MrBliss said:

:LOL:

sag10 said:

I know. I just don't like being ashamed of myself because I'm a man, and threads like this make me feel that way, even though I shouldn't have to defend myself.

I was wondering what sexaul crime this woman was charged for? I











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justkelley said:

I KNOW U ain't talking about me! Because I know for sure, women may get buckwild, but then submit when they get 2 me!



'dre

DreZone said:

There ya go Kelley. The perfect man for you.

What's your definition of wild? I don't think most guys want a sexually aggressive women, but rather a woman who's up for the same things they're interested in.

Girl there's more to a relationship than just sex. I mean we all get old and there will come a time when we wont be sexually active anymore, then once that's gone what will your relationship be built on?

justkelley said:

I like ur threads kelly! Well, IMO, a man wants a wild woman in bed, BUT with HIM ONLY! However IF U happen 2 look very sexy, I find that men R intimidated & scared of U bcuz they might feel they cant measure up (no pun intended) 2 what they feel a woman that looks like U is used 2 getting in bed. Especially if U have an "attitude", and exhibit "self-confidence" as well. They dont feel they are good enough & fear rejection, so they back off. With men like THAT, U must make the 1st move! But THAT may not work either...There R confident men out there that R NOT intimidated by a sexy woman by ANY means & those R the BEST kind of men 2 hook up with, I believe. However, they are older men usually. Men who have been there, done that...Unfortunately I prefer younger men, & they need some coaxing alright, but once they learn not 2 be "frightened", that u dont expect them 2 B superman in bed...well, not all the time anyway...they do fine! I know all this makes me sound experienced, but really I have women friends who "KNOW"!!!

So have you learned anything from this thread Kell?

Paisley said:

well...i know im good the way i am

as far as the men that shy away from me...i guess i dont really need them anyway :LOL: i guess what they say is right... a woman in public, a chef in the kitchen, a nurse when you're ill, a teacher for the kids...and a whore in the bedroom
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justkelley said:

Poor Kell

justkelley said:

Read the multitude of posts from male orgers above. This stereotype is exactly that- a stereotype!

analbolic said:

well...MR ANALBOLIC...i am pretty sure you know you would fall in that group of men that want a wild woman :LOL:

Kell you have to offer a man more than just sex, I mean how do you expect a guy to have respect for you if that's all you seem to want and talk about?

Paisley said:

Not all guys want sex offered to them.

Moonbeam said:

Did I say ALL guys did?

justkelley said:

Not really.

Paisley said:

paisley honey...this is a web site...i am really not much like this in real life...well...i am a freak at heart...but in regular life...i make dinners (damn good i might add)...i do homework with my kids...i play football with my son...i paint...i quilt...i write...i have friends...i am huge on family time...and for a man..i offer great conversation as well as wonderful companionship...not to mention i spend most of my time wrapped up in the wellbeing of my children...when the time is right...for the one man that i am with...i offer exciting times in the bedroom - not soon to be forgotten but other than that...i am a regular everyday woman...just like you

CtheUncanny said:

and she knows it!

I quote Notorious B.I.G when I say...

"Your man's a wimp, I'll give that ass a good thrashin'!"

'dre

Paisley said:

Well, your sentence implies that you have to at least offer a man (not some men) sex for him to respect you.

I'm sorry to be such a sourpuss on this thread. I just hate being marginalized because of my gender.

It's like me saying that all woman must want to hurt me because some have in the past, and that it's a double standard because they cry and moan when a man does the slightest little thing.

Do you see my point?

justkelley said:

Ya know I luvs ya girl.

DreZone said:

dre could quite possibly keep me very busy

Moonbeam said:

I see what your saying, and not all women are bitches.

Paisley said:

Nah, some are ho's!

"Winky Dinky Ho'cake! Ho's' gots 2 eat too!"

'dre

Paisley said:

You're right, they're not! And thank God for it! I just get upset when I see attitudes that have been displayed here in people. Not only does it make me feel the need to defend myself simply because I'm male, but it also makes me sad for those people because it seems like they feel doomed to live a stereotypical life themselves even if it is a double standard. Women should not feel bad for who they are, sexually charged or sexually frigid, etc. But they also shouldn't believe that all men expect to live their life as a double standard. Those men who do really aren't worth the time.

DreZone said:

well I'm neither so watch your damn mouth.

Moonbeam said:

friends ??? :HUG2: :F:

justkelley said:

No problem! Just be careful about the way you view men. It hurts those who aren't like that. You're not giving potential suitors enough credit for not expecting you to live a double standard and you're not giving yourself enough credit for being who you are. You are worth much more than that!

Moonbeam said:

thank you baby i will be better :F: promise

justkelley said:

I'm sorry if I was out of line. It just makes me angry when people I think are cool sell themselves short because they think they need to live a double standard. It means the world and the "status quo" is getting to them.