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My father just called me... he had a bit of bad news: his father passed away earlier today. he was 87 years old...i didn't know 'im too well, cuz all my father's relatives are down in louisiana and i've only been down there once in my entire life (back when i wuz about 7). we all called him grandpa 'shorty', cuz he was kinna short...everybody else on my dad's side is real tall, so that's how that came about...
i don't remember too much about grandpa shorty and i didn't know him very well, so i didn't really know what to think when my dad told me the bad news--it wuz really awkward. the best i coulda done wuz given my dad a hug but i can't do that from here in mpls over the phone (wish i could!). worst thing about all this is that my dad won't be able to go back down to louisiana in order to attend grandpa shorty's funeral, cuz all of his money has gone towards bills n'stuff, so he's totally bummed. | |
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Moderator | I'm sorry to hear that
can't he charge the price of the trip? In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: I'm sorry to hear that
can't he charge the price of the trip? if you mean like on a credit card, no...my dad doesn't have one. | |
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So sorry to hear, Hands...
I have a "buddy pass" that I can FedEx to you for your father to use...it will save him tons of money on a flight. If you're wanting it, orgNote me and it's yours... | |
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Moderator | Wow that sucks! I feel so bad for your dad. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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That terrible!
I hope your dad is alright. | |
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Sorry to hear your news, Deja How much
would it cost him to go? He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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Big hug for Deja. Hope everything goes well dear. We all love you. All you others say Hell Yea!! | |
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i'm not sure, i'd have to ask my dad...he wants me to call him tomorrow afternoon, so i'll ask him then.
thanx so much for the offer, byron... i dunno if he'll wanna fly down to louisiana or ride on greyhound down there (which he usually does)... | |
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I'm sorry. SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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Sorry | |
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Damn... well I won't say "sorry" coz I didn't know the guy and you didn't either right? However 87 is a decent age to live to... so if that is indicative of your genes we got to put up with Handclaps on the Org for some years to come | |
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I'm sure he led a good life. 87 years old a great life. Tell your dad to remember the good times... | |
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I'm so sorry, Dej... The Prince.org Photo Album http://www.purplehouse.nl...ery/Jacqui | |
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Sorry to hear about your loss. This is interesting for me. My grandfather (mom's side) passed away a couple months ago and I wasn't really affected. I grew up with him but was much closer to my grandmother. I was incredibly close to my grandmother.
One thing that was hard for me to reconcile within myself is that the violence and disfunction that runs rampant within my family began with this one man...my grandfather. He changed his ways but not before abusing the family, beating my grandmother, being a violent drunk for nearly 20 years. My mom was broken up real hard and I can't fault her. As flawed as he was, he was still her father and parents have a funny way of receiving the love of their children, whether deserving or not. I guess I had to get that off my back. Again, sorry Snapz and I hope your dad can make the trip. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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im so sorry girl.. [This message was edited Tue Sep 16 18:28:37 PDT 2003 by justkelley] THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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im so sorry for your loss dej' | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Sorry to hear about your loss. This is interesting for me. My grandfather (mom's side) passed away a couple months ago and I wasn't really affected. I grew up with him but was much closer to my grandmother. I was incredibly close to my grandmother.
One thing that was hard for me to reconcile within myself is that the violence and disfunction that runs rampant within my family began with this one man...my grandfather. He changed his ways but not before abusing the family, beating my grandmother, being a violent drunk for nearly 20 years. My mom was broken up real hard and I can't fault her. As flawed as he was, he was still her father and parents have a funny way of receiving the love of their children, whether deserving or not. I guess I had to get that off my back. Again, sorry Snapz and I hope your dad can make the trip. Supa Violence within the family unit is so deeply destructive in so many unseen ways... ...The positive of him changing his ways is always a welcomed aspect to this type of story/scenario. ...But, yes, you're right...the damage done can still linger...hopefully if he truly did change his ways (it's never too late), true forgiveness was experienced and felt by those he abused...I truly believe nothing puts the mind, the heart, and the soul more at peace that forgiveness. | |
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I'm so sorry, honey... I hope you and your dad can take up Byron on his offer...
If you need to talk...I'm here :F: | |
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Much love 2 ya HANDSCLAP!!!
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aww honey. i'm sorry to hear it. have a collective one of these: | |
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"I ordered no broth! Away with ye lest my cane find your backside!!"- Ralph Wiggum, Actor. | |
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Dansa | |
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It's so hard when someone you love is hurting and there's nothing you can do to make it better. Sometimes we just have to let others "be" with their pain, and let them know they are beloved.
I'm glad your father has such a wonderful daughter! | |
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My condolences for your loss, Dansa. This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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I am so sorry for your father's loss.. Hands if you need help getting your father to Louisiana please org note me.
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I am so sorry, Dansa. | |
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Byron said: So sorry to hear, Hands...
I have a "buddy pass" that I can FedEx to you for your father to use...it will save him tons of money on a flight. If you're wanting it, orgNote me and it's yours... what a man, you are good hearted my brutha *********************************************
I'll believe it when I see it | |
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hope you and your father will be okay hands *********************************************
I'll believe it when I see it | |
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righteous1 said: Byron said: So sorry to hear, Hands...
I have a "buddy pass" that I can FedEx to you for your father to use...it will save him tons of money on a flight. If you're wanting it, orgNote me and it's yours... what a man, you are good hearted my brutha I echo that | |
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