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Is it a curse to be beautiful ? Okay do y'all remember the guy I told u about, The one who looks like Prince? Well the other day I had a chance to talk with him on the phone, it was the usual friendly conversation, then somewhere down the line the subject matter started to get all serious. If u can picture inside ur head, this is a very attractive guy, in other words he's a pretty boy. So when I was talking to him, I said something like,I'm not sure if I want to have anything serious with you, because you probably have a lot of women calling on your phone all the time. Then he got all quiet and he told me, that that's what most people think about him and the truth is it's not like that. He said that most of the time women don't give him a chance, because they already assume he's with somebody or they assume he's just some type of player or something. He's never had a serious relationship when it seemed like, the women was in it just for him. Then I begin to feel all bad, cuz the truth is. I was thinking the exact same thing that he mentioned to me on the phone. So every since then I've been thinking, I know it seems like it's all good to be a extremely attractive person, but when u think about it is beauty a curse as it is being unattractive? Is it that or is this guy trying 2 put some game up on me ?
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so i'm thinking this is the reason why he hasn't been married ...
beautiful edit [This message was edited Sat Dec 6 6:45:42 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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he's good! playing the "i'm too attractive for women to hit on me" card... very smooth! | |
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IAmTheTouch said: he's good! playing the "i'm too attractive for women to hit on me" card... very smooth!
I was thinking the same thing, but prts of me still wants me 2 niavely believe him ya know and then that damn Alicia Keys song doesn't help either,cuz every time I hear it on the radio, it makes me think about him, even though he does know my name, but ya know ..... damn love, i'm not ready for this shit! love edit [This message was edited Sat Dec 6 6:52:02 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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what's the rush? just give it some time, hang out with him for a while, and see if he's for real! meet his friends, and that will give you a lot of insights. good luck! | |
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IAmTheTouch said: what's the rush? just give it some time, hang out with him for a while, and see if he's for real! meet his friends, and that will give you a lot of insights. good luck!
you know ur right.. i'm just so nervous, cuz i never had a boyfriend before, so this is all new to me . | |
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brrr it's gotten so cold in here. I need warmth. ~leggO my Ego | |
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EGOBOOST said: brrr it's gotten so cold in here. I need warmth. looks like u may need 2 get neutered too | |
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DigitalLisa said: EGOBOOST said: brrr it's gotten so cold in here. I need warmth. looks like u may need 2 get neutered too let's just say it's a new form of birth control... like the sponge Maybe this thread should get moved to the love, sex and relationship forum. | |
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Yes! | |
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DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! | |
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imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! | |
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imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! Shuddup | |
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DigitalLisa said: so i'm thinking this is the reason why he hasn't been married ...
beautiful edit [This message was edited Sat Dec 6 6:45:42 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa] you siad that he's what, around 40 years old? If he wanted to get married, he would have by now. Nobody's too beautiful to get married. | |
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If the person is attractive AND outgoing
then NO. But for a low-key person who's overly attractive this is true. | |
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DigitalLisa said: 'Is it a curse to be beautiful ?'
It's great being ugly! | |
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mcmeekle said: DigitalLisa said: 'Is it a curse to be beautiful ?'
It's great being ugly! Agreed!! | |
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origmnd said: If the person is attractive AND outgoing
then NO. But for a low-key person who's overly attractive this is true. he's a real quiet person, in fact i'm the one who walked up 2 him ... Anyways he not 40 but he's close to it, i'm not saying that's the reason why he hasn't been married, that's just what i was thinking 2 myself, who knows why he's never been married | |
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DigitalLisa said: IAmTheTouch said: what's the rush? just give it some time, hang out with him for a while, and see if he's for real! meet his friends, and that will give you a lot of insights. good luck!
you know ur right.. i'm just so nervous, cuz i never had a boyfriend before, so this is all new to me . U never had a boyfriend? I've seen u'r picture (and i don't mean the robot )and u are very pretty. Tres jolie. That might suggest it IS a curse to be beautifull. | |
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I find it a curse. | |
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dawn74 said: DigitalLisa said: IAmTheTouch said: what's the rush? just give it some time, hang out with him for a while, and see if he's for real! meet his friends, and that will give you a lot of insights. good luck!
you know ur right.. i'm just so nervous, cuz i never had a boyfriend before, so this is all new to me . U never had a boyfriend? I've seen u'r picture (and i don't mean the robot )and u are very pretty. Tres jolie. That might suggest it IS a curse to be beautifull. thanks ... i never had a serious boyfriend meaning i never been in love or anything like that, I've dated and talk to guys though. Just nothing serious. | |
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Sometimes yes it is | |
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imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! Or maybe you just smell. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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DigitalLisa said: dawn74 said: DigitalLisa said: IAmTheTouch said: what's the rush? just give it some time, hang out with him for a while, and see if he's for real! meet his friends, and that will give you a lot of insights. good luck!
you know ur right.. i'm just so nervous, cuz i never had a boyfriend before, so this is all new to me . U never had a boyfriend? I've seen u'r picture (and i don't mean the robot )and u are very pretty. Tres jolie. That might suggest it IS a curse to be beautifull. thanks ... i never had a serious boyfriend meaning i never been in love or anything like that, I've dated and talk to guys though. Just nothing serious. Uve talked to guys?! Cool. | |
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minneapolisgenius said: imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! Or maybe you just smell. like salty banana cologne? | |
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imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: minneapolisgenius said: imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: DigitalLisa said: Is it a curse to be beautiful?
yes. without a doubt. i get followed around stores when i try to shop. when i walk down the street, people are too intimidated to walk next to me so they all kind of walk off to the side and avoid me. and employers don't want to hire me...i think its because i'll distract the other employees. its a real curse! Or maybe you just smell. like salty banana cologne? Maybe. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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"Do u know WHY he was sodomized by a banana? "
A great line from Law & Order :SVU. | |
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althom said: I find it a curse.
She said "beautiful' not "stinky". When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: althom said: I find it a curse.
She said "beautiful' not "stinky". I HEARD HER!!! | |
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althom said: bkw said: althom said: I find it a curse.
She said "beautiful' not "stinky". I HEARD HER!!! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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