NovaAngel said:

Or you could get some revenge in a subtle, seceret, even powerful way, for stomping on your trust like that...you'd be vindicated in your heart. Once trust has been broken it's no holds barred imo.

luv4u said:

Good advice. Already done.

rdhull said:

Believe me I'd considered that option but he's not worth all that trouble. I'd rather look him in the face and tell him how I honestly feel.
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NovaAngel said:

Look him in the eye, tell him how you feel...then get some get back.

do not put sugar in their gas tank, egg their car, or there house or else all the shit they been talkin makes might be true! really though Nova if your confident that your not shady why care then??? Peeps been sayin shit about me all my life... If it was ever true and I accepted it I waould try to change the bad things I do for the better and just to improve plain simple!

rdhull said:

If he continues with his BS, I'll do what's necessary.

NovaAngel said:

kill bill

PEJ said:

Becaue her trust and honor was disrespected...sometimes that turn the other cheek bullshit just that...bullshit.

Acuse him of sexual asault, no no
Spread the "He got it..." rumor no no
JUST SAY and have another man 'tax that ass'

just walk away. don't give him another second of your time/energy. count yourself lucky you found out he can't be trusted

rdhull said:

Damn right! I even got access to the family collection of samurai swords in case of such eventualities Teach em a lesson, that's what I say!

PEJ said:

My man! I'm not going to do anything of the sort. That'd be petty and I'd be playing on his level. I'd rather face the accuser directly and honestly. Man to man. That's how I want to handle this. I know that I haven't done anything to deserve the disrespect. What bothers me is that this was a person who seemed like a brother to me you know? The fact that it was from someone I least suspected is what pisses me off.
But trust me, I can handle my business without losing my self respect. Thanks brotha.

NovaAngel said:

You seem to have a level head regarding this situation... Good luck.

FUCK THE HIGH ROAD!!! KILL, KILL, KILL
and have a blessed day.

00769BAD said:

sag10 said:

Thanks sag. I've been through too much in my past and had even lost my self respect for a while. I'd made mistakes like everyone else but more than made up for them. It took a while and the road back was hard but after a long struggle, I got my dignity and self respect back. I'll be damned if I give it up willingly by acting less than the person I've fought so hard to become.

00769BAD said:

for real doe

00769BAD said:

rdhull said:

Nova's not female , right? Look Rd and anybody... my point is plain and simple, if peeps say shit behind my back I must be doin somethin right to make them wanna include me in their conversations.(their just hatin)... now I dunno if you think confronting them is the answer but anyone that believes someones GOSSIP or RUMORS probably ain't worth my time anyway, especially if they realkly don't know me!!! so fuck em ... I've had plenty of face to face confrontations with folks in my life be it because of race, religion, hating or whatever and to waste my energy on someone whos goal it is to piss me off is not what I think I wanna do...try sittin in the joint for a lil while and your always having some beef with someone over stupid shit...

PEJ said:

Very true, the more you feed into the "hate" the worse it is for you. Better to walk away with your hands and mind clean.

If everyone always turns the other cheek to said offender...he wont learn nuffin'.

rdhull said:

good point

But if said offender eventually loses everyone they love because they could not keep their trap shut, don't you think they would have to revaluate their life and then learn from their mistake?
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PEJ said:

I'm hearing ya PEJ. I'm not looking for a confrontation but a resolution. I just want this guy to know where I stand. It's cool. I'm man enough not to throw fists. Dialogue is enough at this point. After that, it's done.

rdhull said:

I respect that and sometimes the old me would have made sure they learned no matter how aggresive I had to get duct tape and all, step knows what I mean )... but I won't get into that... since then I have learned how karma works and I realize that in life when we do good our karma is good and those who do wrong be it deliberately offending folks or in even worse ways will get theirs on their own... we don't control their karma so why try to make them learn when they don't believe in changing for the better... they are the ones who suffer the most in the end... theirs a reason some peeps enjoy offending others... they can't stand to see others happy so they will say or do whatever they can to make peeps feel as miserable and shitty as them... we have a few here and we know they don't smile much w/out ever seeing them... fuck em, it's obvious their idiots...any of them peeps change yet,? probably not!!!

Childwithin said:

The problem with that is some idiots NEVER learn and keep on making mistakes...

NovaAngel said:

exactly haters don't understand that change can be a good thing...

I agree wholeheartedly with all you have said...but Point being..u fuck me over u will get fucked over as well..sooner or later...even if it takes years..not saying that its a mad scientist, work day and night and obsess...but this forgive them for they know not what they do and Im on a highler plane is for the birds.

rdhull said:

Who said anything about forgiveness? F*ck THAT! That being said, there's a time and place for everything just as there is a consequence for every action and choice. I know when and when NOT to throw down. Anyway my mind is set and I'm going to follow through. But I understand where you're coming from RD. Believe me I do.

NovaAngel said:

You've got that right! Sorry for your experience.

For the record, if I'm somewhere with somebody or alone and confronted face to face where I have no choice but to defend myself I'm down for minez and those I care for FAMILY AND FRIENDS and the innocent that may be affected by some offender /muthafucka!!! Let it be known, if shits gonna hit the fan I'll be there! Beings I am on thin ice w/ the law it could definetely get me violated but fuck it if done for a good reason..so take me... as far as having verbal issues with anyone on internet sites to me is for the birds... I mean really though when will we see any of these antagonizing panzies in person... as far as seeking them out, they could never personally say anything in words to make me wanna find them..their karma will mos def make them suffer . might sound weak and lame and not right but hey like I said I'm not in control of anybodys karma but my own...I've probably experienced more racial stereo typing biggotry than most of you could fathom . But those thing are irrelevant when it comes to whats going on here. No matter what someone does to us be it clown, talk shit, etc. it just shows their insecure... now to put myself on that level will fuck up my karma... Isay it from experience and before I saw my own karma fuck up on me cuz I didn't listen to anybody..Ihad ny mind made up I wanted sweet revenge...