REDFEATHERS said:

Good philosphy, so thats it then, wrapped up Apples, Red says your boobs are more interesting than your face.

applekisses said:

Was that a good answer or not?

REDFEATHERS said:

Good philosphy, so thats it then, wrapped up Apples, Red says your boobs are more interesting than your face.

PREDOMINANT said:

I didnt say that, I was just saying I am an eye person and I like to chat through the eyes...I didnt say anything about apples, now if your eyes drifted down to my chest, I would lift up your chin with my finger right back to my eyes, failing that, you would feel my right hook




j/k

PREDOMINANT said:

Nooo...she didn't say that at all...she expressed her self-esteem and I think that's great...Red's my friend...why would she say such a thing about me?

REDFEATHERS said:

Good philosphy, so thats it then, wrapped up Apples, Red says your boobs are more interesting than your face. :joke::cringe:
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[This message was edited Fri Sep 12 9:31:38 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT]

REDFEATHERS said:

I dunno are you a bit flat-chested

Enough, lockdown, I love you all (even the flat chested ones). This has got all out of hand.
[This message was edited Fri Sep 12 9:35:45 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT]

applekisses said:

apples, I am glad you understood what I was saying

PREDOMINANT said:

It's genetic, so you must also stare at the flatchested ones!

PREDOMINANT said:

(((Predom is digging himself in deeper by the minute, and apparently enjoying the attention)))

AnotherLoverToo said:

It is funny, but I know Predom means no disrespect to us girls, really...we are just having a discussion, so girls please dont be offended by what he says, I am gonna check him out for real VERY soon, so I will post back here and see if he stares at my boobs or not, and if you dont see him online next week, you know he is suffering from temporarily blindness by the two black eyes he will get from me..

REDFEATHERS said:

applekisses said:

Hey Apples, we are 4F, we sistas gotta look after each other!

AnotherLoverToo said:

It is funny, but I know Predom means no disrespect to us girls, really...we are just having a discussion, so girls please dont be offended by what he says, I am gonna check him out for real VERY soon, so I will post back here and see if he stares at my boobs or not, and if you dont see him online next week, you know he is suffering from temporarily blindness by the two black eyes he will get from me..

Cheers Red, sincerest appologies ladies.

Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

REDFEATHERS said:

I'm sure he doesn't mean to hurt anyone. I think part of the trouble lies with both sides (male and female) feeling as if the other refuses to see their side of the issue.

Apples, who has talked about several instances here that left her feeling degraded and ill, may be feeling like Predom is refusing to acknowledge and is excusing himself and any other male from his hurtful behaviors. Predom may be disturbed at feeling powerless over his reactions to women's bodies and want some reassurance that what he's experiencing is "normal", and that he's not viewed as some nasty predator.

REDFEATHERS said:

I'm sure he doesn't mean to hurt anyone. I think part of the trouble lies with both sides (male and female) feeling as if the other refuses to see their side of the issue.

Apples, who has talked about several instances here that left her feeling degraded and ill, may be feeling like Predom is refusing to acknowledge and is excusing himself and any other male from his hurtful behaviors. Predom may be disturbed at feeling powerless over his reactions to women's bodies and want some reassurance that what he's experiencing is "normal", and that he's not viewed as some nasty predator.

Shit, d'you want to be my Psyciatrist? Sorry Apples, another guy looks at you in a disrispectful way and you send him to me

Well to put an entirely different spin on it, so we women arent just seen as the goody goddies...cos comer on there are 3 of us women discussing this with Predom. I knowsome girls do play up to men re: their breasts.

REDFEATHERS said:

I don't think anyone ever denied that some women play up that aspect--in fact, I wrote about that up above--because appearances (face/body) always make the first impression and are the quickest way to get attention.

I think the dilemma here is whether or not staring--not glancing--at a woman's breasts can be controlled or modified. (a "normal" woman you speak to in everyday life, not while looking at a centerfold or watching porn where it would obviously be the thing to do)

PREDOMINANT said:

Sorry, I wasn't trying to "shrink" you or speak for you and apples, I was just trying to get to the underlying cause of the emotions.

Oh, and then there is Chico

PREDOMINANT said:

Hey! What's that suppose to mean? All hail to the boobies. The first taste of life. :MRGREEN:

I don't stare. But I do take notice. I am human contrary to popular beliefs. :LOL: I love people watching..and always laugh when I see men talking to a woman's chest. I saw a report a few years back on Dateline or 20/20, some show ..
Anyway, they said that humans actually have a mating dance. Most women dance by thrusting their chest out while men always thrust their hips. The had a hidden camera and went to clubs, bars, offices...it's not only when we dance. Even during subtle conversations. I thought "yeah right". A few nights later I was at a club, and to my surprise..there it was. BOOBIES AND HIPS all over the place. :LOL:


Now I feel corrupted. I am a sinner. Going to pray now.

space edit!
[This message was edited Fri Sep 12 10:26:03 PDT 2003 by Chico319]

REDFEATHERS said:

I'm sure he doesn't mean to hurt anyone. I think part of the trouble lies with both sides (male and female) feeling as if the other refuses to see their side of the issue.

Apples, who has talked about several instances here that left her feeling degraded and ill, may be feeling like Predom is refusing to acknowledge and is excusing himself and any other male from his hurtful behaviors. Predom may be disturbed at feeling powerless over his reactions to women's bodies and want some reassurance that what he's experiencing is "normal", and that he's not viewed as some nasty predator.