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PrintablePEJ said: For the record, if I'm somewhere with somebody or alone and confronted face to face where I have no choice but to defend myself I'm down for minez and those I care for FAMILY AND FRIENDS and the innocent that may be affected by some offender /muthafucka!!! Let it be known, if shits gonna hit the fan I'll be there! Beings I am on thin ice w/ the law it could definetely get me violated but fuck it if done for a good reason..so take me... as far as having verbal issues with anyone on internet sites to me is for the birds... I mean really though when will we see any of these antagonizing panzies in person... as far as seeking them out, they could never personally say anything in words to make me wanna find them..their karma will mos def make them suffer . might sound weak and lame and not right but hey like I said I'm not in control of anybodys karma but my own...I've probably experienced more racial stereo typing biggotry than most of you could fathom . But those thing are irrelevant when it comes to whats going on here. No matter what someone does to us be it clown, talk shit, etc. it just shows their insecure... now to put myself on that level will fuck up my karma... Isay it from experience and before I saw my own karma fuck up on me cuz I didn't listen to anybody..Ihad ny mind made up I wanted sweet revenge...
I'm sure we could write a book on this one?? What do you think... lol lol lol I hear someone through the walls yelling at me | |
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NovaAngel said: I've found out that someone I considered a good friend has been gossiping and spreading lies about me. This completely sucks. Why do people feel the need to gossip in the first place? I'm going to approach him directly and ask him about it and tell him that what he did was immature.
Sorry, I just had to let some steam off. People can really be assh*les sometimes and it's disappointing when it's someone you trusted. [This message was edited Mon Oct 13 12:35:13 PDT 2003 by NovaAngel] I have no time for such people. If there's any doubt about whether I've been backstabbed, I'll usually forgive and forget the first time. The second time though, I won't. I find it easy to cut people out of my life if they're not real friends. So, I personally probably wouldn't even bother to stage a confrontation. They'd just get frozen out. If they felt the freeze and wanted to ask me about it, I'd tell them. It would be up to them then to make amends. | |
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PEJ said: For the record, if I'm somewhere with somebody or alone and confronted face to face where I have no choice but to defend myself I'm down for minez and those I care for FAMILY AND FRIENDS and the innocent that may be affected by some offender /muthafucka!!! Let it be known, if shits gonna hit the fan I'll be there! Beings I am on thin ice w/ the law it could definetely get me violated but fuck it if done for a good reason..so take me... as far as having verbal issues with anyone on internet sites to me is for the birds... I mean really though when will we see any of these antagonizing panzies in person... as far as seeking them out, they could never personally say anything in words to make me wanna find them..their karma will mos def make them suffer . might sound weak and lame and not right but hey like I said I'm not in control of anybodys karma but my own...I've probably experienced more racial stereo typing biggotry than most of you could fathom . But those thing are irrelevant when it comes to whats going on here. No matter what someone does to us be it clown, talk shit, etc. it just shows their insecure... now to put myself on that level will fuck up my karma... Isay it from experience and before I saw my own karma fuck up on me cuz I didn't listen to anybody..Ihad ny mind made up I wanted sweet revenge...
Wtf does the internet have to do with anything? "Climb in my fur." | |
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Christopher said: NovaAngel said: 'How do you deal with a backstabbing "friend"?'
. a punch in the face That explains your face.  | |
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I wouldn't consider someone like that a friend.  With friends like that who needs enemies? | |
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rdhull said: PEJ said: For the record, if I'm somewhere with somebody or alone and confronted face to face where I have no choice but to defend myself I'm down for minez and those I care for FAMILY AND FRIENDS and the innocent that may be affected by some offender /muthafucka!!! Let it be known, if shits gonna hit the fan I'll be there! Beings I am on thin ice w/ the law it could definetely get me violated but fuck it if done for a good reason..so take me... as far as having verbal issues with anyone on internet sites to me is for the birds... I mean really though when will we see any of these antagonizing panzies in person... as far as seeking them out, they could never personally say anything in words to make me wanna find them..their karma will mos def make them suffer . might sound weak and lame and not right but hey like I said I'm not in control of anybodys karma but my own...I've probably experienced more racial stereo typing biggotry than most of you could fathom . But those thing are irrelevant when it comes to whats going on here. No matter what someone does to us be it clown, talk shit, etc. it just shows their insecure... now to put myself on that level will fuck up my karma... Isay it from experience and before I saw my own karma fuck up on me cuz I didn't listen to anybody..Ihad ny mind made up I wanted sweet revenge...
Wtf does the internet have to do with anything? say what!!! my bad man, for the amount of time we spend in front of a computer who has time for beefs with folks in the real world... guess i'm just used to seeing a lot of conflict here and there.. no pun... To Sir, with Love | |
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I won't stress 2 much over it nor will I play...I just cut the brotha/person off. I don't face that prob much, very rare somebody would try 2 backstab me (not my style)...My senses are sharp enough 2 pick up & catch on 2 weak people who pull that~ As my former friend who thought he was slick found out.
The people around me or who really know me respect me & got luv 4 this brotha (much)...treat those the way U want 2 B treated. 4 whatever reason people will still sometimes change up & fail U, that X friend got "greedy" and wanted what I had. He lost out in the end cuz karmas a real MF sometimes... | |
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I would feel the way you do.. I wold want to confront them and put them on the spot about talkin crap. Then i would cut them loose real fast... Who needs more drama in your life.. Little Miss Muffin... You vixen you...-Sag10 | |
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Two things:
Forgiveness: You don't owe it to him, but you have to decide whether you can live without forgiving him. Often we harbor grudges that eat us up while the assholes who violated us go on happily and none the wiser. Cut him off... with zero warning: Whether you forgive or not, he doesn't have to be a part of your life -- No phone calls. No e-mails. No requests that he return anything he may have borrowed, and if you have anything of his, put it out on the doorstep. Also, no need for him to explain himself or you to vent your pain.. not on your time, anyway. This type of closure may make you feel vindicated, but it's a cheap thrill and he won't/can't care. As of this second, act like God never created him... unless he forces you to pay attention to him, in which case you should try your damnedest to destroy him. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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ThePrettyman said: I won't stress 2 much over it nor will I play...I just cut the brotha/person off. I don't face that prob much, very rare somebody would try 2 backstab me (not my style)...My senses are sharp enough 2 pick up & catch on 2 weak people who pull that~ As my former friend who thought he was slick found out.
The people around me or who really know me respect me & got luv 4 this brotha (much)...treat those the way U want 2 B treated. 4 whatever reason people will still sometimes change up & fail U, that X friend got "greedy" and wanted what I had. He lost out in the end cuz karmas a real MF sometimes... ahhh!!! the power of karma!!  it always serves its own purpose!To Sir, with Love | |
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