You know I have known my girlfriend for 12 years and it took us 8 years to finally get together. we have been together for almost 4 years now and it still flows rather well. see it goes to show you that sometimes it just takes awhile for your heart to open and recieve the love you deserve.

i wish it worked that way

prrtybby said:

Wow, that's a long time... Well, sometimes it's better that way. I'm actually convinced people should not get married until they at least 25 or older... Don't know why maturity I guess... Usually you're ready by then.
It seems...

july said:

Yeah...I was 23 when I got married the first time...blew up in my face. Then later I dated a younger girl...blew up in my face. Late 20's is when we start to "settle down" and figure out how we want the rest of our lives to go...it's a good period to marry, I think.

july said:

I agree. I think that your mind and heart need to develope fully before you can truely be honest about what kind of person you are and what kind of person you want to be with.

prrtybby said:

Re-sign!

prrtybby said:

That's true...

july said:

july said:

Happy now?

Relationships should flow easy and free. It doesn't mean there isn't work required to maintain the beautiful balance tho.

Recognize a true blessing when it is given, Muse. Enjoy the soul connect and move forward in truth, strength and beauty. Life is best lived fully.



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32Flavors said:

Two awesome woman in one family!


Thank you

To an extent but every relationship requires some work to flow smoothly.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Girrrl, you should see our oldest sista, ooo weee she is something else! We are all skerred of her.

Thank you for the compliment tho and I sincerely wish you a beautiful time of discovery within your relationship, our souls are created to seek a divine compliment. Enjoy your blessings.

I used to believe that a relationship where everything flows was possible but now I'm not so sure. For me, I believe that a person has to first be comfortable and honest with himself when it comes to accepting his faults as well as his talents. It's not easy but if he can do this, then my guess is it'd make for an easier time in a relationship for both people involved.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

!
Just buy those matching hoodies from the gap and everything will be alright .

Christopher said:

Someone's being extra slutty today!

INSATIABLE said:

lol
sorry i need the $$$

jana

Christopher said:

INSATIABLE said:

got his hooker shoes on and everything...

NovaAngel said:

I fully agree! First thing this one did was get behind all the protective masks and really force me to face faults and strong points. He had, had enough of woman and falsehoods. That was the most baring uncomfortable process I had ever gone through but also the most rewarding! He had my personality nailed from the start. I had so many false boundaries that I kept people behind. In so doing I now know that he accepts me for just who I am. Not as I present myself publicly but for every scar be it emotional and or physical.

You would have thought the guy was trying to kill me or something. I just decided it was easier to follow through then fight. I knew he was right. I am so thankful I went through the process. I have never been so intimately bared before! I can honestly say David knows me better in 12 weeks then my X husband of 15 years ever did. AND the guy loves me anyway. Who knew? :LOL:


P.S. I have never been pretentious. I like most though just kept a lot of who I was and the why to myself. It kept me from ever being hurt I felt. It only served to make me feel lonely inside and unknown..

Christopher said:

:Lol:

Muse2NOPharaoh said:[quote]

NovaAngel said:

I fully agree! First thing this one did was get behind all the protective masks and really force me to face faults and strong points. He had, had enough of woman and falsehoods. That was the most baring uncomfortable process I had ever gone through but also the most rewarding! He had my personality nailed from the start. I had so many false boundaries that I kept people behind. In so doing I now know that he accepts me for just who I am. Not as I present myself publicly but for every scar be it emotional and or physical.

You would have thought the guy was trying to kill me or something. I just decided it was easier to follow through then fight. I knew he was right. I am so thankful I went through the process. I have never been so intimately bared before! I can honestly say David knows me better in 12 weeks then my X husband of 15 years ever did. AND the guy loves me anyway. Who knew? :LOL:




I think it's great that you're in such a positive relationship! You're a lot stronger than me. I think I'm getting too complacent and content in focusing on my self. Maybe it's a way of making sure I don't get hurt again. As it stands though, I'm quite comfortable just being by myself at the moment.

NovaAngel said:[quote]

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Thanks for being honest. I do understand your position well. I hope you are able to open again. Im sure in time you will be ready again!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Yeah! Thanx... Well... Maybe ya could have put a few fish in there... Then... Muah... It could be a masterpiece... Then it would have been great!...

Muse2NOPharaoh said:[quote]

NovaAngel said:

I'm sure I will too. I'm just going to go with the flow though and enjoy things.

july said:

You men are never satisfied!

Happy now?

I'm lonely and lookin but no ones knockin on my door..

DATskinnyMFwifdaHIGHvoice said:

Is it because you are a skinny mother fucker with a high voice?