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Printableteller said: sag10 said: It really shouldn't be an issue. Unfortunately, some people are very shallow.
You know I met a really wonderful older lady 3 weeks ago. Was married forever, had 3 wonderful bi-racial children. Her husband left her for another... Do you know that she never dated after that. She always put her children before she did herself... She said that she always felt like their race would be an issue... So she saved herself, and her children the pain. Very brave of her... ANd she is so profoundly happy. I wonder, though, if not having a father figure around does a little damage...seems like I was rather unhinged until I got my stepfather. They still had their father. He didn't live with them, but was very prominent in their lives.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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justkelley said: this is a another serious question from me...one i have wondered for a long time...
ok...you can guess the person i am from what i act like in here, i am friendly, outgoing, happy (most of the time), sensitive, compassionate, and trusting...which is why i feel i can ask this question of you all... i think by now most of you have seen my kids pictures in one form or another...you know that i am the proud momma of 2 bi-racial children (one boy,one girl). anyway...heres the question... is a woman...who has bi-racial children always to date outside her race ? understand that this is NOT a racial question really (as most of you know that shit really bugs me), but instead a serious question aimed at be serious and heartfelt from me. would you men out there feel comfortable dating a woman with mixed kids and feel comfortable marrying them ? whatever your answer is...please let me know why either way...  I am also a mother of 3 bi-racial children. My ex is Filipino and I am European, so that makes my kids Eurasian. Why not date outside your race ! I prefer that myself. 
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I generally avoid these topics but I detect you are sincere so here you go...
Since I have become single 4 years ago, I have dated 3 different men all Caucasian as am I. Neither they or my children who are biracial have had a problem with it or even hesitated. It absolutely never even came up. All 3 men took me very seriously. That is my experience. I would never select someone who would have issue with such things. I surround myself as a rule with people who are above those types of small minded crap. | |
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Our children. This weekend I received 3 white roses and one red! (Representing our 3 children and us) Pretty amazing he is! What you seek...It's out there Kelly! [This message was edited Mon Oct 6 12:45:41 PDT 2003 by Muse2NOPharaoh] | |
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I'm not sure I understand your question but I think you should date who you want to date. As long as he/she is a loving good person who cares? In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: (pic)
Our children. This weekend I received 3 white roses and one red! (Representing our 3 children and us) Pretty amazing he is! Muse...in that pic...you look like...you look like...A SIX FOOT FUCKING RAT!  Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said:
Our children. This weekend I received 3 white roses and one red! (Representing our 3 children and us) Pretty amazing he is! What you seek...It's out there Kelly!
[This message was edited Mon Oct 6 12:45:41 PDT 2003 by Muse2NOPharaoh] He definately sounds like a keeper! Nice picture.. your children have your smile.. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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righteous1 said: luv4thepurple1 said: Raspberry said: justkelley said: is a woman...who has bi-racial children always to date outside her race ? ... is a man who would even consider this to be an issue worth dating? Very true however, like in my case... I dont let men meet my children right away and to be honest dont feel I am obligated to tell this information to them being that my childrens race shouldnt be an issue. So after dating someone for a while then brining them around my children I would be curious to see how they would react... if they reacted wrong of course they would get the boot. But you just never know at the beginning. Well said luv4 So what your saying is your single   He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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