how do you make a decision in life that could change your everyday life...without fucking up ?

i mean...when you have a serious choice to make...and you really dont know where to go...what the fuck do you do ??

i think i am gonna go live under a rock

Be honest with yourself. I am sure you know what is the best thing to do. Have the courage to act on it.

:prey: You'll make the right choice.

Be honest. Weigh the pros and the cons.

Don't be afraid of making the wrong decision. We make lots of wrong decisions. The most successful people make the most mistakes because they make the most decisions. Just learn from whatever happens.

flip a coin

Seriously... life is all about taking chances, we win some and we... well you know. And it's o.k.

~For me, I talk to certain people I feel will listen... it allows me to hear myself during a moment of decision and in turn help make a final decision through some analyzing. Yes, I am so analytical. It has worked for me.

Good Luck!

justkelley said:

where does this come from??? what astrological sign r u?

PurpleLove7 said:

im a libra...i think that says it all

my scales are all in a mess

teller said:

Couldn't agree more...

A design professor I had told us to never, ever throw away anything we don't like or deem a "failure"...she'd have us coming up with 100 different book cover designs in a day and a half, then after we would, she would tell us to come up with 100 more book cover concepts...MG, the successful designs we'd come up with in the midst of all those "failures" we were forced to indure...

I can't think of a better life lesson to pass on to others, than to not fear making "wrong" decisions...make them, learn from them, find the positive within them, and discover just how strong a soul you truly are.

justkelley said:

hmmm...

Expanding the horizons of your mind could be very much on your mind today, dear Libra. You might decide to travel to a place you've always wanted to visit, or you could decide to go back to school and get an advanced degree. Either way, you're likely to spend much of the day considering the idea, as well as doing a lot of reading and research on what interests you. At some point you'll want to go for a workout to rid your system of some of the tension of the day.

justkelley said:

Just try Pepsi...you might like it better than coke.

the only wrong decision is to not make a decision

whichever choice you make, you can adjust as time goes on if things don't go as hoped

justkelley said:

I changed my whole life about 2 years ago.. it was hte hardest thing in the world to walk away with what was normal and stable.
But you know it is right by gut instinct.. YOu will know if it is right or wrong.. go with your heart!

You're gettin lots of good advice on this thread. All I would add is listen to your gut. I say that all the time, but it is one of the best things you can do for yourself. You probably already know what you need to do.

Love you sweetie!

AaronUniversal said:

my whole life is a flip of the coin

thanks guys
youre the best