Guys - I've wondered this for some time. What is it about doing a virgin that is such a big deal? Is it the fact that she finally gave it up to you, or is it more of a physical thing? The sex can't be that great with someone who's not so sure what she's doing, can it?

I think most guys like to be able to say that they were the first.

creamychemist said:

Virgin or not. It does not matter... It's what's in the ...

How's Prince's say it in "I Wanna Melt With U", "u must of been a virgin, what am I thinking of...oh no"

There are good things about it and there are bad ones. It's all about how the guy handles the situation after the fact. Me, I've been with 6 "confirmed virgins" and the sex at first was the pits, but after a couple of months it was sweeter than yoo-hoo. They became very important parts of my life, but in the end the relationships all ended bad because they wanted to stay and I had to go. I think it was my fear that they would eventually leave me to experiment wit other guys or something to gain some more sexual experience. Two of the I'm sure this would have happened, Three of them I think I was wrong. The last well I just don't know.

Real players avoid virgins and/or "church ladies" because they become a liability by falling in love or developing a guilt trip afterwards.