sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. | |
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sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. Ah...but did they think of YOU in a sexual manner? | |
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2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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DudeDrops said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. Ah...but did they think of YOU in a sexual manner? You are correct... but I was always honest with them... ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. I did. That's me in front. | |
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2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. I did. That's me in front. I knew that wasn't me... changing are you? ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. I did. That's me in front. I knew that wasn't me... changing are you? Sag, I got a bad haircut again. Where's that emoticon with the big ears? | |
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2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. I did. That's me in front. I knew that wasn't me... changing are you? Sag, I got a bad haircut again. Where's that emoticon with the big ears? Sorry to hear that 9s... Don't you have a regular hairdesigner? ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: 2the9s said: sag10 said: I love having men friends... They are loving, they hurt, they cry. They confide..they take care of me.
And not once did I think of them in a sexual manner. I can't believe you did this.. I told you once to stay away from my behind.. I did. That's me in front. I knew that wasn't me... changing are you? Sag, I got a bad haircut again. Where's that emoticon with the big ears? Sorry to hear that 9s... Don't you have a regular hairdesigner? They call him "The Butcher." | |
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Therapy said: I have male friends.
But I've never kept in contact with any of my past boyfriends. Somehow, afterwards, I don't want to continue a friendship. My friend said something about this recently. She thinks that there is usually a hidden agenda on one or both parties side when a friendship continues after a relationship. I think she may be right... i'm the opposite. i'm friends with alla my exes . . even after the humping stops the friendship is still there. can't turn that off like a faucet or something cause for me it's not night and day like that | |
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XxAxX said: Therapy said: I have male friends.
But I've never kept in contact with any of my past boyfriends. Somehow, afterwards, I don't want to continue a friendship. My friend said something about this recently. She thinks that there is usually a hidden agenda on one or both parties side when a friendship continues after a relationship. I think she may be right... i'm the opposite. i'm friends with alla my exes . . even after the humping stops the friendship is still there. can't turn that off like a faucet or something cause for me it's not night and day like that Perhaps I didn't allow for the friendship to develop enough in the first place... | |
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rdhull said: can a straight persona and gay person be friends? thats the question
Yes! | |
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I think there is such a thing as platonic relationships.
I have just never been able to maintain one. Eventually, the guy starts focuing on the female parts. So...how's everybody doing? | |
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Yes they can...actually most of my goood friends are guys. I have some good friends that are girls but I mostly hang out with guys...besides all my girlfriends want to do is hang out with their boyfriends which sucks for me the tag along | |
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SensualMelody said: I think there is such a thing as platonic relationships.
I have just never been able to maintain one. Eventually, the guy starts focuing on the female parts. I prefer them to be more Aristotelian, if you know what I mean... | |
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Of course Men & Women can be JUST FRIENDS!
My best friend of 11 years is a Male, and our friendship gets stronger each and every day. There is no sexual attraction, hang ups or bullshit involved, just pure friendship. Personally I prefer not to remain in touch with my ex-boyfriends because it is just too much of a burden & can cause too many head fucks so I prefer to leave the past Dead and Buried. | |
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If your attractive,he thinks about it. | |
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crazyhorse said: If your attractive,he thinks about it.
I understand what your saying but there is a vast difference between thinking about it and doing something about it. Some boundaries are just not meant to be crossed especially if U genuinely value & respect the other party involved. | |
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I agree with you 100%.And its usually the woman that makes that decision.If given the chance the dude will risk everything for one damn night.I did,and I 've regreted it every day since.That sayin that men think with there other head is right on the money,lol. | |
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rdhull said: can a straight persona and gay person be friends? thats the question
I find this a strange question. People can be friends with people gender and sexual preference don't matter, it's just that sometimes attraction gets in the way if it doesn't come from both ends. But I think as long as both people are open, honest and clear about their feelings and intentions and treat each other with respect (which friendship is all about in the first place) then nothing matters (not age, raise, sexuality nor gender). If you don't agree I think you miss a lot out of live, I think you might have some negative experience, or are you just trying to provoke us? | |
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Well My bestfriend is My lover, My woman so i do relaly believe that men and women can b freinds. U can have 'just friends' as well from the opposite sex sure. Buti see no reason y a person from the opp sex cant b ur best friend, or even ur partner in life ... =) How sweet it is to be loved by U... Ur beautiful!!
Sometimes I freak out at how happy we could be... L.o.m.l.... = U, I would Die For U... (u know who u are) | |
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My answer is of course!!! Then again I would answer that because most of my friends are male.
I've never really had much of an affinity with the same sex they always seem to annoy me in the end whereas all of me boys are there for me, and you get a certain friendship you can't get with women. Not saying I hate girls cos I talk to loads of girls and stuff but I jus' trust men more and find them better company... christ knows why JaneyPoos used to be it... then they changed what it was. Now what I am isn't it and what is it is strange and frightening to me...
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Whateva said: I find this a strange question. People can be friends with people gender and sexual preference don't matter, it's just that sometimes attraction gets in the way if it doesn't come from both ends.
But I think as long as both people are open, honest and clear about their feelings and intentions and treat each other with respect (which friendship is all about in the first place) then nothing matters (not age, raise, sexuality nor gender). My feelings exactly. | |
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Byron said: Whateva said: I find this a strange question. People can be friends with people gender and sexual preference don't matter, it's just that sometimes attraction gets in the way if it doesn't come from both ends.
But I think as long as both people are open, honest and clear about their feelings and intentions and treat each other with respect (which friendship is all about in the first place) then nothing matters (not age, raise, sexuality nor gender). My feelings exactly. Hi hun | |
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Lleena said: Yes, I think they can Lisa.
I'm with Lleena. | |
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Whateva said: Byron said: Whateva said: I find this a strange question. People can be friends with people gender and sexual preference don't matter, it's just that sometimes attraction gets in the way if it doesn't come from both ends.
But I think as long as both people are open, honest and clear about their feelings and intentions and treat each other with respect (which friendship is all about in the first place) then nothing matters (not age, raise, sexuality nor gender). My feelings exactly. Hi hun | |
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rdhull said: can a straight persona and gay person be friends? thats the question
Yes! With benefits! | |
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crazyhorse said: I agree with you 100%.And its usually the woman that makes that decision.If given the chance the dude will risk everything for one damn night.I did,and I 've regreted it every day since.That sayin that men think with there other head is right on the money,lol.
Yep. They did WHAT??!....
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LittlePill said: rdhull said: can a straight persona and gay person be friends? thats the question
Yes! With benefits! Yep, benefits like: A Grocery List ... 1) You always have a date 2) A Medical Plan, and Dentist 3) Someone to pick out your clothes 4) To Travel With, No Strings Attatched 5) Someone to rescue you from Trolls | |
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