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applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: irresistibleb1tch said: nothing wrong with looking, but ya don't have to stare!
i've been known to take a passing glance at the package - it's only fair! I can't help it!!!  It's a desease,   Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets  sorry  ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't . But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits. I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!Worried about what? 90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread  BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it. I am gonna have to start wearing shades!  Cultural norms, good, I can do that.  Can't you just STOP!? Ok, I am going to have explain, I don't want to piss you off Apple but the simple answer is NO. That is the whole point of the thread. Yea I'm 29 years old, a university Lecturer and I stare at women’s breasts when I talk to them. I consciously have to stop myself if (that is) I realise. I was hoping the thread could progress to other people’s methods of not looking. I look at eyes, mouth, somewhere else in the room. It is an difficult and embarrassing problem. I know I have joked about it being a problem, genetic etc but you really can’t help it. I have now noticed other guys doing it, its horrible; look at the woman for gods sake (I find myself saying). It is very strange I agree, I am not arguing for the sake of it, but maybe if women realised they wouldn’t be so upset (?) by it. Half the time I am not registering what I am looking at, i.e. I am not looking for any reason, more like just looking down, rather than make eye contact. Label me sexist, if you want, maybe I should have titled the thread, “socio - sexual visual interactions between genders” for a more general discussion on the subject. . Tact edit. [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 8:22:55 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Predom has a disease, he can't help it, so that must mean he checks out his mama and grannies titties, too!
Oh not you too. My grandma and Mother are dead - maybe thats why?? You might have something there AnotherLoverToo! Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Predom has a disease, he can't help it, so that must mean he checks out his mama and granny's titties, too!
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PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: irresistibleb1tch said: nothing wrong with looking, but ya don't have to stare!
i've been known to take a passing glance at the package - it's only fair! I can't help it!!! It's a desease, Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets sorry ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't . But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits. I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!Worried about what? 90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it. I am gonna have to start wearing shades! Cultural norms, good, I can do that. Can't you just STOP!? Ok, I am going to have explain, I don't want to piss you off Apple but the simple answer is NO. That is the whole point of the thread. Yea I'm 29 years old, a university Lecturer and I stare at women’s breasts when I talk to them. I consciously have to stop myself if (that is) I realise. I was hoping the thread could progress to other people’s methods of not looking. I look at eyes, mouth, somewhere else in the room. It is an difficult and embarrassing problem. I know I have joked about it being a problem, genetic etc but you really can’t help it. I have now noticed other guys doing it, its horrible; look at the woman for gods sake (I find myself saying). It is very strange I agree, I am not arguing for the sake of it, but maybe if women realised they wouldn’t be so upset (?) by it. Half the time I am not registering what I am looking at, i.e. I am not looking for any reason, more like just looking down, rather than make eye contact. Label me sexist, if you want, maybe I should have titled the thread, “socio - sexual visual interactions between genders” for a more general discussion on the subject. . Tact edit. [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 8:22:55 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Hon, it doesn't matter WHY you do it...it matters that you do it. No woman is going to even believe that you just can't stop yourself...give me a break!
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applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: irresistibleb1tch said: nothing wrong with looking, but ya don't have to stare!
i've been known to take a passing glance at the package - it's only fair! I can't help it!!! It's a desease, Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets sorry ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't . But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits. I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!Worried about what? 90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it. I am gonna have to start wearing shades! Cultural norms, good, I can do that. Can't you just STOP!? Ok, I am going to have explain, I don't want to piss you off Apple but the simple answer is NO. That is the whole point of the thread. Yea I'm 29 years old, a university Lecturer and I stare at women’s breasts when I talk to them. I consciously have to stop myself if (that is) I realise. I was hoping the thread could progress to other people’s methods of not looking. I look at eyes, mouth, somewhere else in the room. It is an difficult and embarrassing problem. I know I have joked about it being a problem, genetic etc but you really can’t help it. I have now noticed other guys doing it, its horrible; look at the woman for gods sake (I find myself saying). It is very strange I agree, I am not arguing for the sake of it, but maybe if women realised they wouldn’t be so upset (?) by it. Half the time I am not registering what I am looking at, i.e. I am not looking for any reason, more like just looking down, rather than make eye contact. Label me sexist, if you want, maybe I should have titled the thread, “socio - sexual visual interactions between genders” for a more general discussion on the subject. . Tact edit. [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 8:22:55 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Hon, it doesn't matter WHY you do it...it matters that you do it. No woman is going to even believe that you just can't stop yourself...give me a break!
You need to just STOP! You've got a really offensive habit that you need to be more concious of and STOP. I ain't gonna stop, I'm gonna do it on purpose now! Staring straight down, good and hard, all wide eyed, only if they are hot chicks though, no ugly mommas! And as they turn away in disgust, I will give a good hard slap on their arse for good measure, just so the know whos boss. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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PREDOMINANT said: AnotherLoverToo said: Predom has a disease, he can't help it, so that must mean he checks out his mama and grannies titties, too!
Oh not you too. My grandma and Mother are dead - maybe thats why?? You might have something there AnotherLoverToo! And were you breastfed or formulafed, Predom?  
Anyway--women know their breasts attract attention, and a few of them won't mind the stares. Especially if you're in a nightclub or someplace designed to "pick up" people based on short-term association. And we know that--to a certain extent--it is "normal" for men and women to look and assess what we've got. It will be very important for you, socially and professionally, to become more conscious of your "tendency". Do you have to stop completely? No. But at least try to be aware of it and curb it when it's inappropriate. Getting a girlfriend whose boobs you can play with is also a good idea--perhaps that would be a "desensitizing" therapy!  | |
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PREDOMINANT said: I ain't gonna stop, I'm gonna do it on purpose now! Staring straight down, good and hard, all wide eyed, only if they are hot chicks though, no ugly mommas! And as they turn away in disgust, I will give a good hard slap on their arse for good measure, just so the know whos boss. Now you're talking some sense here.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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I look always at all and I make always the 2. | |
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Arle said: I look always at all and I make always the 2.
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PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: irresistibleb1tch said: nothing wrong with looking, but ya don't have to stare!
i've been known to take a passing glance at the package - it's only fair! I can't help it!!! It's a desease, Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets sorry ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't . But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits. I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!Worried about what? 90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it. I am gonna have to start wearing shades! Cultural norms, good, I can do that. Can't you just STOP!? Ok, I am going to have explain, I don't want to piss you off Apple but the simple answer is NO. That is the whole point of the thread. Yea I'm 29 years old, a university Lecturer and I stare at women’s breasts when I talk to them. I consciously have to stop myself if (that is) I realise. I was hoping the thread could progress to other people’s methods of not looking. I look at eyes, mouth, somewhere else in the room. It is an difficult and embarrassing problem. I know I have joked about it being a problem, genetic etc but you really can’t help it. I have now noticed other guys doing it, its horrible; look at the woman for gods sake (I find myself saying). It is very strange I agree, I am not arguing for the sake of it, but maybe if women realised they wouldn’t be so upset (?) by it. Half the time I am not registering what I am looking at, i.e. I am not looking for any reason, more like just looking down, rather than make eye contact. Label me sexist, if you want, maybe I should have titled the thread, “socio - sexual visual interactions between genders” for a more general discussion on the subject. . Tact edit. [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 8:22:55 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Hon, it doesn't matter WHY you do it...it matters that you do it. No woman is going to even believe that you just can't stop yourself...give me a break!
You need to just STOP! You've got a really offensive habit that you need to be more concious of and STOP. I ain't gonna stop, I'm gonna do it on purpose now! Staring straight down, good and hard, all wide eyed, only if they are hot chicks though, no ugly mommas! And as they turn away in disgust, I will give a good hard slap on their arse for good measure, just so the know whos boss. Now the truth comes out!  | |
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applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: irresistibleb1tch said: nothing wrong with looking, but ya don't have to stare!
i've been known to take a passing glance at the package - it's only fair! I can't help it!!! It's a desease, Do you know how insulting and degrading it is?!Of course I do, that's the point of the question. You can find yourself fighting to look down, beacuse you know you are looking. It is like a magnet (or rather 2 magnets sorry ). I SERIOUSLY do think it is because it is dificult to make eye contact, so you look down and .. hello, this is comforting I will stay here for a while. I know it seems sexist but really it isn't . But, really...IT IS! You have no idea how it feels to be talking with your acedemic advisor in college...or your male doctor and all of a sudden the eyes drift down and they aren't listening to a word your saying because they're staring at your tits. I am a University Lecturer!!! I don't THINK I do it with students, I only notice when I am out...now I am worried!Worried about what? 90% of the time we DON'T realise what we are doing!! Nobody understands my thread BUT, you've got to become more concious and responsible...and not blame it on genetics or some lame crap like that. You are an adult human being and you can control yourself and abide by cultural norms. It's NOT ok to stare at a woman's breasts...you don't know what it does to us...and how it makes us feel. I hope that will stop you from doing it. I am gonna have to start wearing shades! Cultural norms, good, I can do that. Can't you just STOP!? Ok, I am going to have explain, I don't want to piss you off Apple but the simple answer is NO. That is the whole point of the thread. Yea I'm 29 years old, a university Lecturer and I stare at women’s breasts when I talk to them. I consciously have to stop myself if (that is) I realise. I was hoping the thread could progress to other people’s methods of not looking. I look at eyes, mouth, somewhere else in the room. It is an difficult and embarrassing problem. I know I have joked about it being a problem, genetic etc but you really can’t help it. I have now noticed other guys doing it, its horrible; look at the woman for gods sake (I find myself saying). It is very strange I agree, I am not arguing for the sake of it, but maybe if women realised they wouldn’t be so upset (?) by it. Half the time I am not registering what I am looking at, i.e. I am not looking for any reason, more like just looking down, rather than make eye contact. Label me sexist, if you want, maybe I should have titled the thread, “socio - sexual visual interactions between genders” for a more general discussion on the subject. . Tact edit. [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 8:22:55 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Hon, it doesn't matter WHY you do it...it matters that you do it. No woman is going to even believe that you just can't stop yourself...give me a break!
You need to just STOP! You've got a really offensive habit that you need to be more concious of and STOP. I ain't gonna stop, I'm gonna do it on purpose now! Staring straight down, good and hard, all wide eyed, only if they are hot chicks though, no ugly mommas! And as they turn away in disgust, I will give a good hard slap on their arse for good measure, just so the know whos boss. Now the truth comes out! YEP. I just wanted permission, now,line up, low cut tops, and ...jump, jump, jump, jump. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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I look, nothing wrong with looking, you wanna see mine?
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I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different. LIVE4LUV
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REDFEATHERS said: I look, nothing wrong with looking, you wanna see mine?
Y'see, now THATS the kind of response I was expecting. If only you had been around none of this nastyness would have happened. Nice Jugs Red, Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
A quick glance is to be expected...not staring and definitely not what you're talking about...  I have large breasts and they get more of that than I'd like...and as I mentioned before...in the most inappropriate situations...from college professors, doctors, etc... | |
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shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
You can't do that!!! What if a guy walks past looking as we ALL do and cannot help for it is genetic (Yea,Apple you heard right ) then you start chatting and the guy has to change because all of a sudden you won't like him any more, women, how are we ever supposed to learn.Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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Exactly!! Now how are you supposed to take a professor seriously when his/her eyes are stuck on your boobs?!? LIVE4LUV
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applekisses said: shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
A quick glance is to be expected...not staring and definitely not what you're talking about... I have large breasts and they get more of that than I'd like...and as I mentioned before...in the most inappropriate situations...from college professors, doctors, etc......err...nah, forget it. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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PREDOMINANT said: REDFEATHERS said: I look, nothing wrong with looking, you wanna see mine?
Y'see, now THATS the kind of response I was expecting. If only you had been around none of this nastyness would have happened. Nice Jugs Red, Hmm...now I am gonna have to read the WHOLE thread and see whats really going on... | |
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PREDOMINANT said: shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
You can't do that!!! What if a guy walks past looking as we ALL do and cannot help for it is genetic (Yea,Apple you heard right ) then you start chatting and the guy has to change because all of a sudden you won't like him any more, women, how are we ever supposed to learn.Genetic... Like Anotherlover said...did/do you stare at your mother's, grandmother's, sister's, cousin's tits as well? | |
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PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
A quick glance is to be expected...not staring and definitely not what you're talking about... I have large breasts and they get more of that than I'd like...and as I mentioned before...in the most inappropriate situations...from college professors, doctors, etc......err...nah, forget it. I'm glad you did...because I don't want to fight with you...I'm just hoping that you understand what your 'problem' does to those that you direct it to...you asked and I'm telling you. | |
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shortnsweet said: Exactly!! Now how are you supposed to take a professor seriously when his/her eyes are stuck on your boobs?!?
Weare only human, Prof in the day Prof in the pub, same prof. Pervert at work, nice bloke with shit loads of cash and a flash car at night, same pervert, errr, bloke Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts
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applekisses said: PREDOMINANT said: applekisses said: shortnsweet said: I think it's really frustrating when you are talking to someone and their eyes are stuck on your chest. I like to look people in the eye when talking and if I was once interested that just totally turns me off. I don't even take guys seriously that behave that way. Now walking by in passing, that's different.
A quick glance is to be expected...not staring and definitely not what you're talking about... I have large breasts and they get more of that than I'd like...and as I mentioned before...in the most inappropriate situations...from college professors, doctors, etc......err...nah, forget it. I'm glad you did...because I don't want to fight with you...I'm just hoping that you understand what your 'problem' does to those that you direct it to...you asked and I'm telling you. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts
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2the9s said: REDFEATHERS said: Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts
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REDFEATHERS said: Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts
Good philosphy, so thats it then, wrapped up Apples, Red says your boobs are more interesting than your face. :joke::cringe: . [This message was edited Fri Sep 12 9:31:38 PDT 2003 by PREDOMINANT] Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: Ok, all I can say is my eyes mesmerise, so I can keep a man looking straight in my face without him needing to look down at my breasts
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