Come on, admit it how many of you (women and homosexuals included) look at women’s’ chests when you are talking to them. I like breasts as much as the next man, but what is it that MAKES us look. I mean in a professional environment one can get into serious shit these days, but think it is genetic. We are preconditioned to look. I always blame being shy “I’m not looking at your breasts honestly, I am just too shy to make eye contact”. So which is it, when you talk to someone do you stare at their:

Eyes

Mouth

Breasts

Groin (seeing as people are going to say it anyway)

irresistibleb1tch said:

I can't help it!!! It's a desease,

Boobies!


OMG I'm sooo drunk.

If us men walked around with our testicles visible I bet women won't be lookin us in the eyes.. -some comedian who's name I forgot...

PREDOMINANT said:

It even affects your spelling

Anyway, I like to give the impression that I looked once, saw it, and am
focusing on the conversation. And I try really hard to keep it that way

PREDOMINANT said:

pejman said:

some men do... and may god bless you richly for it!

irresistibleb1tch said:

OHH that’s a great marketing plan, what a gap in the market, fortunes could be made, from Testicle Bras, “uplift and separate”

pejman said:

How many of you (women and homosexuals included) look at women’s’ chests when you are talking to them.

When I am talking to them ? Never
Every other second - of course.

When you talk to someone do you stare at their:
Eyes
Mouth
Breasts
Groin

When they are talking to me ? Eyes or mouth, or over their shoulder haha.

PREDOMINANT said:

Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!

applekisses said:

Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets sorry ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't .

PREDOMINANT said:

I can't watch / stare at their breasts... they are covered with my hands -

serious though... nop, it's rude to stare. Of course when talking to a woman your eyes drop and peep a glance ... that is [removed 'just' edit] ok imho, but still rude I guess.

So, I focus on their face and body language - like when talking with a guy...

Of course women have this nice technique... they start stretching themselves, pumping them titties in the air, and play with their hair... you go like mmm hottie!! and suddenly she slaps you in the face for being sexist. They are so funny
[This message was edited Fri Sep 12 7:12:52 PDT 2003 by roverlo]

PREDOMINANT said:

But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits.

applekisses said:

Unacceptable is the only think that comes in mind...

My post was about talking in the 'going out' scene...
No way I will look down when talking to a woman when I am at work (either professionally or volunteers work) or in shops (with the register girl) and similar situations.

I, as a gay man, am fascinated by breats/titties/boobs.

I find them hilarious and the feel of them is something exotic to me.

They always manage to lift my SPIRIT. They so cute. And useless to me.

gooeythehamster said:

On days like today, getting a woman bashing for liking women (afterall) I wish I was Gay, godamnit!! You have it so easy men are so simple

gooeythehamster said:

so what bodyparts do gay men stare at when talking to other men?

the muscled arms?

applekisses said:

I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!

roverlo said:

I myself; EYES.

While my hands wander...

gooeythehamster said:

wandering over yourself?

roverlo said:

Wander all over where ever I can...
Just coming won't make me
A Righteous Man

PREDOMINANT said:

Worried about what?

applekisses said:

90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread

PREDOMINANT said:

BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it.

PREDOMINANT said:

You're not getting bashed because you like women...you're getting a 'lecture' because you don't realize what repercussions your actions have.

applekisses said:

I am gonna have to start wearing shades! Cultural norms, good, I can do that.

PREDOMINANT said:

Can't you just STOP!?