To me, (never having done that...) it would depend greatly on 1. Do U know the person at all? 2. Can u trust them, & feel safe with them? 3. Are U prepared 4 "safe sex"? 4. Do U really feel U have 2 have sex THAT same day, or could it wait 4 more feelings/affection/familiarity 2 develop? The latter being best IMO. I imagine, there R certain situations that would/could lead 2 a one nite stand, but 2 me, it would be just too hard 2 bare ones body ( no pun intended ) 2 a total stranger, no matter how attractive. One nite stands R what some "fantasies" R usually made of. The thought of a complete stranger, very attractive & charming & sensual etc. dancing "in the sheets" with U, only NEVER 2 see them again afterward, CAN B VERY stimulating. However, sex is much better when there are "other" factors like tenderness & "real" lovemaking or a deep mutual respect/admiration 4 a person. Not 2 say ANYTHING AGAINST raw, passionate, lustful sex, but man, U can feel ALL THAT & MORE with a person one knows & likes/loves. I'm speaking, 4 us women here mainly, I guess, as we know, men enjoy it ALOT, any way they can get it. ( being familiar or not with a partner ) however, I believe even men try HARDER ( no pun intended ) to please a partner they truly like/love/admire & are familiar with. Very Intoxicating! May the BELLS ring 4 U even when ur not in love. | |
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lillith said: i know!!! now i can't figure out if i've had 2 one-nite-stands or one one-night-stand and a second-nite stand. but i don't think so. cause if you had a one-nite-stand one night and then the second nite you did the same one-nite-stand again then he would be a second-night stand not someone you hadn't had a one-nite stand with yet. fuck it. i'll just call every guy i sleep with my boyfriend...whether he likes it or not!! ( not the sex of course...i KNOW he'll like that!!) i need to go take an advil now..i have a headache!!! | |
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I had a one nite stand a few years back. I woke up on top of her and she had me in some type of arm and head lock, as i was trying to free myself, I heard this sound and I then soon realized that she was pissing in bed.
I struggled to break free, hurried up and threw my clothes on and was outta there, ya heard! Let this be a warning to ya, the sex may be good but you might end up going home smelling like pee. | |
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deMatthijs said: giving up blazing videocamera adventures involving bitin' with two women for a homosexual hamster? is the only logical thing to do indeed. | |
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