This is an open invitation for all kinds of emotional upheaval! I can respect any man that is open about sport fucking etc...because it gives me a choice...to do or not to do. Then it is my responsibility for my own emotions if i choose to do.

Open relationships are never going to become a true relationship because once you commit yourselves to eachother and temptation comes along one of ya'll is gonna think...hmmm I think he/she will get over it afterall, it is how we started.

The beginning of a realtionship is a telltale sign of where the future lies...and this goes for ANY TYPE of relationship.- sexual or otherwise.


I wish I could remember who has the signature or profile thats states something to the effect of...if you hurt me once it is your fault...If you hurt me again it is my own fault. shame on me for allowing it to happen again.

I believe in unconditional love, but that does not mean i would let that person manipulate me or my feelings by staying involved sexually- u can still love them from afar and accept them for the soul they are and still be a loving friend.i also try like hell not to judge people for their lifestyle choices...it is their personal choice.

In my opinion it would not work...for me.however, to each their own, for it is their life and their path. I just hope that honesty is in the forefront of the relationship.

Wow, some o' yall are some big ol PRUDES for being fans of a guy who sang about wanting to pretend to be married so he could fuck the taste outta someone's mouth, DANG!

It's ok, though - I have nothing but respect for those who believe in hardline monogamy. Don't get me wrong - I think it definitely has a place. But I also believe it is an option, not a rule.

Prudes are sexy too.

To me, there's a difference between companionship and sexuality. Can the two co-exist? Absolutely. But just because I want to spend the rest of my life waking up to the same person, doesn't necessarily mean I'm going to be turned on by them every day for the rest of my life, and to expect that to be the case would be akin to denial.

Sex can mean a lot of different things to different people. Sex can mean a lot of different things to one person. One one level, it can be very sacred and romantic, and on another level, it can be like playing a game of checkers - very casual and fun and harmless. If there's an understanding that an open relationship is giving permission to play an occasional game of checkers with someone, with boundaries and expectations and rules in place - I don't see how that's harming anyone.

And if my partner brought home a playmate for dinner, I wouldn't mind cooking up the meal...as long as I got a bite or two of dessert, y'hear?

I dont think, we are being prudish, hell you can fuck about, have one night stands, the lot, we are talking about open relationships here...there is a big difference..

butterfli25 said:

REDFEATHERS said:

exactly

EvilSkittle said:

I'll be next door going in to get me teryaki bowl pointing at those goin in the clinic

Anxiety said:

I dont think the 2 things corrolate. And I am definetly NOT a prude. Wanna fuck?

Anxiety said:

Prince was a poseur...his lasciviousness was all fake.

Anxiety said:

i think its exactly that attitude that brings out all the new STD and AIDS cases each year

i cannot believe that people actually think this way...that just makes me sad

What also comcerne#s me is the safe sex thing too...and will he, or you be honest anout your open relationship with a new person you are gonna sleep with?


Hell, I have been hurt in the past before, and I am sure many of you also, cos some man/or woman hasnt been 100% honest with you. You trust them, love them only to find they have been fucking around behind your back..

Lisa, do you really wanna be part of this?

If you do, why not join a swingers club so you know you are fucking people who are into the same thing and not us poor peeps who get shat on..

rdhull said:

Yeah well, pour me enough Sprite and I'll be wanting lemonade.

Lisa, if I remember correctly, you haven't ever had sex, right? So, honey, why do you start all of these sex threads, like you're trying to predict how you're gonna feel or react in a future sexual relationship?

I think you should just wait and see how you feel about the man and the relationship when the times comes, not try to do all of this predicting how things are gonna be.

AnotherLoverToo said:

I gotta agree with this - one never knows how one will feel over the course of a relationship - the most important form of openness is an open mind and an open heart.

rdhull said:

Not really, but I doubt he ever wrote a song about sharing his woman with another dude, did he?

EvilSkittle said:

When U Were Mine much?

yeah but he wasn't happy about it...


when you were mine...

REDFEATHERS said:

I'be been there too red! It's amazing when a man can look U in the eye and say they are only sleeping with you...so, you finally agree to loose the glove and find out otherwise...scary scary shit today! thank god it all turned out ok- still 100% healthy! but talk about panic attack!!!

butterfli25 said:

True, that...though there was some weirdness going on with that whole renouncing of marriage vows with Mayte, and some hints of extra-marital play in some of those L4OA posts, if I remember correctly...of course, that relationship went south too, so don't mind me, ha...

Anxiety said:

to both of you!

EvilSkittle said:

Prince is the jealous type anyway, so I cant see him being into open relationships either..

dawnrose said:

It is some scary shit..yes..

Anxiety said:

Let's NOT compare Prince's private life on this thread, some fans are very impressionable you know

REDFEATHERS said:[quote]

EvilSkittle said:

When you were mine

I think I feel guilty for my own freak-ness I guess. Interesting.

rdhull said:[quote]

REDFEATHERS said:

Yes, and he wasnt happy...

Prince has admitted much that his writings were fantasy,...there was no Darling Nikki, there was no girl from Lonely Xmas etc...so ...

rdhull said:

REDFEATHERS said:

those are cute emoticons of expression lol

justkelley said:

lol..found out never been tapped...all yap