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rdhull said: mcmeekle said: SensualMelody said: I was reading an article entitled "Learning the Art of Being TACTFUL"
Here are some points I really liked. The dictionary defines tact as "the ability to appreciate the delicacy of a situation and to do or say the kindest or most fitting thing." Wow! I like that! 
It mentioned that being tactful is not just a skill; it involves a genuine desire to avoid hurting others. Man! I like that too!
Personally, I know that sometimes we can not be tactful like if we need to say something like... "THE APARTMENT BUILDING IS ON FIRE! GET YOURSELF OUTTA HERE!!!" Otherwise I can see why many like to be in the company of those who are tactful.  Slut! Now see sensnual--dont u wanna knee this person right in da groin? 
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I start out trying to be tactful, but some muffuggas only understand the ruff tactics. I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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rdhull said: mcmeekle said: SensualMelody said: I was reading an article entitled "Learning the Art of Being TACTFUL"
Here are some points I really liked. The dictionary defines tact as "the ability to appreciate the delicacy of a situation and to do or say the kindest or most fitting thing." Wow! I like that!
It mentioned that being tactful is not just a skill; it involves a genuine desire to avoid hurting others. Man! I like that too!
Personally, I know that sometimes we can not be tactful like if we need to say something like... "THE APARTMENT BUILDING IS ON FIRE! GET YOURSELF OUTTA HERE!!!" Otherwise I can see why many like to be in the company of those who are tactful. Slut! Now see sensnual--dont u wanna knee this person right in da groin?
use the leg strength like u fallin out Oh it's alright...He obviously has me mixed up with someone else... So...how's everybody doing?  | |
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althom said: Hi Melody!
Hi sweetie pie!!!  So...how's everybody doing? | |
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pejman said: I give respect where respect is due and sensual melody I respect you!!! I tried to be good but they love it when I'm bad...
U sure treat me great! and I love U for it... ((( pejman )))  So...how's everybody doing? | |
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SensualMelody said: Oh it's alright...He obviously has me mixed up with someone else... mckeekle was just trying to bring some lightness to this thread, Sensual. The best revenge is to spell his name wrong. He hates that.
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Moonbeam said: Hi Melody!
 Good to see you back!Hi Moonbeam...Thanks! Wellbeyond told me to stop worrying about the bad things and just bring the love I have to the forums... I am trying... Nice to see U too. So...how's everybody doing? | |
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2the9s said: SensualMelody said: Oh it's alright...He obviously has me mixed up with someone else... mckeekle was just trying to bring some lightness to this thread, Sensual. The best revenge is to spell his name wrong. He hates that.
Thanks for telling me...U know I don't know everybody...McMeakle, huh? So...how's everybody doing? | |
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SensualMelody said: Moonbeam said: Hi Melody!
Good to see you back!Hi Moonbeam...Thanks! Wellbeyond told me to stop worrying about the bad things and just bring the love I have to the forums... I am trying... Nice to see U too. You'll certainly succeed. Welcome back! | |
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CtheUncanny said: I start out trying to be tactful, but some muffuggas only understand the ruff tactics.
How's it going "C"?... I watched U go through some changes... U R alright with me though...((( U )))  So...how's everybody doing? | |
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SensualMelody said: I was reading an article entitled "Learning the Art of Being TACTFUL"
Here are some points I really liked. The dictionary defines tact as "the ability to appreciate the delicacy of a situation and to do or say the kindest or most fitting thing." Wow! I like that!
It mentioned that being tactful is not just a skill; it involves a genuine desire to avoid hurting others. Man! I like that too!
Personally, I know that sometimes we can not be tactful like if we need to say something like... "THE APARTMENT BUILDING IS ON FIRE! GET YOURSELF OUTTA HERE!!!" Otherwise I can see why many like to be in the company of those who are tactful. First; There is beauty in all i have seen you (Melody) do. Now, Tact is an art that many in this world just don't seem to grasp. I may at times seem to be one of the tactless because of my chosen pattern of speach, but tactfulness comes in not having to lie or be false in ones doings. I do many things that aren't liked but it is honestly me. I use tact not tactics. Those whom have showed themselves to be the users of TACTICS have often shown themselves to be the worst kinds of liars... NEED I SAY MORE??? I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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SensualMelody said: CtheUncanny said: I start out trying to be tactful, but some muffuggas only understand the ruff tactics.
How's it going "C"?... I watched U go through some changes... U R alright with me though...((( U ))) Always I'm like a cat(always land on my feet and have a ton of lives). I'm am at "peace" now :LOL:I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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I read that book as well..
Being a Sagittarian, well we kind of just tell it like it is.. Tactfully so not! ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: I read that book as well..
Being a Sagittarian, well we kind of just tell it like it is.. Tactfully so not! You are one of the most tactful people I know. You are kind... So...how's everybody doing? | |
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when someone isn't tactful in a situation that REALLY calls for tact... it's sticks out like a sore thumb
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00769BAD said: Now,
Tact is an art that many in this world just don't seem to grasp. I may at times seem to be one of the tactless because of my chosen pattern of speach, but tactfulness comes in not having to lie or be false in ones doings. I do many things that aren't liked but it is honestly me. I use tact not tactics. Those whom have showed themselves to be the users of TACTICS have often shown themselves to be the worst kinds of liars... NEED I SAY MORE???  "It's better 2 B hated 4 what U R than 2 B loved 4 what U R not."
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MrBliss said: when someone isn't tactful in a situation that REALLY calls for tact... it's sticks out like a sore thumb
hello melody I agree!
Hello. hello, hello
So very very very nice to see U! So...how's everybody doing? | |
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SpcMs said: 00769BAD said: Now,
Tact is an art that many in this world just don't seem to grasp. I may at times seem to be one of the tactless because of my chosen pattern of speach, but tactfulness comes in not having to lie or be false in ones doings. I do many things that aren't liked but it is honestly me. I use tact not tactics. Those whom have showed themselves to be the users of TACTICS have often shown themselves to be the worst kinds of liars... NEED I SAY MORE??? BAD...U know I know what you mean... I have just recently become acquainted with this phenomenon. You R so right about "tactics"...(so insightful) So...how's everybody doing? | |
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I think it depends on what your goal is...If your goal is to be "right", then tact is irrelevant...if your goal is to be understood, then tact is essential... | |
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SensualMelody said: Moonbeam said: Hi Melody!
Good to see you back!Hi Moonbeam...Thanks! Wellbeyond told me to stop worrying about the bad things and just bring the love I have to the forums... I am trying... Nice to see U too. I did say that, didn't I...lol 
Well, it was more like "Bring the love and peace with you, instead of hoping it will be there when you arrive"...or sumthing like that. Glad to see you decided to do just that, Melody... | |
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teller said: <--- loves him some Melody
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Byron said: SensualMelody said: Moonbeam said: Hi Melody!
Good to see you back!Hi Moonbeam...Thanks! Wellbeyond told me to stop worrying about the bad things and just bring the love I have to the forums... I am trying... Nice to see U too. I did say that, didn't I...lol
Well, it was more like "Bring the love and peace with you, instead of hoping it will be there when you arrive"...or sumthing like that. Glad to see you decided to do just that, Melody... Thanks for the advice... Why are you always right, anyway ..?  So...how's everybody doing? | |
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Byron said: I think it depends on what your goal is...If your goal is to be "right", then tact is irrelevant...if your goal is to be understood, then tact is essential...
Tactfuly said... I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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rdhull said: LadyCabDriver said: FUCK tactful.
someone once said (I believe it was Toni Morrison) that "sometimes, you just gotta call a motherfucker a motherfucker". Nikki Giovanni said it and I said it after her "I like the rappers, because someone has to call a mutherfucka a mutherfucka" oooh yeah that's right, my mistake ***************************************************
Seems like the overly critical people are the sheep now days. It takes guts to admit that you like something. -Rdhull ...it ain't where ya from, it's where ya at... - Rakim | |
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SensualMelody said: I was reading an article entitled "Learning the Art of Being TACTFUL"
Here are some points I really liked. The dictionary defines tact as "the ability to appreciate the delicacy of a situation and to do or say the kindest or most fitting thing." Wow! I like that!
It mentioned that being tactful is not just a skill; it involves a genuine desire to avoid hurting others. Man! I like that too!
Personally, I know that sometimes we can not be tactful like if we need to say something like... "THE APARTMENT BUILDING IS ON FIRE! GET YOURSELF OUTTA HERE!!!" Otherwise I can see why many like to be in the company of those who are tactful. hi SensualMelody, welcome back! the place was much less tactful while you were gone. . . we missed you. nice post | |
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whoops gotta amend that last post - MOSTly you're tactful.
i must say tho, that thread you started in the P&R forum (the one that's locked now) - definitely NOT tactful. ah well. no one's perfect hey | |
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XxAxX said: whoops gotta amend that last post - MOSTly you're tactful.
i must say tho, that thread you started in the P&R forum (the one that's locked now) - definitely NOT tactful. ah well. no one's perfect hey Thank U. No one is perfect... So...how's everybody doing? | |
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