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PLEASE HELP!!! I need everyones opinion. If I say I would rather die before my momma died>>> does that make me selfish??? I need solid answers cuz I'm gathering info for a class. 
 
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I hear she's allergic to apples so better be careful | |
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you would only be trying to avoid dealing with the death of your mother via dying first, thus putting her through tons of grief only to save yourself from that very same grief.
yes, it would make you selfish. | |
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Sometimes I find myself thinking about the same thing. I love both of my parents so much and the thought of them not being here one day just tears me up inside, I dont know how I'll make it through it.  | |
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imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: you would only be trying to avoid dealing with the death of your mother via dying first, thus putting her through tons of grief only to save yourself from that very same grief.
yes, it would make you selfish. hey that's what some of my classmates said, and i disagreed. I don't feel selfish.. I just want her to live a long time.
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Some people wanna leave first so they don't have to face loosing anyone or living alone. Some people would rather live til very old so's not to cause anyone greefe. Persoally I'd rather see of my friends and familly before I go because I care for them and wouldn't want them to have to go to another funeral on my acount. NOTE: THIS ACCOUNT IS NOW CLOSED. PLEASE CONTACT “K A M  L L E” | |
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You are not selfish.. The thought of my mom moving on just tears my heart up.
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DOPEE said: imnotsayinthisjust2bnasty said: you would only be trying to avoid dealing with the death of your mother via dying first, thus putting her through tons of grief only to save yourself from that very same grief.
yes, it would make you selfish. hey that's what some of my classmates said, and i disagreed. I don't feel selfish.. I just want her to live a long time. but you have to ask yourself why you want her to live that long of a life. is it so she lives a long life or is it because the thought of losing her is too painful to deal with? if it is the latter, then even though it's out of love, it is still selfish. you'd rather her go through the pain than go through it yourself. but, on the other hand, if you simply want her to live a long time, then no, it is not selfish. | |
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It is a little selfish, but natural and from a loving place. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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