This is the most stupidest thread ever.

La Coya, for gods sake get a life! And leave us alone with your im-ugly-and-fat-and-poor-and-want-to-act-like-im-a-little-immature-kid threads. There is no way I can take this serious. Get a shrink!

LaCoyta said:

You're so self-defeating. You're never going to get anywhere in life with this attitude. Look, people are seriously trying to help you here, and you keep shitting all over their suggestions! Jesus fucking christ!

I don't mean to shit all over everyone's suggestions. I was pointing out my situation.

Sweetie, first of all, you need to get yourself to a therapist.You sound depressed!

You have to realize that sometimes you have to experience some pain to be beautiful.I'm not advocating surgery, but you must pluck or wax to enhance your beauty.It doesn't hurt after you do it for awhile. You will find that shapely eyebrows and a smooth lip can do wonders for your face.

An alternative to being a stripper is to be a waitress in the nicest restaurant possible or work at a full service car wash.Take a dance class anyway,it will make you feel more graceful.

As far as the college thing goes, there are tutors and funding available for people with math disabilities.I had to take a really basic math course required for my degree six times before I passed!If not, just read. Spend one or two days a week in the library reading.Treat it like a job.

Another big moneymaker that doesn't require a degree is to be a mortgage broker. A good friend of mine made $13,000 just a few weeks ago for one week's work.

Don't give up. ANYTHING is possible.Keep searching and don't focus so much on your brother's shortcomings. Maybe he's just doing the best he can right now. You can succeed, but do it for yourself, not for your family.

This is long, I know, but I felt the same way that you do for so long...Once I realized that I can do almost anything I want to work for, I felt like I could do anything.Good Luck...Oh yes and if this is invented, f*ck *ff!

LaCoyta said:

based on how this thread has made me laugh, I'd say your calling is stand-up comedy.

There is no answer to this other than the obvious...education and/or therapy

LaCoyta said:

Not ALL colleges are expensive. Anyway, go to a 2-year community college. It's more efficient. They'll even get ya goin on the math. But DON'T sell yourself short.


Two totally different people. How could you compare yourself to someone who is much older, let alone badmouthin your own brother?! That's a No-No!


Beauty is only in the eye of the Beholder (upstairs). And who the hell said ya had to get plastic surgery OR be thin as a rail to be beautiful? Girl, ya need to watch THE PARKERS.


I can't sell shit on ebay either! But I got MY own business: doin what I like to do, which is publishing!!! I'm not a math whiz either, but damn, I'm puttin what I like to do into somthin that can make (or possibly make) some kind of money.

Actually what u are asking for is...

How can I feel capable?
How can I look adequate in the eyes of those judging me?

purplelu said:

Dayem! Go girl!!!

LaCoyta said:

Have you tried Tae-Bo yet? From the looks of the Informericals Billy Blanks looks like he can get some shit started.

origmnd said:

That's a good way to put it

LaCoyta said:

Let me tell you a little something about having the best in life. First of all it has nothing to do with being thin, rich and beautiful and has EVERYTHING to do with having your health, being loved unconditionally and loving back unconditionally and being kind and thoughtful. Having a good, supportive family and great friends is also very important. Being only 19 you might think this is corny advice coming from an old broad of 40, but it's the truth! You are going to have a very hard and disappointing life if all you want out of it is to be thin, rich and beautiful. In all seriousness, you need some self esteem help and you should get it fast. You also need to see how the the real world lives and get away from your fashion magazines and MTV! Go do some volunteer work at a hospital or a women's shelter and see how real people live and what real life is about.

Christopher said:

You go mr. blanks

r1ghteousone said:

Mr Motivator has aged well!

I think why I want to be beautiful is so that if I lose the 5lbs and get the money people won't say "yeah, she's rich and thin but she's ugly" I've been rejected alot I think I want rejection protection (and money).
I've never tried Tae-Bo. It looks very tiring.
[This message was edited Fri Nov 28 10:01:23 PST 2003 by LaCoyta]

I still think the best idea would be to marry rich, and use that money for whatever cosmetic surgery (not thin enough? lipo!) to reach this goal. Marry someone really rich though so you are still rich after the divorce.

This thread is very sad. Why would you
feel the need to share personal info about
yourself to people that dont even know you.
I am sorry but you got issues to work out
with yourself... forget trying to get advice
from people on the org. Looks like your not
gonna take any of the advice anyway. You have
an excuse for not being able to try any option
offered to you here.
Move on and conitnue leading your dark life cause
from the sound of you thats where you are headed.
I am sorry for you.

This is crazy.


1. You need to go see a psychiatrist.

2. You need to grow up.

3. Why do you care so much about others' perception of you?

I can tell you from experience...if you don't love yourself, no one else will bother. Grow some cahones girl. Sitting there thinking about shit won't get anything done. I'm being serious about the doctor. Nothing will go right if you don't fix that jumbled mess in your head first.


I'b be willing to bet that ten years from now, you won't be thinking this way.

GermanHottie1981 said:

Yeah, people on Prince.org have WAY more important and serious threads to attend to like "what does your poop look like" and "post pictures of chicks with big tits!" or the 10,000,000th thread about how Mayte is a whore.



If the person who started this thread is legitimate then maybe you should try to be a bit less "immature" yourself and be more "mature" and compassionate. At the very least, you can accomplish that by having kept your bitchy comment to yourself and not shown to the world what a nasty person you are; if the person who started this thread *is* indeed a fake, then why don't you a) ignore this thread (instead of obviously rechecking it and posting to it multimple times) and b) go post on a thread more worthy of your "maturity" and not contribute to a thread you think is stupid.

What are cahones?
I care about others' perception of me because I never got over being unpopular in school. I feel the need to compensate by becoming a person that is likeable. I felt awful about being the ugliest, fatest and poorest out of all my classmates. It would be nice to become the exact opposite and have my old feelings healed. I want to become wonderful and have everyone know I'm wonderful. I know I sound immature.I want to change and I've tried alot of things suggested here (I'd talk about the trouble I've had trying to get work but u probably don't want to hear it) but keep running into dead ends.
The world is not a kind place (never has been) and I was hoping if I achieved all those things,it'd be nicer to me.
Maybe God just wants me to be poor. Maybe that's why I was born that way.
[This message was edited Fri Nov 28 16:10:25 PST 2003 by LaCoyta]

LaCoyta said:

Cahones are balls. You know, I'm telling you to buck up. I wasn't very popular in high school. I was one of those annoying Advanced Placement nerds. I was more interested in the actual academics than whether I was dating a football player. This sounds arrogant, but I loved myself more than I cared what people thought about me. I thought they were all dipshits anyway. When you go to your high school reunions, I bet you will laugh, because all the popular people had to face the fact that they weren't anything out of high school. They were just like you and me.In other words, FUCK THOSE PEOPLE. Even if you DO acheive those things, I don't think they will make you happy. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you may think is beautiful is not necessarily beautiful to me, or anyone else. You MUST harbor more self esteem. Staying thin is a pain in the ass, especially when you get older. This in itself will make you unhappy. And no, the world is NOT a kind place. Even if you achieve everything you want, there will always be someone who tries to tear you down, so that's why I don't put much stock into others' opinions about me. Stop comparing yourself to others, and strive to be the best person YOU can be. Think of the world's horrors, and how much WORSE your life could become. Hard work is the key to success. Nothing of any value in Life comes free.

purplelu said:

This is true. This is what I now do for a living. I am currently a loan officer, working under a mortgage broker, and want nothing more than to succeed. I had to wait till now, I'm 33 years old. I was working in a damn grocery store up until a few years ago. The opportunity to do this kind of work just fell into my lap without any warning. I am a true believer in "This too shall pass". Patience is a virtue.

LaCoyta said:

Afraid not. I was just born this way.

gemini13 said:

At least u have brains going for u. I don't have that.

I've tried hard work. That doesn't work. I was a waitress for three weeks I tried to be the best waitress possible but I wasn't good enough so I got fired. I was trying and it wasn't enough. Life is like gym class your best is never enough.
Everyday I see people get wonderful things w/o even trying and I try and try and get nothing.
What am I doing wrong?

LaCoyta said:

I think rather than making yourself thin, rich, and beautiful, you should concentrate on making everyone else fat, poor, and ugly!

LaCoyta said:

Why don't u get the next flight to Iraq and visit a childrens hospital, spend some time with kids that have had their limbs blown off...maybe then u'll be grateful for what u have instead of ur vanity crap

U seem 2 have a very negative attitude and if u want 2 b successful then u need 2 think positive!. U don't need 2 b an expert at maths 2 get a degree, I am no good @ maths but got my BA (Hons) degree this year!. U also shouldn't worry about looks and everything like that - they r not important @ all, what really matters is that U need 2 believe in urself alot more.

thetimefan said:

Indeed... it's amazing what a little faith in oneself can do... once one starts believing in oneself, that's often when the rest starts falling into place.
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[This message was edited Sat Nov 29 19:00:54 PST 2003 by Diva]

Diva said: