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PrintableJDINTERACTIVE said: gooeythehamster said: JDINTERACTIVE said: not in the dating sense!
Not? Why not? Im not a nice person I guess. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: gooeythehamster said: JDINTERACTIVE said: not in the dating sense!
Not? Why not? Im not a nice person I guess. 
You are a lovely person...  | |
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origmnd said: Is it because they don't want to foot the bill? Give the wrong impression ?
Which women you talkin bout? Be specific!  To Sir, with Love | |
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I have just asked my first guy out last month, an orger by the way. He said yes and anytime I ask anyone out, I foot the bill. | |
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NovaAngel said: AnotherLoverToo said: My personal opinion is that women feel like they'd be viewed as overly aggressive and/or taking on the masculine role if they did the asking. We'll often invite a guy to do something with friends, or to a party where we'll be--that's a typical way of a girl asking a guy out without it seeming like she's doing it.
Plus, I think we're afraid of being told "no". That's pretty damn sneaky. I fall for it everytime though. Question though, how does a guy tell when "doing something with friends" is just that and nothing more? ...well, i think it fits my observation over the years, in what i call the "caveman syndrome"- REAL men, would much rather persue than be persued, its not a game were talkin' about her' but nature...capice!!! *... "ive always said, that if you have to ask for something more than once or twice, it wasnt yours in the first place"...* | |
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I do, or did before I was attached  In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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I have asked a guy out with every intention of paying...but they always seem to pay any way. But...i did have every intention of paying. [This message was edited Wed Sep 24 16:47:37 PDT 2003 by sexinthesummer] | |
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because we're shy? | |
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PEJ said: origmnd said: Is it because they don't want to foot the bill? Give the wrong impression ?
Which women you talkin bout? Be specific! ??? | |
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stymie said: I have just asked my first guy out last month, an orger by the way. He said yes and anytime I ask anyone out, I foot the bill.
Who?!
<--- Has no problem asking people out and paying for dinner (if the bastid' doesn't snatch the check away first even though I already told him I was buying  ) | |
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AaronMaximus said: AnotherLoverToo said: pussy! Prick! are you fuckin kiddin me!? but, yeah... [/quote]
 Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: I wish they would. Just 1ce in my lifetime would be nice.
::puts on cloudbuster's wig and dress::  Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: NovaAngel said: AnotherLoverToo said: My personal opinion is that women feel like they'd be viewed as overly aggressive and/or taking on the masculine role if they did the asking. We'll often invite a guy to do something with friends, or to a party where we'll be--that's a typical way of a girl asking a guy out without it seeming like she's doing it.
Plus, I think we're afraid of being told "no". That's pretty damn sneaky. I fall for it everytime though. Question though, how does a guy tell when "doing something with friends" is just that and nothing more?  Good question--my best answer would be that if she invites you to a party or group gathering, then spends most of her time paying attention to you, it might be more of a "date". If she's off doing her own thing and paying attention to a different guy--that might be more of a "friends" thang. Thanks! That sheds a lot of light on a situation of mine. Thank God I didn't make a fool of myself. OK then we just hang out. That's cool. "I ordered no broth! Away with ye lest my cane find your backside!!"- Ralph Wiggum, Actor. | |
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