Okay, I heard from a friend that Scary Movie 3 was really good, so the 2 of us went to see it. He laughed the whole time, and although I must admit there were a few funny parts, overall it was a very foolish flick.

So how was the date anyway?

althom said:

It was not a date. :No: I've been leading him on for months & he won't ask me out.

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

Guys are a little slow when it comes to these things...maybe you should just tell him to his face.

althom said:

The above statement is the story of my life

althom said:

Yes, but there are two issues here: 1)I'm kinda afriad of rejection. 2) I'm not really sure if I want him to ask me out.("It's a woman's perogative to change her mind").

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

No wonder the boy is confused.

althom said:

althom, Merry Christmas!

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

althom said:

I think I just got over the worst fucking rejection of my life on Friday when the girl I have done back flips for behaved exactly like you, and then changed her mind. I confronted her in April, and she turned me down. Then she started getting all close and friendly with me again, and led me on to a point I got so confused, that I didn't know what to think. Eventually I fell for her again. On Halloween, I got totally smashed, and I was upset about something. I was obviously distraught about it, and on Halloween she confronted me about it at this party. She just repeated several times "I'm not interested in you. I never will be", in front of many friends. Then I felt upset. My drunken state made my emotions a little more... shall we say... obvious.

And yet, only a couple of days later, my mind feels a lot clearer than it has for the past few months. I have overcome this rather quick, and to tell the truth, I'm not even that concerned about where our friendship stands anymore. If this is good or not, I don't know, but regardless, you can understand why it's hard for guys to understand what the hell we're supposed to do.

I can't tell you how hard it is for us to confront people with our feelings, when we are worried they won't reciprocate. It's hard for two reasons: 1) It hurts so much. and 2) We don't want to make awkward a relationship

I don't know what this has to do with Scary Movie 3, but I'm glad I said it.

savoirfaire said:

Oh, hon, I'm so sorry, really, I'm pretty much in your position, I don't want to get hurt, and I'm not sure he feels the same way about me. Are there any ways ro tell?

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

Co-sign 100%
But entire part when they were at the "wake" really freaked me out. Parts of it was "stupid-funny", but overdone for the most part.

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

Apparently not, or else I wouldn't have put myself through so much anguish the past few months.

I hate love. I don't understand how so many jerks around me get to be with the most amazing people, and no matter what I try and do, I remain single. Either take a chance and be upset, or don't take a chance, and be safe.

so that's that.