i have met this girl call NAT, she is the 1 of the best things tht has ever happened to me. I can never stop thinking about her, she is sooo beautiful and amazing, she is on my mind 24/7.
she is 17 a year older than me, and she has doen things i am yet to experience, we talk abotu every thing, im always there to listen and to help, and she is there just to make me happy. Now i think this is love, and i have had the opportunity to ask her out, but im too scared, i was woundering if sum one could help me, this is a serious problem, casue i realyl dnt know wot im scared of, maybe, casue i think im not wot she wants, or im scared of wot her friends will say, or scared of sex, can u please help me, im to scared to ask family, please?

It'll be alright go ahead and ask her! It doesn't have to involve sex right away.Nothing to be scared of Andy.

Just go have some fun!

i dnt think its sex im really scared of, im not sure, but i think its becasue i dnt usally have beautiful girls/women, coming up to me and talkin to me, as i ment sumthing to them, i just dont wanna see her unhappy, and especially wth me, but i also dnt have confidants as well, i realy want her, but wot the f**k is stoping me?

First step is to just stop and take a deep breath...

Second-Just be yourself, ask her out, even if she says yes or no...atleast you asked her which is what you wanted. Everything will fall into place as it is supposed to.

IAmTheTouch said:

I think that part of his post should have been in parenthesis:

she is 17 (a year older than me)

I don't think he was saying she's seventeen years older.

andykeen said:

Is she part of your regular social circle or is she somebody that you wouldn't normally associate with?

BinaryJustin said:

oops, my bad...

cheers!

IAmTheTouch said:

Those 'bananacologne' cocktails are kicking in then I take it!

BinaryJustin said:

no i only get 2 see her on WEDNESDAYS and FRIDAYS, which just makes me want her more and more.

bananacologne said:

when ever i feel like this i write poems or songs, so i wrote one of them, dnt know which 1 to class it as tho, but i feel its the best way to get all tht emotion out for just 1 day
[This message was edited Sun Jan 11 17:10:42 PST 2004 by andykeen]

andykeen said:

Why only twice a week?

cause she is always working, and i have asked to meet her after work, but where she works is 9 miles away, so its a bit hard, and plus she is a hair dresser, and she is really tierd after work, and i dont want to make her feel worst at the end of the day.

andykeen said:

Has she told you that she's too tired to see you more or have you just assumed so?

assumed

andykeen said:

I don't think Ud make her day any worse if U asked her out. If anything it would make her feel great knowing that somebody finds her attractive. Remember if U dont ask, U dont get and then U'll really be kicking Urself. Deep breath and just do it. U'll find it gets easier the more times U do it too. Hope it works out the way U want it to.

co-sign I think she might be as nerveus as you are, afterwords you'll both think it's funny. You'll be fine!

have you checked your website?

"hello every one welcome to the world of andy keen, that would be me!! i would show i picture but i look gay!! just have to get one thing straight first, im gay ok!! good!"

could this be the problem?

outoftime said:

U have heard the word: 'irony' before...right?

Just go for it, you never know.
And if she doesn't want to, at least you know for sure.

bananacologne said:

yes, it is ironic isnt it. but i appreciate that people can get confused as to their sexuality.

thanks, i am realyl thinking about asking her on wednesday when i see her, thts not for sure yet!! ""fingers crossed"

outoftime said:

i fu have a look it says, "im not gay ok!!