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PrintableI try not to regret anything I do but there have been a couple of times where I wish I had waited but mainly because the sex sucked and the experience could have been so much better if we had given a damn about each other. The orger I am currently seeing is such a gentleman. We've been dating about three months and I feel I am gonna jump his bones any second now but it has so cool that he respects me like that. | |
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stymie said: I try not to regret anything I do but there have been a couple of times where I wish I had waited but mainly because the sex sucked and the experience could have been so much better if we had given a damn about each other. The orger I am currently seeing is such a gentleman. We've been dating about three months and I feel I am gonna jump his bones any second now but it has so cool that he respects me like that.
you go girl 
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justkelley said: stymie said: I try not to regret anything I do but there have been a couple of times where I wish I had waited but mainly because the sex sucked and the experience could have been so much better if we had given a damn about each other. The orger I am currently seeing is such a gentleman. We've been dating about three months and I feel I am gonna jump his bones any second now but it has so cool that he respects me like that.
you go girl
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justkelley said: Byron said: When you reach the point where there's far more between you both than physical attraction and the "newness" of it all...how long that takes, depends on the people involved. Nobody ever really regrets waiting...but many have regretted not waiting.
you make a great point honey..:Hug: I try...  | |
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i am so annoyed with the double-standard we still apply to sex - the old guy-is-a-playa/girl-is-a-slut thing.
if you are clear in your mind about what it is you want - go and get it. two consenting adults can have an outstanding relationship at whatever level without having to play games, hold out, pretend to want something they don't, etc. still, people go out and make things unnecessarily complicated, and 99% of the time it's because of societal norms or convention. what an incredible waste of time! so, y'all get to shagging - you have i.b.'s permission!  | |
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irresistibleb1tch said: so, y'all get to shagging - you have i.b.'s permission!
Thanks! | |
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Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
This threads for you Kelley cause I know ya reached your limit for today. hmmm. good question paisley! personally, i think women should fuck their dates RIGHT AWAY, before even conversation ensues because, after all, who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed? | |
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XxAxX said: ...who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed?
Have I read that right?  | |
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Well I usually knew if I was interested in the guy or just wanted sex. If I just wanted sex I was selfish and went for it but if I thought that the guy was going to be around a while I ususally would wait and see. But hey I broke all those rules with my hubby as I gave it up the first time we met and we've been together for 10 years now so 
it really depends on what you want and what he wants as well. I believe that sex can enhance a relationship as well as complicate it so just because you sleep with someone early on does not mean it will be something you regret. 
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irresistibleb1tch said: i am so annoyed with the double-standard we still apply to sex - the old guy-is-a-playa/girl-is-a-slut thing.
if you are clear in your mind about what it is you want - go and get it. two consenting adults can have an outstanding relationship at whatever level without having to play games, hold out, pretend to want something they don't, etc. still, people go out and make things unnecessarily complicated, and 99% of the time it's because of societal norms or convention. what an incredible waste of time! so, y'all get to shagging - you have i.b.'s permission! 
you go girl...thats right what are we ...suck in the 50's ??? 
if i wanna get it on with this guy...then i will  and not because you say its ok...but because i am woman enough to do so yay me...
plus...if you all havent noticed, im in a bit of need. now...what do i do when i put it on him and his ass gets addicted ? 
been so long since i had to deal with these issues
well...if it any indication...the candles are around the bed...room is clean...sheets are changed...music is on...and im waiting on my first coat of paint to dry on my toes
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stymie said: justkelley said: stymie said: I try not to regret anything I do but there have been a couple of times where I wish I had waited but mainly because the sex sucked and the experience could have been so much better if we had given a damn about each other. The orger I am currently seeing is such a gentleman. We've been dating about three months and I feel I am gonna jump his bones any second now but it has so cool that he respects me like that.
you go girl
getem baby girl...we are so much more alike than you EVEN know...  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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XxAxX said: Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
This threads for you Kelley cause I know ya reached your limit for today. hmmm. good question paisley! personally, i think women should fuck their dates RIGHT AWAY, before even conversation ensues because, after all, who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed? damn straight...if he cant take care of business in the sheets...who wants him anyway ...right ? THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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butterfli25 said: Well I usually knew if I was interested in the guy or just wanted sex. If I just wanted sex I was selfish and went for it but if I thought that the guy was going to be around a while I ususally would wait and see. But hey I broke all those rules with my hubby as I gave it up the first time we met and we've been together for 10 years now so
it really depends on what you want and what he wants as well. I believe that sex can enhance a relationship as well as complicate it so just because you sleep with someone early on does not mean it will be something you regret. much love honey... 
even if it doesnt work...let i get my groove on THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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Fuck waiting...if you're both horny just screw. Who cares as long as you protect yourself.
But hey, that's just me! | |
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CarrieLee said: Fuck waiting...if you're both horny just screw. Who cares as long as you protect yourself.
But hey, that's just me! seems this is the decisione ive come too
  
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GO GO GET IT GET IT
GIRL!!!
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I am so glad my guy is horney! What is a satisfied 50 year old woman to do... ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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I think it depends on how long you know the guy and feel the situation out.. I knew my boyfriend for 8 months before we started doing anything... then one day it just happened.. There have been times though i have been quite the slut (not often but it has happened, sad to say) but i have met a guy at 10pm and slept with him at 1am)... That was back in the day! Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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Number23 said:  Exactly. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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XxAxX said: Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
This threads for you Kelley cause I know ya reached your limit for today. hmmm. good question paisley! personally, i think women should fuck their dates RIGHT AWAY, before even conversation ensues because, after all, who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed? | |
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Whenever she feels the time is right. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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stymie said: XxAxX said: Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
This threads for you Kelley cause I know ya reached your limit for today. hmmm. good question paisley! personally, i think women should fuck their dates RIGHT AWAY, before even conversation ensues because, after all, who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed? yes girl...you did you are breaking the 'freak code' THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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justkelley said: what are we ... suck in the 50's ???
that's a Freudian slip if i've ever seen one!! | |
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irresistibleb1tch said: justkelley said: what are we ... suck in the 50's ???
that's a Freudian slip if i've ever seen one!! DAMN...you know what i meant 
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justkelley said: irresistibleb1tch said: justkelley said: what are we ... suck in the 50's ???
that's a Freudian slip if i've ever seen one!! DAMN...you know what i meant
so my spelling is off a bit or... just waaay to much dick on my mind THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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justkelley said: just waaay to much dick on my mind you? nawww!!! | |
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irresistibleb1tch said: justkelley said: just waaay to much dick on my mind you? nawww!!!  i loves ya IB
you make orging fun  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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justkelley said: irresistibleb1tch said: justkelley said: just waaay to much dick on my mind you? nawww!!! i loves ya IB
you make orging fun  | |
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stymie said: XxAxX said: Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
This threads for you Kelley cause I know ya reached your limit for today. hmmm. good question paisley! personally, i think women should fuck their dates RIGHT AWAY, before even conversation ensues because, after all, who'd want to waste valuable time getting to know someone who sux in bed? yes dear i know that. i was being a bit tongue in cheek | |
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Paisley said: When it comes to giving-up the goods how long do you think a girl should wait, one week, one month, one year, etc.?
One hour.  | |
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