what do y'all think about women who purpose 2 men 2 get married? Is it a gender bender challenge, a act of desperation or slightly romantic in a vulnerable way?

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[This message was edited Tue Sep 2 4:17:38 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

lisa who's hand are you gonna ask for in marriage?

I didnt understand the question at first then re read it as PROPOSE...sorry DigiLisa, dont mean to correct your spelling...


Anyway, I dont see a problem in women proposing to their partner...

REDFEATHERS said:

that's okay redfeathers, no hard feelings


___ And Nobody Christopher... Really :omg:___

I'm going 2 purpose 2 my boyfriend one day, just because I want 2 see the look on his face, I ain't go get on my hands and knees or nothing, I'm just gon call him and say so when we gon get married

DigitalLisa said:

not even me?

Christopher said:

maybe one day


if u're good

I think it is sweet, although I would rather wait to be proposed to, hmm (I think) Oh I am not sure - yes, I wouldnt have a problem in doing the proposing myself, but where is my ring

Yes, they say women can propose on a Leap Year...I bet many wait for that Leap Year to do the deed, but there is no reason whyt they shouldnt just go ahead and ask their man. hey women ask for everything in life and get it (nearly always ) so why not marriage?

I think if anyone is gonna propose, you already have an idea what the answer is gonna be before asking, cos if you are 150% sure then that IS why you are proposing in the first place..correct? Do you get me, or have you lost track of what I am saying?

My mind is somewhere else today, so em..sorry..

I dont understand the question.

If U mean, 'propose', then I dont see why it should be such a big deal. If U love some1 and wish 2 marry them, then it shouldnt matter what gender U R 2 propose I feel.

DigitalLisa said:

btw this is the most stalker prince song ever...

if i had your number id call you on the phone id breath real heavy and maybe i'll start to groan i dont love you im just a horny toad..

im locking all my doors and screening my calls

Christopher said:

so that was Prince all that time , damn if I knew that I wouldn't have called the police
[This message was edited Tue Sep 2 4:20:39 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

I could never do that.

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[This message was edited Tue Sep 2 10:09:50 PDT 2003 by LennyKravitz]

If a man accepts a proposal from a woman, he'll be the bitch throughout the entire marriage.

EvilWhiteMale said:

That's what happened to you huh?

EvilWhiteMale said:

thats horrible

EvilWhiteMale said:

probably

Since women are usually the ones to bring up the whole marriage issue to their boyfriend anyway, to let it be known that the relationship is at that point (and sometimes they put down an ultimatum that it's marriage or breakup), I'd say that women are the ones who really do the proposing anyway.

i think that just because we are not born with a penis why should we be banned for life from finding our true love ?? if i truely wanted to be with a man for the rest of my life...i might ask him...who knows

look I said I'm not going 2 propose 2 him, I'm just gon tell him we getting married,then we gon get married

Does this proposal come with a ring???

If a woman asked me to marry her, it wouldn't ruffle my feathers (or any other body part) one bit. I'm not getting married until I can afford to support a wife and kids, but if I arrived at that point and my girlfriend asked me...I'd certainly say 'Yes.' IF...I knew she was someone who I could grow old with.

My wife got tired of waiting for me to propose to her.
We had already bought a house together, but her parents
wouldn't let her move in until we were married...so she
tackled me in the bed, pinned me down with her knees, and
"forced" me to propose...i guess you could say that she,
in essence, proposed.

13 happy years later, I would be honored to ask her
for her hand in marriage again...maybe i'll be a little
more romantic next time.

Paisley said:

Hey, be nice.

If a woman did propose to me I'd be sick to my stomach.

Dunno, but I don't have any good experiences with women who propose. Then again, maybe it's just American women, who knows.

00769BAD said:

yes... but the thing is,
You gotta buy the ring

EvilSkittle said:

do u feel challenge

It's fine if the woman brings up the idea of marriage (which is often the case), but to go and do it like a man traditionally does and make an event out of it wouldn't fly. If you wanna buck tradition forget the ceremony altogether-- otherwise let the man be the man.

The best thing is to drop subtle hints and if he's stupid enough or doesn't care enough to get the picture ask yourself... do you really want this guy fathering your kids?

In all seriousness many men who truly love their woman look forward to that moment when they save their money, buy the ring, get on one knee, and say those life-altering words. I guess it all comes down to the man you're speaking of.
[This message was edited Tue Sep 2 19:47:34 PDT 2003 by whodknee]

whodknee said:

you got me thinking
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00769BAD said:

Yeah, from the Cracker Jacks box. :LOL:

EvilWhiteMale said:

EWM... Will you marry me???