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Reply #30 posted 01/16/04 5:30pm

rdhull

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XxAxX said:

well you know what? i like your style. i prefer a more brazen approach. and, i agree with you a lot of the time. then again, sometimes i really don't lol but that's ok. i admit i err on the side of kissing up to the ORGgods around here but i really appreciate this site. i'd hate it if i put so much work and effort into soemthing only to have a passerby trash it. even playfully.. they don't even get paid to run this place!!!


Not that it means anything but to myself I think it speaks volumes that I chose to post more here than th e other place acrioss the lake..the ability to have a voice as well as one that may be critical about the powers that be as well is taken into ocnsideration ..there have been many times I have hailled the moderators and owners and thanked them for giving us this place ..but nobody ever rememebrs that shit only the so calld bad shit. Thats triflin in my book but it is human nature...Im not saying if I odnt like it I can go somewhere else becaue I already know that..Immjust saying things are semi unfair at times like this and sometimes cliques are very influential on the mods...but sometimes th e emperors want noody to say anything about their pretty clothess..thats a trip to me
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Reply #31 posted 01/16/04 5:30pm

XxAxX

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rdhull said:

Its coming..and dont act as if you wouldnt be a tad aprehensive or upset if you recieved this..out of nowhere.


I certainly would be. It's just that I think we've all been numbed by the idiotic way that Ian ran these boards, utterly ruining the place through his incompetence. I don't think we're used to dealing with someone who is levelheaded, who offers a fair warning, and who is genuinely interested in improving the quality of this place for as many people as possible.

It's serious but take it for what it is, not what it might be.



whoa. excuse me. i disagree with that remark about ian. i'm not necessarily the *best* judge but man i think that's an unfair description of ian's ability and style
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Reply #32 posted 01/16/04 5:32pm

2the9s

XxAxX said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

Its coming..and dont act as if you wouldnt be a tad aprehensive or upset if you recieved this..out of nowhere.


I certainly would be. It's just that I think we've all been numbed by the idiotic way that Ian ran these boards, utterly ruining the place through his incompetence. I don't think we're used to dealing with someone who is levelheaded, who offers a fair warning, and who is genuinely interested in improving the quality of this place for as many people as possible.

It's serious but take it for what it is, not what it might be.



whoa. excuse me. i disagree with that remark about ian. i'm not necessarily the *best* judge but man i think that's an unfair description of ian's ability and style


Fair enough.
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Reply #33 posted 01/16/04 5:32pm

rdhull

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rdhull said:

Its coming..and dont act as if you wouldnt be a tad aprehensive or upset if you recieved this..out of nowhere.


I certainly would be. It's just that I think we've all been numbed by the idiotic way that Ian ran these boards, utterly ruining the place through his incompetence. I don't think we're used to dealing with someone who is levelheaded, who offers a fair warning, and who is genuinely interested in improving the quality of this place for as many people as possible.

It's serious but take it for what it is, not what it might be.


Dot u think i se that and would want that..point being in this so called "bad amount of anatagonistic posing " etc the same has went on a few times against me by some (guess who) person as well...including character assasination.
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Reply #34 posted 01/16/04 5:33pm

rdhull

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2the9s said:

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

FuzzyD said:

I dont say too much in these rooms...but I do have an opinion here...

At times there are some comments that I do cringe at - but mostly it is people having fun in a controlled environment.
Maybe I haven't read the same as you RD, but I dunno, surely its all in jest, or am I being a bit naive...?


I don't think Ben's comments were in jest if that's what you mean. But you're right about the rest!

are u fucking kidding me? who are u and what have u done with the real 2the9s ?

oops I said "fucking" good lawd..I see what thy mean that I am harsh


What do you mean? I was cosigning the "fun and controlled environment" comment. confuse


Okay I misunderstood what u meant- Im sorry i apologize.
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Reply #35 posted 01/16/04 5:34pm

XxAxX

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rdhull said:

XxAxX said:

well you know what? i like your style. i prefer a more brazen approach. and, i agree with you a lot of the time. then again, sometimes i really don't lol but that's ok. i admit i err on the side of kissing up to the ORGgods around here but i really appreciate this site. i'd hate it if i put so much work and effort into soemthing only to have a passerby trash it. even playfully.. they don't even get paid to run this place!!!


Not that it means anything but to myself I think it speaks volumes that I chose to post more here than th e other place acrioss the lake..the ability to have a voice as well as one that may be critical about the powers that be as well is taken into ocnsideration ..there have been many times I have hailled the moderators and owners and thanked them for giving us this place ..but nobody ever rememebrs that shit only the so calld bad shit. Thats triflin in my book but it is human nature...Im not saying if I odnt like it I can go somewhere else becaue I already know that..Immjust saying things are semi unfair at times like this and sometimes cliques are very influential on the mods...but sometimes th e emperors want noody to say anything about their pretty clothess..thats a trip to me



well, as far as any website, or any other arena of human interaction for that matter, being completely 'fair' it ain't gonna happen. just doesn't work thatway. those in power make the rules.

and, may take on the note from ben and why you received it is that you've been openly critical of how this website is run and you haven't presented those criticisms in the right forum. the site discussion forum, for example. (ooops. or maybe you did and i missed it? see how i am?) i mean arguing a point about your perception of the moderators in the general discussion forum can kind of incite a rebellious trend, in a way.
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Reply #36 posted 01/16/04 5:36pm

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And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents
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Reply #37 posted 01/16/04 5:36pm

BlissedAgain

i'm puttin' on my red jacket

yes i am
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Reply #38 posted 01/16/04 5:38pm

TweetyBird

boxed
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Reply #39 posted 01/16/04 5:38pm

2the9s

XxAxX said:

rdhull said:

XxAxX said:

well you know what? i like your style. i prefer a more brazen approach. and, i agree with you a lot of the time. then again, sometimes i really don't lol but that's ok. i admit i err on the side of kissing up to the ORGgods around here but i really appreciate this site. i'd hate it if i put so much work and effort into soemthing only to have a passerby trash it. even playfully.. they don't even get paid to run this place!!!


Not that it means anything but to myself I think it speaks volumes that I chose to post more here than th e other place acrioss the lake..the ability to have a voice as well as one that may be critical about the powers that be as well is taken into ocnsideration ..there have been many times I have hailled the moderators and owners and thanked them for giving us this place ..but nobody ever rememebrs that shit only the so calld bad shit. Thats triflin in my book but it is human nature...Im not saying if I odnt like it I can go somewhere else becaue I already know that..Immjust saying things are semi unfair at times like this and sometimes cliques are very influential on the mods...but sometimes th e emperors want noody to say anything about their pretty clothess..thats a trip to me



well, as far as any website, or any other arena of human interaction for that matter, being completely 'fair' it ain't gonna happen. just doesn't work thatway. those in power make the rules.

and, may take on the note from ben and why you received it is that you've been openly critical of how this website is run and you haven't presented those criticisms in the right forum. the site discussion forum, for example. (ooops. or maybe you did and i missed it? see how i am?) i mean arguing a point about your perception of the moderators in the general discussion forum can kind of incite a rebellious trend, in a way.


It's hard to argue any of this without knowing exactly what posts Ben was referring to, which is why maybe this wasn't the best idea for rd to post this at all. Althought it certainly is frustrating when it seems to come out of the blue like this. But being "openly critical" of the site wouldn't seem to me automatically grounds for a warning, XxAxX, I mean c'mon.
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Reply #40 posted 01/16/04 5:39pm

2the9s

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.
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Reply #41 posted 01/16/04 5:40pm

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omg! i just realized! it's friday night and i'm online talking about rdhull's gettin a spanking! rdhull bend over already. then partyup! oo that came out wrong.. redface
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Reply #42 posted 01/16/04 5:41pm

BlissedAgain

XxAxX said:

omg! i just realized! it's friday night and i'm online talking about rdhull's gettin a spanking! rdhull bend over already. then partyup! oo that came out wrong.. redface



it's saturday
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Reply #43 posted 01/16/04 5:44pm

2the9s

I bet we get a thumbs up from Aaron this time!

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Reply #44 posted 01/16/04 5:45pm

rdhull

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2the9s said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.

fair playing field isnt even the point
"Climb in my fur."
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Reply #45 posted 01/16/04 5:46pm

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XxAxX said:

omg! i just realized! it's friday night and i'm online talking about rdhull's gettin a spanking! rdhull bend over already. then partyup! oo that came out wrong.. redface

dont worry Im about to leave for dinner and movie with family and a friend my damn self..but still..this is important! lol
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Reply #46 posted 01/16/04 5:48pm

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Reported!
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Reply #47 posted 01/16/04 5:49pm

2the9s

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.

fair playing field isnt even the point


Yeah, I see your point. Sorry sometimes I get sidetracked by my own axegrinding! biggrin

And for what it's worth I think you're right in your self-assessment. I remember we started off on the wrong foot, but you were always someone I respected (I think you know that now) and you were certainly someone who was interested in working things out ultimately.

So is this whole thing (Ben's email) about your "style"? How should a moderator deal with someothing like that?

I'm just thinking out loud here. (Right BAD??? wink )
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Reply #48 posted 01/16/04 5:50pm

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althom said:

Reported!

dont worry Ive been reported already rolleyes

be careful of who u are if u voice an opinion
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Reply #49 posted 01/16/04 5:51pm

BlissedAgain

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents



k...here goes...evilwhitemale...i'm sorry i hassled you about going bald... i mean so what if you're losing your hair... it's not important...i was being silly...bald guys can look cool too

truce buddy?
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Reply #50 posted 01/16/04 5:53pm

rdhull

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2the9s said:

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.

fair playing field isnt even the point


Yeah, I see your point. Sorry sometimes I get sidetracked by my own axegrinding! biggrin

And for what it's worth I think you're right in your self-assessment. I remember we started off on the wrong foot, but you were always someone I respected (I think you know that now) and you were certainly someone who was interested in working things out ultimately.

So is this whole thing (Ben's email) about your "style"? How should a moderator deal with someothing like that?

I'm just thinking out loud here. (Right BAD??? wink )


yeah and certian mods had no probleme woith "my styule" when I was critcal ofother sites and places..so they are hypocritical and obviously full of shit...opps there I go with my style again

"everyone" repsected wendy ..maybe if I come back as a white lesbian I wont get reported for my style shrug
lol
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Reply #51 posted 01/16/04 5:54pm

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BlissedAgain said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents



k...here goes...evilwhitemale...i'm sorry i hassled you about going bald... i mean so what if you're losing your hair... it's not important...i was being silly...bald guys can look cool too

truce buddy?

lol...but that doesnt count bliss..if it wasnt for we writing what I just did u wooldnt have said that lol
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Reply #52 posted 01/16/04 5:54pm

BlissedAgain

i love your posts rd...seriously...just keep rockin'
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Reply #53 posted 01/16/04 5:55pm

Lleena

BlissedAgain said:

i love your posts rd...seriously...just keep rockin'


Co-sign.
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Reply #54 posted 01/16/04 5:55pm

BlissedAgain

rdhull said:

BlissedAgain said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents



k...here goes...evilwhitemale...i'm sorry i hassled you about going bald... i mean so what if you're losing your hair... it's not important...i was being silly...bald guys can look cool too

truce buddy?

lol...but that doesnt count bliss..if it wasnt for we writing what I just did u wooldnt have said that lol



true...you inspired me to bring out my gentle side lol
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Reply #55 posted 01/16/04 5:55pm

2the9s

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.

fair playing field isnt even the point


Yeah, I see your point. Sorry sometimes I get sidetracked by my own axegrinding! biggrin

And for what it's worth I think you're right in your self-assessment. I remember we started off on the wrong foot, but you were always someone I respected (I think you know that now) and you were certainly someone who was interested in working things out ultimately.

So is this whole thing (Ben's email) about your "style"? How should a moderator deal with someothing like that?

I'm just thinking out loud here. (Right BAD??? wink )


yeah and certian mods had no probleme woith "my styule" when I was critcal ofother sites and places..so they are hypocritical and obviously full of shit...opps there I go with my style again

"everyone" repsected wendy ..maybe if I come back as a white lesbian I wont get reported for my style shrug
lol


Well that's kind of what I was dancing around. lol
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Reply #56 posted 01/16/04 5:56pm

XxAxX

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rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

rdhull said:

And let the record show I publicly announced there sould be areturn of chemmie ice etc for a chance of getting along and for follks who were frneds of them..aint none of any other muthafuckas here has ever stated to have a large truce with someone they had severe beef with etc..nto that that makes me any better or worse but it is sometimes overloooked and only "big ol mean rd " is seen

my two cents


Yeah sure as long as it's an even playing field.

fair playing field isnt even the point


Yeah, I see your point. Sorry sometimes I get sidetracked by my own axegrinding! biggrin

And for what it's worth I think you're right in your self-assessment. I remember we started off on the wrong foot, but you were always someone I respected (I think you know that now) and you were certainly someone who was interested in working things out ultimately.

So is this whole thing (Ben's email) about your "style"? How should a moderator deal with someothing like that?

I'm just thinking out loud here. (Right BAD??? wink )


yeah and certian mods had no probleme woith "my styule" when I was critcal ofother sites and places..so they are hypocritical and obviously full of shit...opps there I go with my style again

"everyone" repsected wendy ..maybe if I come back as a white lesbian I wont get reported for my style shrug
lol


shocked :rdhullcamebackasawhitelesbianemoticon:
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Reply #57 posted 01/16/04 6:00pm

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Its also quite telling that somene else got one of these--someone who has been my friend lately. Seems like u cant have a clique etc unless your in "the right" sort of mafia because they wil then report u on how awful u are even though do the same thing and retaliate etc. Its no wonder some people are in the situation they have that they can not do anything about. Karnma is a bitch and already fucked with them but now they gotta take it out on else persons? disbelief
"Climb in my fur."
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Reply #58 posted 01/16/04 6:00pm

2the9s

Lleena said:

BlissedAgain said:

i love your posts rd...seriously...just keep rockin'


Co-sign.


Co-co-fucking sign! If it wasn't for rd, Lleena, Bliss, bkw, Paisley, shaus, Carrie, althom, Keithy, Aaron, cborg so many of these new people, so many more of the regulars who just kick my ass EVERY day, you think I would waste my time here??

But at the same time, I just listed friends (and missed a lot!). I can see where so-called "cliques" would become alienating for some. What's a moderator to do?
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Reply #59 posted 01/16/04 6:01pm

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I'm going to make me a big Save rdhull banner and I'm going to walk down the street right now to raise some funds. nod
When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading.
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