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Printableapplekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: I cannot believe I shut down my computer before without saving my work, I have lost all my designs
 Honey...we do things like that when we experience trauma...  Oh I was shaking and crying, I just didnt know what he was gonna do, he looked like he was gonna hit me or worse.. I dread to think ...luckily it is done now and dealt with...  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: He just tried to get into my house, the police have just been around and taken a statement from me, cos he threatened me and pushed his way through my front door...
 Oh GOD, Red...pleaase be careful, Honey...I just went through that myself...(actually with three different sets of neighbors in the downstairs flat.) Can you move? If not, can you get someone to stay with you until that psycho moves and put more locks on your doors? He is a new neighnour, just recently moved in.. 
Lets hope he cools down Well, that makes things a bit more sticky... since the police have talked to him, maybe he'll calm down now...but, please don't put yourself in the position of being alone with him...EVER.
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Hope Ur Ok.  
Get a burglar alarm, if U dont have 1 maybe? | |
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REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: I cannot believe I shut down my computer before without saving my work, I have lost all my designs
Honey...we do things like that when we experience trauma... Oh I was shaking and crying, I just didnt know what he was gonna do, he looked like he was gonna hit me or worse.. I dread to think ...luckily it is done now and dealt with... That is a totally understandable reaction...he was VERY violent for NO reason...I'm sure you were shocked and scared to death  Not only is it horrible, but it also makes NO sense...I'm so sorry When is your sister coming? | |
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Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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You be careful Red, and remember to go for the balls! ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things) | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point.  | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Hope Ur Ok.
Get a burglar alarm, if U dont have 1 maybe? I have a burglar alarm and senstitisers in every room of my home, so I know if there is anyone in any room, I have video cameras outside my house, so I can see who is at my front door on the telly without having to go to the door, I have intercom, so I can ask who it is before letting them in, my mistake was I went outside and asked what it was, instead of ignoring him...I mean it was only 2.30 in the afternoon, in broad daylight!  | |
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applekisses said: AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point. Or maybe they found something illegal or suspicious, looking around his house...I'd try to find the police who responded to speak to, they are usually really open about sharing that sort of thing with the victims. | |
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im so sorry for you red...
horse and i will kick some ass for ya 
messin with our red like that [This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:44:19 PDT 2003 by justkelley] THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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applekisses said: AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point. Well he had an accent (american I thought) but actually it wasnt, he is Canadian, the police already know him, I asked them how and they said his son tried to break into a shop or somewhere the other week...cos I have had no previous complaints and I reported him, I am sure that will go in my favour anyway | |
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REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point. Well he had an accent (american I thought) but actually it wasnt, he is Canadian, the police already know him, I asked them how and they said his son tried to break into a shop or somewhere the other week...cos I have had no previous complaints and I reported him, I am sure that will go in my favour anyway Woah...well, now you've got a little background on him...this clearly isn't an isolated incident...he's got a troubled background...are you going to mention it to the landlord? | |
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minneapolisgenius said:
Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. Thanx, there are even security surveillance cameras around outside so if anything happened, he would be caught on video..
I have nobody to walk with does anyone want to ne my walking partner??? | |
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applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point. Well he had an accent (american I thought) but actually it wasnt, he is Canadian, the police already know him, I asked them how and they said his son tried to break into a shop or somewhere the other week...cos I have had no previous complaints and I reported him, I am sure that will go in my favour anyway Woah...well, now you've got a little background on him...this clearly isn't an isolated incident...he's got a troubled background...are you going to mention it to the landlord? He lives in the block next to me, and I own my home, so there isnt a landlord | |
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REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: applekisses said: AnotherLoverToo said: If I were you, I'd call the police and inquire as to how their conversation went with him. The fact that they spent so much time with your neighbor is interesting, and you might want to know what sort of things he's saying about you and your behaviors. (possibly accusing you of things)
Ohh...good point. Well he had an accent (american I thought) but actually it wasnt, he is Canadian, the police already know him, I asked them how and they said his son tried to break into a shop or somewhere the other week...cos I have had no previous complaints and I reported him, I am sure that will go in my favour anyway Woah...well, now you've got a little background on him...this clearly isn't an isolated incident...he's got a troubled background...are you going to mention it to the landlord? He lives in the block next to me, and I own my home, so there isnt a landlord That sucks...I mean, it's great that you own your home, but it would be nice to have another authority figure to notify. | |
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justkelley said: im so sorry for you red...
horse and i will kick some ass for ya
messin with our red like that
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:44:19 PDT 2003 by justkelley]  Thanx Kelley...infact thank you everyone who respnded to this thread, I wasnt going to post it, but then thought what the hell, there are people like that everywhere, but you dont expect them to live next door to you..so please, EVERYONE be careful about your own personal safety, and DO NOT confront them, just ignore them, cos any confrontation just riles them even more, as I have learned. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: minneapolisgenius said:
Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. Thanx, there are even security surveillance cameras around outside so if anything happened, he would be caught on video..
I have nobody to walk with does anyone want to ne my walking partner???jumping up and down Me, me, me! 
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| I'm sorry hun. :HUG:
He's lucky Chico wasn't around.   You mess with my Red and you're messing me!
Do you have any mase Red? | |
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REDFEATHERS said: justkelley said: im so sorry for you red...
horse and i will kick some ass for ya
messin with our red like that
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:44:19 PDT 2003 by justkelley] Thanx Kelley...infact thank you everyone who respnded to this thread, I wasnt going to post it, but then thought what the hell, there are people like that everywhere, but you dont expect them to live next door to you..so please, EVERYONE be careful about your own personal safety, and DO NOT confront them, just ignore them, cos any confrontation just riles them even more, as I have learned.IMO you did the right thing by posting this...we're far away, but still your friends and you needed the support  Just think of us as your emotional and moral bra...  | |
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applekisses said: REDFEATHERS said: justkelley said: im so sorry for you red...
horse and i will kick some ass for ya
messin with our red like that
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:44:19 PDT 2003 by justkelley] Thanx Kelley...infact thank you everyone who respnded to this thread, I wasnt going to post it, but then thought what the hell, there are people like that everywhere, but you dont expect them to live next door to you..so please, EVERYONE be careful about your own personal safety, and DO NOT confront them, just ignore them, cos any confrontation just riles them even more, as I have learned.IMO you did the right thing by posting this...we're far away, but still your friends and you needed the support Just think of us as your emotional and moral bra...  Well, my life isnt all about sex threads and having a laugh here, I do live OFF the Org too (sometimes LOL) but thanx for your support, but lets hope it makes us all think twice about our actions and how we deal with them.
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EvilSkittle said: REDFEATHERS said: minneapolisgenius said:
Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. Thanx, there are even security surveillance cameras around outside so if anything happened, he would be caught on video..
I have nobody to walk with does anyone want to ne my walking partner???jumping up and down Me, me, me!
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:55:41 PDT 2003 by EvilSkittle] 
I think I need a BodyGuard... 
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applekisses said: Just think of us as your emotional and moral bra...
Or emotional control-top pantyhose, or girdle, or coffeetable or...
You funny, apples! Good morning! | |
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Chico319 said: I'm sorry hun. :HUG:
He's lucky Chico wasn't around. You mess with my Red and you're messing me!
Do you have any mase Red? Next time I should just sit on his face and suffocate the bastard... 
Ok, I shouldnt joke, no I dont have mace, when it happened, I wasnt close to anything I could have got hold of, hairspray etc etc, it happened so quickly...thats the thing,and you think differently, when it happens, I just pushed my front door with all my might to close it, yeah, he could have got in, I am not claming to be stronger than him or anything, but he did finally go...thank God  | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: applekisses said: Just think of us as your emotional and moral bra...
Or emotional control-top pantyhose, or girdle, or coffeetable or...
You funny, apples! Good morning! Support and lift, baby!
Good Morning (afternoon here in Michigan)[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 9:14:27 PDT 2003 by applekisses] | |
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REDFEATHERS said: EvilSkittle said: REDFEATHERS said: minneapolisgenius said:
Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. Thanx, there are even security surveillance cameras around outside so if anything happened, he would be caught on video..
I have nobody to walk with does anyone want to ne my walking partner???jumping up and down Me, me, me!
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:55:41 PDT 2003 by EvilSkittle]
I think I need a BodyGuard...
I told you it's only a 30-40 minute flight from here, so be careful what you wish for. | |
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EvilSkittle said: REDFEATHERS said: EvilSkittle said: REDFEATHERS said: minneapolisgenius said:
Be careful Red. You never know with people like that. Make sure you walk with someone at all times when you are going out or coming home. Especially at night. Thanx, there are even security surveillance cameras around outside so if anything happened, he would be caught on video..
I have nobody to walk with does anyone want to ne my walking partner???jumping up and down Me, me, me!
[This message was edited Fri Sep 5 8:55:41 PDT 2003 by EvilSkittle]
I think I need a BodyGuard...
I told you it's only a 30-40 minute flight from here, so be careful what you wish for. Lets hope he isnt the pilot flying you!  | |
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Red- the body guard comment...i had to tell you- i have 12 of them! lol by day anyway..I work with the multiply disabled adults and everyday i take this 1 out in the community...he is 6'4 about 250 lbs - he is hilarious and has this booming voice and everytime some one walks up to me he yells..."Don't U touch dawns crotch!"
it took me a while to get used to this but now i have a great laugh everyday!!! I | |
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dawnrose said: Red- the body guard comment...i had to tell you- i have 12 of them! lol by day anyway..I work with the multiply disabled adults and everyday i take this 1 out in the community...he is 6'4 about 250 lbs - he is hilarious and has this booming voice and everytime some one walks up to me he yells..."Don't U touch dawns crotch!"
it took me a while to get used to this but now i have a great laugh everyday!!! I OMG, that is funny and sweet at the same time..
Can I "borrow" him? | |
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| So glad that you're ok and things are being worked out. Take care! | |
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