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Ending a friendship, how do I do it? I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? Related Threads: http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64585 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64707 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64734 | |
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Tell them you're in a "relationship" with their dad. | |
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Number23 said: Tell them you're in a "relationship" with their dad.
Hee.hee...YUCK. | |
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cut and dry say look... its it and thats that...done..and walk away. at least that the way i do it. yeah its coldblooded but fuck it i find being all longwinded with words is tiresome and just a waste of time. do it get it done. and be gone. be direct.
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Finess said: cut and dry say look... its it and thats that...done..and walk away. at least that the way i do it. yeah its coldblooded but fuck it i find being all longwinded with words is tiresome and just a waste of time. do it get it done. and be gone. be direct.
shit,i am such a bastid Thanks... I thought of doing it that way. | |
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slm4m said: Finess said: cut and dry say look... its it and thats that...done..and walk away. at least that the way i do it. yeah its coldblooded but fuck it i find being all longwinded with words is tiresome and just a waste of time. do it get it done. and be gone. be direct.
shit,i am such a bastid Thanks... I thought of doing it that way. its the only way i know and your welcome | |
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slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? Related Threads: http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64585 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64707 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64734 Sounds like the friendship has already ended. Your problem now is shaking someone whos a pain in the ass. Try to avoid them at all costs and if U have any more problems call the police. Don't let anyone haras you. NOTE: THIS ACCOUNT IS NOW CLOSED. PLEASE CONTACT “K A M  L L E” | |
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Finess said: slm4m said: Finess said: cut and dry say look... its it and thats that...done..and walk away. at least that the way i do it. yeah its coldblooded but fuck it i find being all longwinded with words is tiresome and just a waste of time. do it get it done. and be gone. be direct.
shit,i am such a bastid Thanks... I thought of doing it that way. its the only way i know and your welcomeIt has beeen a very wierd experience, sometimes you don't know where to turn. Thanks for yor help. | |
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CAMILLE4U said: slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? Related Threads: http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64585 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64707 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64734 Sounds like the friendship has already ended. Your problem now is shaking someone whos a pain in the ass. Try to avoid them at all costs and if U have any more problems call the police. Don't let anyone haras you. Yes, it will end tonight. | |
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slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? If you've not spoken in a week I think you've done the difficult bit. Personally, I'd avoid the places you know he's going to be at. If he is harrassing you I'd take the advice given in one of your previous threads on this subject and take out an injunction. But really I think the ball's in your court. If you're ready to drop the friendship then you really need to start going different places or doing different things, not bringing yourself into contact with this person on a regular basis. Good Luck | |
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Raspberry said: slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? If you've not spoken in a week I think you've done the difficult bit. Personally, I'd avoid the places you know he's going to be at. If he is harrassing you I'd take the advice given in one of your previous threads on this subject and take out an injunction. But really I think the ball's in your court. If you're ready to drop the friendship then you really need to start going different places or doing different things, not bringing yourself into contact with this person on a regular basis. Good Luck Yes, I agree, I have hoped that he would stop behaving this way before now. He is being childish about the whole thing. | |
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slm4m said: Raspberry said: slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? If you've not spoken in a week I think you've done the difficult bit. Personally, I'd avoid the places you know he's going to be at. If he is harrassing you I'd take the advice given in one of your previous threads on this subject and take out an injunction. But really I think the ball's in your court. If you're ready to drop the friendship then you really need to start going different places or doing different things, not bringing yourself into contact with this person on a regular basis. Good Luck Yes, I agree, I have hoped that he would stop behaving this way before now. He is being childish about the whole thing. A written letter, perhaps. | |
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Give me his/her phone number, you'll never hear from them again. Promise. Life my azz muthafucka, dis is a bitness!!
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Before you do make sure you get all your cd's back! | |
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billysparxxx said: Give me his/her phone number, you'll never hear from them again. Promise.
hee, he,-- Now, now, billy -- none of that. [This message was edited Fri Oct 17 13:33:50 PDT 2003 by slm4m] | |
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sinisterpentatonic said: Before you do make sure you get all your cd's back!
Never lent any too him. | |
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There's no easy way to say goodbye. | |
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well,
if i could type candidly, I really dont know how/or whats happening when hes freaking you out, but as a suggestion, if i dont want to continue a "relationship" of any kind...just always be busy, make it were you cant "go" er "do" anything with 'em...and if it gets to the point were they ask you WHY? well, explain...(but avoiding them usually works, sad but true!) *... "ive always said, that if you have to ask for something more than once or twice, it wasnt yours in the first place"...* | |
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Restraining-ass order. | |
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I'm curious: Did you ever find out what he gets so mad at you about?
Anyway, you've initiated the end with no contact in a week. If he calls, somes by, etc., simply tell him flatly hat you think it's a good idea if you guys just part ways. Be nice; you owe him nothing more. If he keeps harrassing you, I agree, get a restraining order. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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slm4m said: slm4m said: Raspberry said: slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? If you've not spoken in a week I think you've done the difficult bit. Personally, I'd avoid the places you know he's going to be at. If he is harrassing you I'd take the advice given in one of your previous threads on this subject and take out an injunction. But really I think the ball's in your court. If you're ready to drop the friendship then you really need to start going different places or doing different things, not bringing yourself into contact with this person on a regular basis. Good Luck Yes, I agree, I have hoped that he would stop behaving this way before now. He is being childish about the whole thing. A written letter, perhaps. Why? Why keep contacting him? If you're really serious about it I think you need to stop having contact with him, not prolonging the friendship through letters and stuff. It seems like he doesn't want contact with you either, by what you've said in the past, so I think you just need to make a firm stand and not contact him anymore ... if that's what you want. | |
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OK, let me be totally honest...
I've just got in from the pub, it's 23:48 where I am, so you really are going to get some straight up honesty. [snip - sober next morning edit!] [This message was edited Sat Oct 18 3:04:07 PDT 2003 by daned] "You know, you're the classic example of the inverse ratio between the size of the mouth and the size of the brain" | |
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CAMILLE4U said: slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? Related Threads: http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64585 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64707 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64734 Sounds like the friendship has already ended. Your problem now is shaking someone whos a pain in the ass. Try to avoid them at all costs and if U have any more problems call the police. Don't let anyone haras you. GOOD ADVICE! Sometimes one "MUST" get the "POLICE" and "OTHER AUTHORITIES" involved. It is MY own experience that ppl who harass/stalk U R VERY "difficult" indeed 2 irradicate from making ones life as "MISERABLE" as "THEIR" own is. They just dont take "GET LOST" or "GET HELP" 4 an answer. Some think U R the "ONE" harassing "THEM". They R very hard 2 deal with, and do not listen 2 "reason" 4 the most part. They can make ur life "hell" if not dealt with by the authorities, as they have a weak "hold" on reality, & if they feel that their initial "harassments" arent getting 2 U enough, ( but, 4 now, this guy seems 2 KNOW he's STILL getting 2 U, so he's satisfied ) they will TRY "other" more disturbing things & maybe even hurt U with violent acts. ACT QUICKLY 2 STOP him NOW. May the BELLS ring 4 U even when ur not in love.   | |
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your friend needs professional care. PLEASE do all you can to help him - i'm afraid if you don't, you'll look back on this in a few years and regret not having done something to help him. | |
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billysparxxx said: Give me his/her phone number, you'll never hear from them again. Promise.
Billy, is ur offer "good 2 go" 4 others who R being harassed?  I have a VERY similar problem AND I'm female & I "think" "they" R male. But "this" is "very" serious, & I'm getting the authorities involved now. I know ur "tough" reputation from the "beatdown" days, even though I know that was joking more than anything else... May the BELLS ring 4 U even when ur not in love. | |
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Number23 said: Tell them you're in a "relationship" with their dad.
No!  I got something better:
their MOM!!!  They did WHAT??!.... 
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slm4m said: I know that I have started threads on this topic more than a few times last week. This has become a big problem since then. Recently, I have had disturbing episodes of conflict with a friend. We have not spoken in a week. Every time I see him in the area, he starts freaking out on me. I have told him not to speak too me again. It seems not to be working.
How does one end a friendship once & for all? Related Threads: http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64585 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64707 http://www.prince.org/msg/100/64734 If you really want to end it then tell them to get the fuck out you low life piece of shit. Go, away with you, scram, split, go away kid your bothering me, GET THE FUCK OUT | |
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Kill him!  | |
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silverjean said: well,
if i could type candidly, I really dont know how/or whats happening when hes freaking you out, but as a suggestion, if i dont want to continue a "relationship" of any kind...just always be busy, make it were you cant "go" er "do" anything with 'em...and if it gets to the point were they ask you WHY? well, explain...(but avoiding them usually works, sad but true!) Aviodance... hmm, maybe that is my best bet. I will not be contacing him by letter or otherwise. Thanks. | |
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