if u were Dating some1 or Married 2 some1 & they told u they were Bi or Gay & u thought something else how would u feel 2ward them???

The same as I had before... I am a confident straight women.

~No offense would be taken.

well if we were just dating it wouldn't matter as long as we were not

if we were just friends it wouldn't matter because I only roll one way.Doesn't change the friendship, male or female.

if we were married say if the hubby came home and said btw baby I roll both ways, I would ask him 2 questions...does he roll SAFELY and did he roll while married to me?

as long as he was not rolling both ways while we were married it wouldn't matter...monogamy is more important to me than sexual preference. I have many trysexual friends. I love them all regardless.

I misunderstood this question.

Anyways...

the 1st answer was the Right Answer FreeSpirit...

Freespirit said:

Here, here...I dated a bi man who did that exact thing and as long as he practiced safe sex with his past partners, I was fine with it.

well i once had a quick fling with a woman who was obviously gay. i had to stop it cuz she was seeing someone and so was i but she persued me for a bit. i still wouldn't mind if i met someone who turned out to be bi.

that seems 2 b the Dream...

If you are just dating that is one thing, but if you are married, that would bring up several issues relating to trust, disclosure, and honesty.

35% of my former girlfriends are now lesbians But I think that sexual orientation is a very loose term. Ever see "Chasing Amy?"

My 1st long term gf said she was bi be4 we got 2gether. It didnt bother me really.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

ofcourse u didn't mind. u & the gf could talk about other WoMen

Its not important as long as both parties are agreed with each other and the are no jealousy going on. and to but up front and truthful would b a bonus anyway.