TO CHALLENGE SOCIETY'S FEMININE IDEAL!!!!! HEAR THAT, RESPECT!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T! SING IT WITH ME NOW!!!!! errr, this to me does not come across to me as respecting my decisions, because of the way it is written and with such sarcasm. I never called you a liar, which is completely different from what I've said in all my posts; I think you have totally misinterpreted me. And maybe, I don't get your humour What I'm sorry for, is my part in what looks like a misunderstanding - I don't understand you and I don't think you understand me. It's interesting to me that the only thing that you have commented on, from some of my posts, was about what I challenged you with, like in the last one about the genuineness of your respect for me. I wrote a good deal more in my posts before, which included actually sharing with you that I agreed with you, but you've not mentioned anything about that, the times I have expressed a similar stance to your own. Perhaps it is best to leave it at that. I don't like the 'fuck you' bit. Believe it or not, I'm not satisfied about losing your respect jessy, I'm a bit sad that this interesting topic ended up this way; in misunderstanding. But I think it's best to be left. the reason why i only commented on your accusing me of being a liar (which is the same thing as accusing someone of not being genuine) and nothing else is because after you insult my character I don't care what you have to say. so what if you agree with me, you think that I lie and that i'm not a decent person. Before you crossed that line i commented on many of the other issues that you brought up in your posts, as well as pointed out major weaknesses in you argument, and tried to have an interesting debate. and what i got in return was being accused of lying. how did you expect me to react? happy? the reason why i wrote about the whole respect issue the way i did was because i had posted that i respect you several times before and you really didn't seem to be picking that up at all so I wrote it in a much more attention catching way. the 'fuck you' bit wasn't meant for you to like. it was meant for you to understand how deeply you hurt me with you accusations and to offend you. You don't just go around accusing people of not being honest with their intentions and then expect them to be happy about it, do you? You were WAY out of line with that. you can call me anything you want , but to accuse me of not being genuine, of being a LIAR, you better be ready to feel my wrath. Nothing pisses me off more than being accused of being something that i'm not. your whole paragraph about agreeing with me about my whole hair relaxing bit didn't come across as being very clear. one of us may have mis-typed. I;m actually pretty surprised that you're not satisfied about losing my respect because in your earlier post you said that you don't care if you have it or not because i am nothing but a liar. I'm sorry but you just really crossed me. I know that after a bit i'll forget about it but damn...you really, really, really, really, really, really, really crossed me. | |
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jessyMD32781 said: Therapy said: Hey, all I can go by is what I read here and what I read... I RESPECT YOUR DECISION NOT TO SHAVE YOUR PITS AS A WAY TO CHALLENGE SOCIETY'S FEMININE IDEAL!!!!! HEAR THAT, RESPECT!!!!! R-E-S-P-E-C-T! SING IT WITH ME NOW!!!!! errr, this to me does not come across to me as respecting my decisions, because of the way it is written and with such sarcasm. I never called you a liar, which is completely different from what I've said in all my posts; I think you have totally misinterpreted me. And maybe, I don't get your humour What I'm sorry for, is my part in what looks like a misunderstanding - I don't understand you and I don't think you understand me. It's interesting to me that the only thing that you have commented on, from some of my posts, was about what I challenged you with, like in the last one about the genuineness of your respect for me. I wrote a good deal more in my posts before, which included actually sharing with you that I agreed with you, but you've not mentioned anything about that, the times I have expressed a similar stance to your own. Perhaps it is best to leave it at that. I don't like the 'fuck you' bit. Believe it or not, I'm not satisfied about losing your respect jessy, I'm a bit sad that this interesting topic ended up this way; in misunderstanding. But I think it's best to be left. the reason why i only commented on your accusing me of being a liar (which is the same thing as accusing someone of not being genuine) and nothing else is because after you insult my character I don't care what you have to say. so what if you agree with me, you think that I lie and that i'm not a decent person. Before you crossed that line i commented on many of the other issues that you brought up in your posts, as well as pointed out major weaknesses in you argument, and tried to have an interesting debate. and what i got in return was being accused of lying. how did you expect me to react? happy? the reason why i wrote about the whole respect issue the way i did was because i had posted that i respect you several times before and you really didn't seem to be picking that up at all so I wrote it in a much more attention catching way. the 'fuck you' bit wasn't meant for you to like. it was meant for you to understand how deeply you hurt me with you accusations and to offend you. You don't just go around accusing people of not being honest with their intentions and then expect them to be happy about it, do you? You were WAY out of line with that. you can call me anything you want , but to accuse me of not being genuine, of being a LIAR, you better be ready to feel my wrath. Nothing pisses me off more than being accused of being something that i'm not. your whole paragraph about agreeing with me about my whole hair relaxing bit didn't come across as being very clear. one of us may have mis-typed. I;m actually pretty surprised that you're not satisfied about losing my respect because in your earlier post you said that you don't care if you have it or not because i am nothing but a liar. I'm sorry but you just really crossed me. I know that after a bit i'll forget about it but damn...you really, really, really, really, really, really, really crossed me. I really don't think anything I say will make any difference, so I won't say anymore. Thank you for the above post. | |
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All of which proves my point about body hair bringing people together. Wait, that didn't come out right... | |
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Therapy said: jessyMD32781 said: the reason why i only commented on your accusing me of being a liar (which is the same thing as accusing someone of not being genuine) and nothing else is because after you insult my character I don't care what you have to say. so what if you agree with me, you think that I lie and that i'm not a decent person. Before you crossed that line i commented on many of the other issues that you brought up in your posts, as well as pointed out major weaknesses in you argument, and tried to have an interesting debate. and what i got in return was being accused of lying. how did you expect me to react? happy? the reason why i wrote about the whole respect issue the way i did was because i had posted that i respect you several times before and you really didn't seem to be picking that up at all so I wrote it in a much more attention catching way. the 'fuck you' bit wasn't meant for you to like. it was meant for you to understand how deeply you hurt me with you accusations and to offend you. You don't just go around accusing people of not being honest with their intentions and then expect them to be happy about it, do you? You were WAY out of line with that. you can call me anything you want , but to accuse me of not being genuine, of being a LIAR, you better be ready to feel my wrath. Nothing pisses me off more than being accused of being something that i'm not. your whole paragraph about agreeing with me about my whole hair relaxing bit didn't come across as being very clear. one of us may have mis-typed. I;m actually pretty surprised that you're not satisfied about losing my respect because in your earlier post you said that you don't care if you have it or not because i am nothing but a liar. I'm sorry but you just really crossed me. I know that after a bit i'll forget about it but damn...you really, really, really, really, really, really, really crossed me. I really don't think anything I say will make any difference, so I won't say anymore. Thank you for the above post. damn right and you're welcome. | |
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I don't know, man.
It's a heated argument on an armpit hair thread on prince.org. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: I don't know, man.
It's a heated argument on an armpit hair thread on prince.org. Ohhhh da controversy!! | |
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INSATIABLE said: I don't know, man.
It's a heated argument on an armpit hair thread on prince.org. Damn, pleople..... Is it really that serious? They did WHAT??!....
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kiss85 said: INSATIABLE said: I don't know, man.
It's a heated argument on an armpit hair thread on prince.org. Damn, pleople..... Is it really that serious? the armpit hair isn't but being disrespected or being perceived as being disrepected is. | |
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sinisterpentatonic said: INSATIABLE said: I don't know, man.
It's a heated argument on an armpit hair thread on prince.org. Ohhhh da controversy!! "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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