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Respect . [This message was edited Sat Oct 18 19:38:48 PDT 2003 by dbol] | |
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I choose respect. It is definately not the easiest choice, but it is the one I want to live with.
Be careful of the morning cuddles, kisses and caregiving from those who don't know respect. It always comes with a price. I agree with you in the audacity (sp?) of someone who expects respect when they show none. I avoid people like that at all costs. Best wishes to you dbol. Hang in there.  I'm firmly planted in denial |
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just wanna pass out  here...
thanx  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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Nothinbutjoy said: I choose respect. It is definately not the easiest choice, but it is the one I want to live with.
Be careful of the morning cuddles, kisses and caregiving from those who don't know respect. It always comes with a price. I agree with you in the audacity (sp?) of someone who expects respect when they show none. I avoid people like that at all costs. Best wishes to you dbol. Hang in there. well said sweetie  THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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Rarely given, always demanded. Will be a better place once it is always given and rarely demanded  I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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Thank you dear! I'm firmly planted in denial |
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dbol said: CtheUncanny said: Rarely given, always demanded. Will be a better place once it is always given and rarely demanded
Thing is, in reality good things rarely come to good people. I think it does, just not in material form I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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dbol said: CtheUncanny said: Rarely given, always demanded. Will be a better place once it is always given and rarely demanded
Thing is, in reality good things rarely come to good people. Good people don't need good things to come to them. They create their own. Diggin' on what C is sayin...  I'm firmly planted in denial |
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dbol said: Nothinbutjoy said: I choose respect. It is definately not the easiest choice, but it is the one I want to live with.
And it's a good choice, but look at society these days. Everything is about luxury, the easiest way to get things done. Now why would people think it should be any different with relationships? Why be happy with something good you got, when you can get something which appears to be better? Why not give into temptation when it comes to relationships, when you give into temptation every time you go to the store? If society said go jump off a bridge would you do it? (Standard mom response  )
Okay, yes, I realize the irony in that, as society does say go jump off a bridge with a bunjee cord attached to you for the thrill of it. But that's my point, yes it is thrilling unless you break your neck. HOWEVER, you said it yourself "APPEARS" to be better. You can either join the bandwagon or choose the narrow path. Not everyone looks for the easiest way to go. Finding those who do walk the narrow path is not easy, but it is worth it. Again, it all comes down to choices. Which way do you choose to live your life? Yes, it sucks the way it APPEARS that all of the best things come to those who take the easy route, but it's smoke and mirrors. Make YOUR choices. Live YOUR life. In the end that's what it all boils down to. You have one life. Make the best of it and don't compare it to anyone elses. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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dbol said: It's funny that people who've shown they absolutely did not respect your relationship are the ones who expect you to respect theirs.
Another thing I will never understand are women who want to be with a guy who didn't show respect for the relationship they had with another guy. If someone does not respect your relationship/marriage with someone else, this person cannot respect their own, thus it's bound to fail. Being the righteous brother will always leave you empty handed. Assholes take whatever they want and always get away with it. A clean conscience does not cuddle up to you in the morning, give you that kiss when you most need it or take care of you when you're sick. To respect or disrespect, that's the question. I could not disagree more with certain points! No way will the righteous brother always end up empty handed! that idea operates under FEAR False Evidence Appearing Real Being alone in your bed may cause you to FEEL that is the case. However, someone with your obvious ability to see things on a deeper level then must also realize having a girl named "compromise" laying beside you just to fill that void will not ever do anyway! She would leave you equally empty! (...and I suspect has!) Assholes as you put it can only take what is theirs "TO HAVE!" In other words water sinks to it's own level... In other words start picking beautiful understanding souls like your own and you will have what you want! It may be the road less traveled and may hurt like HELL and provide some lonely moments but it will produce a life you can stand in the end. The pain itself motivates you, elevates you and prepares you so that the one you are to have that can't be taken will recognize you and bring your life full circle. IT'S WORTH THE JOURNEY YOUR WORTH THE PATH  SO in closing :Lol: ...in answer to the actual question...
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We think so much alike Muse...think that's why I lubs you so. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Nothinbutjoy said: We think so much alike Muse...think that's why I lubs you so.
:Lol: I just saw that! 
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dbol said: It's funny that people who've shown they absolutely did not respect your relationship are the ones who expect you to respect theirs.
Another thing I will never understand are women who want to be with a guy who didn't show respect for the relationship they had with another guy. If someone does not respect your relationship/marriage with someone else, this person cannot respect their own, thus it's bound to fail. Being the righteous brother will always leave you empty handed. Assholes take whatever they want and always get away with it. A clean conscience does not cuddle up to you in the morning, give you that kiss when you most need it or take care of you when you're sick. To respect or disrespect, that's the question. "No good deed goes unpunished" I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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