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Strip Clubs Ladies how do you feel about them?When in a relationship does it matter to you if he goes to the local club after work once in awhile for a beer?Do you find them degrading to women?Have any of you ladies ever even been to one?What about lap dancing?I wanna know how ya feel about them
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I sooo wanna go to a strip club. Now that I'm 21, I have that advantage. NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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I wanna go too
So far I've been a wuss tho wuss edit [This message was edited Thu Jan 29 18:20:38 PST 2004 by Nikster] | |
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I love them actually. I would go with my man or just girlfriends. Most men go alone cause they know their
woman wouldnt wanna go with them but sinse I do like them I would probably be upset if my man went with out me. He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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I go every once in awhile.When I first got outta basic training a few buddies and I went to the hollywood tropicana for mud wrestling.It was a blast I was covered head to toe. | |
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If I was in a relationship and my man went to a strip club with his friends it wouldn't be a problem for me. [This message was edited Thu Jan 29 18:46:03 PST 2004 by Paisley] | |
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Strip clubs dont bother me.. If my man wants to go to one, that is fine with me.. BUT Lap dances are a no no.. I dont think they are OK. If your man is attracted to you and he is getting what he needs home, there should be no need for him to have to go to a strip club for a lap dance.. But as far as hangin with the boys and goin to have a beer or 2, I have no problem with that. I know how guys can tease their guy friends with the Pussy whipped comments or the ball and chain comments... I also wouldn't mind goin to a strip club with a group of people.
As far as how I feel about strippers, I really dont have much of an opinion. I dont think it is the most tasteful job or the most honorable job, but ITS A JOB! [This message was edited Thu Jan 29 19:18:07 PST 2004 by BabyCakes] The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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i've never been to a strip joint, although i live by several of 'em here in downtown mpls. as for how i feel about 'em, i don't really care. | |
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They're really pretty boring imho.
Even lap dances are boring cos you are not allowed to touch or remove your own pants. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: They're really pretty boring imho.
Even lap dances are boring cos you are not allowed to touch or remove your own pants. | |
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in my early (& quite foolish) 20s, I went a few times to a strip joint called Camelot
(as bad play on words, we sometimes called it "Come-alot".. damn I was a knucklehead back in the day, & made corny jokes to boot..) as "visually stimulatable" a person as I am (& have been, ever since I could see- & appreciate- the physical differences between a man & a woman) the experience of being in a strip club- even an "upscale" 1 like Camelot- was about as shallow, superficial & unfulfilling as the mostly silicon-breasted "hotties" that plied their trade there. the drawbacks, more specifically : - in this particular place, you had to always be ordering a drink, & even the Cokes were FIVE DOLLARS apeice.. & yes, you had to pay for each 1 - NO refills. if you want to have the cheap thrill of sliding a dollar bill between the thigh & garter of 1 of the girls, you'd better bring twice the amount of whatever you planned. - yeah for that moment you're there.. it can be visually stimulating- even "exciting"- to see an attractive woman undress in front of you (in DC, they essentially "take it all off") but as a "voyeur" you have to buy into or create your own "fantasy" that this woman is undressing for you &/or that you're going to have sex with her.. (yeah, RIGHT!) - anyone who's ever been in 1 of these places- again, even in an "upscale" type joint- has seen the types of men that typically visit these places. you see men whom you would think are good-looking enough & would never have any trouble meeting women or having at least a girlfriend.. you see those types & you wonder why they are there.. then you also see plenty of the opposite: those men for whom a strip joint is the CLOSEST they'll ever come to having sex- unless they go all the way & pay for it.. in other words, it's easy to develop a "loser by association" complex, because whether you have a significant other or not, you're in there too. so the sum of my "strip joint experiences" (there were maybe 5 altogether) was that it's an "expensive cheap thrill" that will most likely leave you wishing you were with (or had stayed with) you wife or girlfriend. I can't tell who's degrading themselves more: the women who present themselves as "sexual objects of MALE FANTASY".. or the (typically) pathetic men who ogle them. (my guess, off the top of my head: the men. at least the women get some money out of it, but even there.. I'm reaching to find some way- any way- to rationalize this sad scenario..) the last I went was in '91, as part of a bachelor party. I was about as drunk off my ass as everyone else was, but as soon as we got in that place, I got bored & could not wait to leave. every now & then some buddies I know talk about going; when they ask me, I say "no thank you" before they even finish the question. okay, if you've never been before, you could probably justify going just once, simply to say that you been there, that you've seen what it's like.. but really: your time (& money) could be better spent in a LOT of ways. I'll see you tonight..
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How do I feel about em? The same way I feel about any other type of 'fantasy' games people play with themselves and each other--fine in moderation, but better to spend more time taking care of, and paying quality attention to, your sex life reality.
Most of the clubs are pretty cheesy, anyway (yes, I've been). [This message was edited Fri Jan 30 1:22:55 PST 2004 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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bkw said: They're really pretty boring imho.
Even lap dances are boring cos you are not allowed to touch or remove your own pants. "Climb in my fur." | |
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I buy all my friend girls lap dances at the strip joints I frequent in.!!! ain't no shame in my game !! To Sir, with Love | |
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I have gone to them with my guy friends...I'm a trooper!!! | |
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The strip clubs down in mexico are outta hand.Fuzzy town and Drip are the best.Wild shit down there.You can bang any one of them for $40 and it comes with a free case of the clap. | |
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crazyhorse said: The strip clubs down in mexico are outta hand.Fuzzy town and Drip are the best.Wild shit down there.You can bang any one of them for $40 and it comes with a free case of the clap.
I stopped goin to Mex in the 80's. Them corrupt federalities have robbed me on many occasions. But I remember back in the day day we'd go to Bambi's... and a few other joints in TJ... I'll never forget the donkey shows hee haw edit [This message was edited Fri Jan 30 1:06:04 PST 2004 by PEJ] To Sir, with Love | |
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PEJ said: crazyhorse said: The strip clubs down in mexico are outta hand.Fuzzy town and Drip are the best.Wild shit down there.You can bang any one of them for $40 and it comes with a free case of the clap.
I stopped goin to Mex in the 80's. Them corrupt federalities have robbed me on many occasions. But I remember back in the day day we'd go to Bambi's... and a few other joints in TJ... I'll never forget the donkey shows hee haw edit Donkey shows? We gonna have to move this thread over to LS&R soon... | |
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I remember bambi's and I've never seen a live donkey show.There was this one time we went to some fucky ass place and saw some sick shit though.This lady comes out and has an ass the size of a vw bug.Whoever wanted could pay $5 and just start mackn'lol.Then she comes out later doin this trippn dance opens her legs a bit and a grapefruit falls on tha floor,sick lol | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: PEJ said: crazyhorse said: The strip clubs down in mexico are outta hand.Fuzzy town and Drip are the best.Wild shit down there.You can bang any one of them for $40 and it comes with a free case of the clap.
I stopped goin to Mex in the 80's. Them corrupt federalities have robbed me on many occasions. But I remember back in the day day we'd go to Bambi's... and a few other joints in TJ... I'll never forget the donkey shows hee haw edit Donkey shows? We gonna have to move this thread over to LS&R soon... To Sir, with Love | |
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crazyhorse said: I remember bambi's and I've never seen a live donkey show.There was this one time we went to some fucky ass place and saw some sick shit though.This lady comes out and has an ass the size of a vw bug.Whoever wanted could pay $5 and just start mackn'lol.Then she comes out later doin this trippn dance opens her legs a bit and a grapefruit falls on tha floor,sick lol
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PEJ said hee haw edit
lmao | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: i've never been to a strip joint, although i live by several of 'em here in downtown mpls. as for how i feel about 'em, i don't really care.
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crazyhorse said: PEJ said hee haw edit
lmao I have heard of a lot going on in Mexico but a grapefruit? Wanted: Virtual Sugar Daddy to help me buy stuff on Farmville and move up the ranks. Use of Viagra not authorized. Get your two minutes and go! | |
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