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So rd and C can come back?

2the9s said:

:LOL:

Paisley said:

indeed.

2the9s said:

Paisley said:

That's okay! At least there will be ads soon!

The problem is denial. Everybody wants to forget what happened and move on as long as it didn't affect them.
That's how slavery and racism have thrived so long in this country. I hold anger to none of yall, but as far as being friends or even remotely cool(you've got to be kidding) :LOL: Also i hear that the other(black side) makes racist remarks also. Can anybody point these out or are they just speculation? Cause the shit i got is from the horses mouth printed in black and white.

KoolAid said:

But I came here to talk about Prince, not black and white issues, and it irks me to see just about every thread ruined by people who see racism in everything. That's YOUR problem. Not mine. Why should I have to read such stupidity? That other site wasn't here, someone brought it here, and it seems to be all you can talk about. I wouldn't have seen it at all if someone hadn't been a sh*t stirrer. GET OVER IT!!! Take it to e-mail. Argue to your heart's content on IM. Referencing the KKK is offensive. Not all white people are that ignorant, just as you wouldn't want me to believe that all black people are drug dealers. Applekisses is not a member of that group, and you shouldn't even allude to it. That is so rude. That's all I'm going to say, and if you can't see what I'm talking about, then I feel sorry for you. You will forever be clouded in mind by your OWN resentment and hatred.

gemini13 said:

Then you may be in the wrong section. This is GD and prince and prince related subjects aren't supposed to be in here.
What i see in applekisses may differ from what you see.
So go to the correct forum and talk about prince till you are blue in the face :LOL:

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So rd and C can come back?

gemini13 said:

Then you may be in the wrong section. This is GD and prince and prince related subjects aren't supposed to be in here.
What i see in applekisses may differ from what you see.
So go to the correct forum and talk about prince till you are blue in the face :LOL:

KoolAid said:

And looking at where and what you post it looks like Prince is one of the few things you don't talk about. You are the type of person that hides and tells lies to start shit.
Show me you prince posts. I would like to see them :LOL:

KoolAid said:

Did somebody say Troll?

And i see you like to flame as well. :LOL:

gemini13 said:

You wouldn't know who I was anyway. I was new here about two months ago. I got tired of reading that douchebag's reverse racism, and left the site. Yes. I left the site ALL BECAUSE OF RDAHOLE. He is a total scumbag. I cannot TOLERATE black people who use racism as a crutch. My agreeing that Rdhull was/is a racist himself means that I have no brain? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

OKaaay???

KoolAid said:

whaaa? sos said that? now that Im gone etc? typical but still...

gazoo said:

The "other" Gemini? No way :LOL:

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So rd and C can come back?

So it all comes down to communication, does it not? We need to choose our words carefully, since this is a medium of nothing but words. Does this mean we can't make jokes or give each other a bit of a hard time? Of course not, but we need to be RESPONSIBLE about it. We need to start examining our racial, political and social issues in an intelligent manner, instead of making lame jokes and calling each other names. We need to talk with one another on an adult level. Most of all, we need to respect each other.

In my previous incarnation on the Org as Stymie, I was accussed by select orgers and some who used different screen names to try and insult me, one of which has tried to use my words against me on another site, of being an Uncle Tom, of not being black enough, of being a self-loathing black woman, etc. Some of these same people spouted hateful words towards persons of another race, some kind of tit-for-tat bullshit, you call me a racist and I'm gonna call you one back, yada yada. Some of the things I said in the past were said out of my own ignorance. I can admit that. I am a work in progress whose eyes were recently opened with the other site drama.

I am choosing to rise above the bullshit.

Whether or not people choose to believe it, I am not a sell-out or any other deroggatory term my own people have chosen to call me. I choose to see the person and not the color of his or her skin, and when I refer to my friends, I don't say 'my white friend Chris' or 'my Hispanic friend Richard'. They are Chris and Richard to me and I really should not have let the words of a few people affect me so much, especially when they have to hide behind multiple screen personalities to do so. As far as my dating preference, as I am sure that will be tried to be used against me yet again, when I made the comment I should have given an explanation as to why I feel the way I do or maybe I shouldn't have. Evryone has reasons as to why they are attracted to a certain type of person. Does that make me self-loathing? Don't know. Don't give a fuck anymore.

There are a lot of times where I feel that I am in the middle on something. If I agree with someone who happens to be white, I get accused of being a sell-out, so I stay on the sidelines and say nothing. And that's one of the problems on the Org: Staying on the sidelines. Racism and homophobia is wrong no matter who spouts it. I do not believe with my whole being that rdhull is a homophobe. I believe the issues he had with Chris were trying to prove a point: There are racists things said on the Org that go unchecked. But that's on both sides, though. If someone who's white starts a bait thread and says something hateful, someone black will strike back with something equally hateful, which is, in my opinion, counterproductive and juvenile. This works both ways, by the way.

KoolAid said:

And looking at where and what you post it looks like Prince is one of the few things you don't talk about. You are the type of person that hides and tells lies to start shit.
Show me you prince posts. I would like to see them :LOL:

KoolAid said:

Look em up.

"Prince is one of the few things you don't talk about.Show me your Prince posts.I would like to see them."


This brings up an interesting point.Not mentioning any names,but a few of those Quaidbowl guys NEVER came here to discuss Prince.If you do a search of their posts, you would see that they only posted in the P&R and General discussion forums (two forums where race-related topics frequently come up).Which kinda makes you wonder...what were their REAL reasons for joining this site?