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PrintableNatsume said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: 
I am glad you said it and not me, you've got much more tact!!  and thats meant.seriously? Yes. 
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justkelley said: bluesbaby said: 6 years, five years of dating. Marriage for us has been fantastic, because we have met our challenges together. We talk, which is so important. I adore my husband...and no, I don't cook him dinner all the time...
i was at the wedding ...blu was absolutely beautiful...and her hubby was lookin good too...its great to see my friend so happy and in love...they truely do have the marrage that we all are looking for...
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The secret is to drink alot 
Both of you 
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WickedDay said: Natsume said:
wickedday what is art? I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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WickedDay said: .
[This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:53:40 PST 2003 by WickedDay] omg!! I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Oh yeah, I've been happily married for 12 years now.
The secrets are honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship, and trust. The last one is quite crucial as you need to occaisionally spend some time appart from each other. Cheers 
p.s the alcohol really does help. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: p.s the alcohol really does help.
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MrBliss said: and what's your secret?
 You just not long got married right? So the longer you are married you will soon find out. 
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where's my man teller ?
hes happily married ? anyone seen him around lately ???  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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you will be !  “A poor man waited a thousand years before the gate of paradise. And, while he snatched a little sleep, it opened and shut.” | |
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justkelley said: where's my man teller ?
hes happily married ? anyone seen him around lately ??? he's in mourning because his org wife is gone for now "Climb in my fur." | |
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Happily married for 13 yrs now...
Secrets?? hmmm...regular sex. hmmm...marry your best friend. hmmm...respect their opinion. hmmm...grow as an individual. hmmm...regular sex. Thanks for the laughs, arguments and overall enjoyment for the last umpteen years. It's time for me to retire from Prince.org and engage in the real world...lol. Above all, I appreciated the talent Prince. You were one of a kind. | |
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rdhull said: justkelley said: where's my man teller ?
hes happily married ? anyone seen him around lately ??? he's in mourning because his org wife is gone for now ROTFLMAO I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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rdhull said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! Can u say Stepford Wife? Yes can YOU? Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL....Actually i think it is a bit sad that YOU would think doing something like that for someone you love is sad.. But to eaches own i guess... [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 19:18:44 PST 2003 by LittleMissMuffin] Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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LittleMissMuffin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL.. THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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justkelley said: LittleMissMuffin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL.. Thank you... I was starting to feel attacked...  Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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LittleMissMuffin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL.. I hear what your saying Little Miss Muffin. I'm an old fashioned girl myself, and from what I have seen (my parents have been married since 1968) it's the little things that hold everything together. You have to take care of your partner and your partner has to take care of you. You have to put forth the effort if you want a marriage to succeed. I know your not saying that the women should be subservient. Both partners have to keep up their end of the bargain. That's just my  [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 19:10:52 PST 2003 by Sweeny79] In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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bkw said: Oh yeah, I've been happily married for 12 years now.
The secrets are honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship, and trust. The last one is quite crucial as you need to occaisionally spend some time appart from each other. Cheers
p.s the alcohol really does help. Actually, the secret is finding the right person.  It sounds like you did...
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Sweeny79 said: LittleMissMuffin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL.. I hear what your saying Little Miss Muffin. I'm an old fashioned girl myself, and from what I have seen (my parents have been married since 1968) it's the little things that hold everything together. You have to take care of your partner and your partner has to take care of you. You have to put forth the effort if you want a marriage to succeed. I know your not saying that the women should be subservient. Both partners have to keep up their end of the bargain. That's just my
[This message was edited Wed Oct 29 19:10:52 PST 2003 by Sweeny79] Yes swee... that is ALL i was saying.. thank you!!! Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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LittleMissMuffin said: Sweeny79 said: LittleMissMuffin said: JDINTERACTIVE said: Natsume said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! This strikes me as a little bit sad. I agree, in some ways I dont think Id be happy in such a marriage. Im sorry if that comes across as cold but I can imagine that marriage as is with all good relationships about compromise. Ur description here seems that Ud bend 2 his every whim, as caring and sensitive U clearly come across and probably R. [This message was edited Wed Oct 29 14:41:25 PST 2003 by JDINTERACTIVE] I dont quite see your and Natsumes points.. nobody said that this wasn't being done FOR ME EITHER.. I was clearly stating that i would be understanding and caring that if my man had to work late I would make him dinner being that is just the way I am.. Nobody would make me do anything and knowing the man i have, he would do the exact same thing for me.. Your right, marriages and relationships are a give and take... I am clearly stating that would be my part of the relationship.. giving for him as he would give to me.. I don't bend to his every whim, but i do try to be helpful and caring in my relationships... And yes I am sensative and caring..BUT SAD NO.. SORRY.. NOT AT ALL.. I hear what your saying Little Miss Muffin. I'm an old fashioned girl myself, and from what I have seen (my parents have been married since 1968) it's the little things that hold everything together. You have to take care of your partner and your partner has to take care of you. You have to put forth the effort if you want a marriage to succeed. I know your not saying that the women should be subservient. Both partners have to keep up their end of the bargain. That's just my
[This message was edited Wed Oct 29 19:10:52 PST 2003 by Sweeny79] Yes swee... that is ALL i was saying.. thank you!!! Your welcome In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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CtheUncanny said: LittleMissMuffin said: I am not.. but i would like to be.. I would make a damn good wife.. My husband would have cooked meals in front of him every day.. clean clothes, massages, all the sex he wants...
I can't say many women would do what i would do.. I would wake up at 3am if my husband had to work later and make him a 3 course meal if he wanted that.. .You need to treat your man right!! He needs to be cared for! That would work for a few months, then you would start to feel underappreciated and will constantly tell him you want a life of your own. He would stay out drinking to keep from hearing this when he got home. You two would fight constantly until you divorced. In which case you would get the house. :LOL: Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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Byron said: bkw said: Oh yeah, I've been happily married for 12 years now.
The secrets are honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship, and trust. The last one is quite crucial as you need to occaisionally spend some time appart from each other. Cheers
p.s the alcohol really does help. Actually, the secret is finding the right person. It sounds like you did...
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bkw said: Byron said: bkw said: Oh yeah, I've been happily married for 12 years now.
The secrets are honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship, and trust. The last one is quite crucial as you need to occaisionally spend some time appart from each other. Cheers
p.s the alcohol really does help. Actually, the secret is finding the right person. It sounds like you did...
~Single~ Yes, I guess it helps to find the right person first. Mm-Hmmm...
Everything else you mentioned is perfection  ...but if you aren't with the right person, you may find yourself wishing you were...even with honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship and trust in existence. | |
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Byron said: bkw said: Byron said: bkw said: Oh yeah, I've been happily married for 12 years now.
The secrets are honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship, and trust. The last one is quite crucial as you need to occaisionally spend some time appart from each other. Cheers
p.s the alcohol really does help. Actually, the secret is finding the right person. It sounds like you did...
~Single~ Yes, I guess it helps to find the right person first. Mm-Hmmm...
Everything else you mentioned is perfection ...but if you aren't with the right person, you may find yourself wishing you were...even with honesty, loyalty, compromise, friendship and trust in existence.Indeed, you are right my friend. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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i'm getting so frickin' excited | |
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MrBliss said: i'm getting so frickin' excited
I wish you all the best. | |
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MrBliss said: i'm getting so frickin' excited
Congrats, Bliss... enjoy the day, too. Its your day, your bride's day, do what you want! | |
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Oh, and having flowers given to her while she gets ready is a big PLUS! They can be grocery store flowers, whatever, but it is a sweet gesture..I gave some to my husband that day..he was surprised...hey, just give this post to your fiance. Let her give you some flowers.. | |
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