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Printabledont hold it in...
if something is irking you try to diffuse the tension by being humorous about it... like, if someone ate your last piece of candy call em on it...but laugh it off...holding grudges is soo 90's... unless they killed your first born or something...then just call em on it and be rude...and walk away so they have to hang their head down in shame... Space for sale... | |
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I listen to some relaxing music and have a quiet time. 
Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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moderatorluv4thepurple1 said: I usually hold it in until that unlucky person
comes along that ends up being the straw that breaks the camels back, then I blow.  Its the Taurus
in me for sure!  dat sounds like moi!No hablo espanol,no! 
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien... 
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I become very quiet. | |
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Lammastide said: Tension? A little murder always helps.
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ThaHumanBody said: :JERK: :KY:
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Cloudbuster said: :Sexy:
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Christopher said: Cloudbuster said: :Sexy:
Oh, don't start! | |
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Cloudbuster said: Christopher said: Cloudbuster said: :Sexy:
Oh, don't start!why not? you look pretty that way | |
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Christopher said: why not? you look pretty that way
I'm pretty anyway.  | |
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Cloudbuster said: Christopher said: why not? you look pretty that way
I'm pretty anyway.  | |
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When I'm tense, it helps to brew some tea, turn on my local classical station and go off alone somewhere. The org and eBay help too. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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Lammastide said: When I'm tense, it helps to brew some tea, turn on my local classical station and go off alone somewhere. The org and eBay help too.
Are you tense a lot Tenselot  Futuristic Fantasy | |
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That awkward silence following a fight or argument SUCKS. I've learned--mostly by fucking up--that the best approach is to take some time to myself and find out if the problem is REALLY as big as I thought it was. Fact: most arguments are over stupid shit. When I come to this realization, I usually just go up to my partner and simply give them a hug. I'll whisper in their ear, "I don't want to fight, OK? Let's sit down and see if we can talk this out."
But that hug is CRUCIAL. You MUST connect with your partner to reassure them that you love them and that you want to communicate with them. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Resolve the situation 1st so that its not left playing on Ur mind..
Meanwhile, try and relax. The best thing is 2 be around friends who make U laugh and forget the thing playing on Ur mind. Well said! However its not always that simple if the OTHER party is not cooperative. (resolving the issues, I mean) I dont hold "grudges" as it only makes the tension U R feeling worse. I always try 2 "work things out" with the perpetrator...Being "silent" about the "issue(s)" NEVER solves ANYTHING, & "REVENGE", is uncivilized, infantile, and very immature, not 2 mention time consuming, and 2 let the "issue(s)" prey on ones mind will make U ill. So JD has good advice in trying 2 B with friends that are not so much on the "DARKSIDE" and who U have "FUN" with.  May the BELLS ring 4 U even when ur not in love.   | |
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DudeDrops said: That awkward silence following a fight or argument SUCKS. I've learned--mostly by fucking up--that the best approach is to take some time to myself and find out if the problem is REALLY as big as I thought it was. Fact: most arguments are over stupid shit. When I come to this realization, I usually just go up to my partner and simply give them a hug. I'll whisper in their ear, "I don't want to fight, OK? Let's sit down and see if we can talk this out."
But that hug is CRUCIAL. You MUST connect with your partner to reassure them that you love them and that you want to communicate with them. Partner? I was actually talkin bout work. And my boss hugged me cause i was havin a sooky lala moment hehehehe.No hablo espanol,no!
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien...
"Come into my world..."
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