CtheUncanny said:

C be careful of twists and turns etc

CtheUncanny said:

i wasn't being a smartalek, i was making a point, and one i feel is fairly valid. in the past (thankfully not anymore) the moderation when it came to racial/ethnic/gender/sexual orientation was fairly one sided.

but this is not true any more.

i have no qualms about what i said, i don't feel it was racist, since it's not like i was condoning people calling each other any of the slurs i mentioned. untill you pointed it out in this thread, i didn't even know that thread was deleted, and i am willing to bet that thread was not deleted because of my comments, so much as because any threads about banned orgers gets locked.

if my using the N word offended you, i am sorry, as it was not meant to. i didn't use it in a context that would would keep me from saying it in front of any of my black family members. i used it in a way that points to the evil of it in the same way that the F word is used, and questioning why one was acceptable and one not. but i do apologize if the mere mention of the word offended you, i did not mean it to.

CtheUncanny said:

well, no, they are human, and i don't think they know everything that goes on, nor did i say they did. but they know more of what goes on here than i do.

Reply to 'This Used To Be My Playground'


Seems more like behind the building after school...

What y'all fighting about now? Oh Cborg name calling...

"black family members"


[This message was edited Sun Jan 25 18:20:30 PST 2004 by rdhull]

oOoOJulyOoOo said:

rdhull said:

yes, i happen to have an uncle, 3 cousins, a sister-in-law, 2 nephews, a coupla ex-boyfriends, and several other extended family members, with whom i have occasionally discussed the topic with... what's wrong with that?
[This message was edited Sun Jan 25 18:23:53 PST 2004 by cborgman]

Missed you!

oOoOJulyOoOo said:

i did not, now would i ever call someone that word.

and we're not fighting at all, i think we're having a rather good clarification that is about clearing up misconceptions. but obviously there are a couple of people trying to stir up a fight...


and on that note, C, would you like to take it org notes, since said people are trying to make it somethinjg a LOt bigger than it is? too many cooks spoil the broth

cborgman said:

nothing cept that it sounds like the p[roverbial *** guy who gets caught saying nigger when their guard is down and then going "but I got black friedns " etc

nothing wrong with "that"




"be careful C"-Sparkle

rdhull said:

you just said it without calling someone it, how is that any different?

cborgman said:

Because thats why. If u cant see why then its no wonder u here trying to make all nicey nice.

rdhull said:

because... i'm white?

wouldn't that be... racism? i'm not saying you are, i don't think you are, but i hope you see my point.
[This message was edited Sun Jan 25 18:33:15 PST 2004 by cborgman]

All I can say is be careful C..cuidado. YOu know the deal.

rdhull said:

he doesn't have to worry, he hasn't flamed anyone, or said anything he shouldn't.

cborgman said:

he doesnt have to worry about those things...just about folks who "got it twisted"..but he already nows so its actually jusd a reminder

rdhull said:

well, why shouldn't he be upset with you for saying it? it's the same context and the same word.

Number23 said:

Didn't you call me a "silly old bugger" when i got banned?

cborgman said:

Not when you are the source of it.

OMG HI HONEY!!!

cborgman said:

See what I mean C...see what I mean

CtheUncanny said:

true.

oOoOJulyOoOo said:

Just like in high school :LOL:




a little tooo snippy edit
[This message was edited Sun Jan 25 18:47:37 PST 2004 by CtheUncanny]

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

lol later for the spankings...right now an old friend is back in town and we are going to have a few hard drinks and settle some shit

Ok helllooo... check ..check...


Hello!

rdhull said:

well, honeslty, rd, how is it any different?

CtheUncanny said:

C, 23 is cool...he didnt know th e full story.

shut up all of you.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

:HUG: :HUG: :HUG: I was getting around to you :HUG:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

Hey you Nice avatar :LOL: