whatchu look like?

my sister is 25 and single...she will probably be 45 and single too

MizzHeavenly said:

maybe she just needs a cool hip makeover and stylish threads

AnotherLoverToo said:

whatchu look like?

Christopher said:

The most beautiful girl in the world... does not need a make-over...she just needs a boyfriend.

Christopher said:

[color=red:3d7a38cfeb:681e193087] Ooooh, but I gotta think twice before I give my heart away and I know all the games ya play--because I play them, too!

AnotherLoverToo said:

check my profile carrie

AnotherLoverToo said:

MizzHeavenly said:

i know i was trying to give her the upperhand seeing as im sure shes pretty

The most beautiful girl in the world... does not need a make-over...she just needs a boyfriend.

Christopher said:

MizzHeavenly said:

I thought she had one.

Christopher said:

Umm no you do not understand...the orger The most beautiful girl in the world is my sister...ooops the cat is out of the bag.

MizzHeavenly said:

omggg...ggg i love jess aka most beautiful girl
shes my org homie! goodtimes

Well, I think the media and people in general tend to focus on 30-something single women more than men, because there is more social stigma attached to being single and female. If a man is single, he's often seen as being that way by choice, as not wanting to settle down, and wanting to be "free". Whereas, women are usually viewed as being single involuntarily, only because no one wants her, and that there must be something "wrong" with her. Older single men are referred to as "bachelors", while single women are called "spinsters" or "old maids"--definitely a less favorable term.

I believe that often, both men and women can be unrealistic in their expectations of a potential mate. Many times, we focus on attaining relationships with people who embody the physical or economical ideal, rather than intellectual, emotional or spiritual compatibility. Many of us have been subconsciously trained to think that anything less than perfection is "settling".

Last, but not least, I think many of us are drawn to the "unattainable", thus setting ourselves up for failure and for being alone again (naturally ). We are trying to resolve past issues, and find ourselves repeating the same 'mistakes' over and over again. We find ourselves attracted to the same type of person time and again--someone who is not necessarily "right" for us, yet we try to make them right, to finally "win" and resolve that abandonment or self-esteem issue.
[This message was edited Sun Oct 5 19:52:36 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo]

Girl, we gotta get you a bible and a Lexus, because u r a preacher tonite!

matt said:

who you talking about fedex guy or ups guy...her and her damn shipping companies Whos next Airborne Express

For whatever reason or another, some men in their 30s still find themselves "childless" and single. For some of them, at least, it's the last place they wanted to be.

althom said:

You are a slut for cheap laughter, althom

Well, I think the media and people in general tend to focus on 30-something single women more than men, because there is more social stigma attached to being single and female. If a man is single, he's often seen as being that way by choice, as not wanting to settle down, and wanting to be "free". Whereas, women are usually viewed as being single involuntarily, only because no one wants her, and that there must be something "wrong" with her. Older single men are referred to as "bachelors", while single women are called "spinsters" or "old maids"--definitely a less favorable term.

I believe that often, both men and women can be unrealistic in their expectations of a potential mate. Many times, we focus on attaining relationships with people who embody the physical or economical ideal, rather than intellectual, emotional or spiritual compatibility. Many of us have been subconsciously trained to think that anything less than perfection is "settling".

Last, but not least, I think many of us are drawn to the "unattainable", thus setting ourselves up for failure and for being alone again (naturally ). We are trying to resolve past issues, and find ourselves repeating the same 'mistakes' over and over again. We find ourselves attracted to the same type of person time and again--someone who is not necessarily "right" for us, yet we try to make them right, to finally "win" and resolve that abandonment or self-esteem issue.
[This message was edited Sun Oct 5 19:52:36 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo]

AnotherLoverToo said:

I never thought.