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PrintableMoonbeam said: justkelley said: Moonbeam said: justkelley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Kell you have to offer a man more than just sex, I mean how do you expect a guy to have respect for you if that's all you seem to want and talk about?
Not all guys want sex offered to them. Did I say ALL guys did?  Well, your sentence implies that you have to at least offer a man (not some men) sex for him to respect you. I'm sorry to be such a sourpuss on this thread. I just hate being marginalized because of my gender. It's like me saying that all woman must want to hurt me because some have in the past, and that it's a double standard because they cry and moan when a man does the slightest little thing. Do you see my point? I see what your saying, and not all women are bitches.  You're right, they're not! And thank God for it! I just get upset when I see attitudes that have been displayed here in people. Not only does it make me feel the need to defend myself simply because I'm male, but it also makes me sad for those people because it seems like they feel doomed to live a stereotypical life themselves even if it is a double standard.  Women should not feel bad for who they are, sexually charged or sexually frigid, etc. But they also shouldn't believe that all men expect to live their life as a double standard. Those men who do really aren't worth the time.friends ??? :HUG2: :F: No problem! Just be careful about the way you view men. It hurts those who aren't like that. You're not giving potential suitors enough credit for not expecting you to live a double standard and you're not giving yourself enough credit for being who you are. You are worth much more than that! thank you baby  i will be better :F: promise  I'm sorry if I was out of line. It just makes me angry when people I think are cool sell themselves short because they think they need to live a double standard. It means the world and the "status quo" is getting to them.  its ok...we are discussing something...and your thoughts are welcome here  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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Moonbeam said: justkelley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Kell you have to offer a man more than just sex, I mean how do you expect a guy to have respect for you if that's all you seem to want and talk about?
Not all guys want sex offered to them. Did I say ALL guys did? Well, your sentence implies that you have to at least offer a man (not some men) sex for him to respect you. I'm sorry to be such a sourpuss on this thread. I just hate being marginalized because of my gender. It's like me saying that all woman must want to hurt me because some have in the past, and that it's a double standard because they cry and moan when a man does the slightest little thing. Do you see my point? I see what your saying, and not all women are bitches. You're right, they're not! And thank God for it! I just get upset when I see attitudes that have been displayed here in people. Not only does it make me feel the need to defend myself simply because I'm male, but it also makes me sad for those people because it seems like they feel doomed to live a stereotypical life themselves even if it is a double standard. Women should not feel bad for who they are, sexually charged or sexually frigid, etc. But they also shouldn't believe that all men expect to live their life as a double standard. Those men who do really aren't worth the time.friends ??? :HUG2: :F: No problem! Just be careful about the way you view men. It hurts those who aren't like that. You're not giving potential suitors enough credit for not expecting you to live a double standard and you're not giving yourself enough credit for being who you are. You are worth much more than that! Yes, you're right, Ian...but there are SO many out there who expect such things. You, and the men who don't expect such things, are rare birds. | |
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Moonbeam said: justkelley said: Moonbeam said: justkelley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Moonbeam said: Paisley said: Kell you have to offer a man more than just sex, I mean how do you expect a guy to have respect for you if that's all you seem to want and talk about?
Not all guys want sex offered to them. Did I say ALL guys did? Well, your sentence implies that you have to at least offer a man (not some men) sex for him to respect you. I'm sorry to be such a sourpuss on this thread. I just hate being marginalized because of my gender. It's like me saying that all woman must want to hurt me because some have in the past, and that it's a double standard because they cry and moan when a man does the slightest little thing. Do you see my point? I see what your saying, and not all women are bitches. You're right, they're not! And thank God for it! I just get upset when I see attitudes that have been displayed here in people. Not only does it make me feel the need to defend myself simply because I'm male, but it also makes me sad for those people because it seems like they feel doomed to live a stereotypical life themselves even if it is a double standard. Women should not feel bad for who they are, sexually charged or sexually frigid, etc. But they also shouldn't believe that all men expect to live their life as a double standard. Those men who do really aren't worth the time.friends ??? :HUG2: :F: No problem! Just be careful about the way you view men. It hurts those who aren't like that. You're not giving potential suitors enough credit for not expecting you to live a double standard and you're not giving yourself enough credit for being who you are. You are worth much more than that! thank you baby i will be better :F: promise I'm sorry if I was out of line. It just makes me angry when people I think are cool sell themselves short because they think they need to live a double standard. It means the world and the "status quo" is getting to them. That's just it...it IS the status quo... | |
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