Let's sort the adults from the kiddies.

Intimacy.

Whaddaya mean "or". . .? I have to choose?

Paisley said:

Why?

tackam said:

Yes.

liberation said:

Just because.

liberation said:

Well, that sucks.

Intimacy for sure. But only because I'm a firm believer in the power of solo sex. Otherwise it'd be very, very close. . .

..

intimacy, trust, love, respect, sex .. leads to a spiritual high

there is no other way

anything else is just cheap thrills

..

Both.

Ripple.

althom said:

one or the other.

althom said:

Hey I was gonna say that

Paisley said:

Do you feel intimacy ultimately brings you more pleasure then the act of pure penetration and orgasm?

Intimacy of course.

You can sex with anyone you know, but being truly intimate, thats when you don't have to have sex to sastified, and when you do have sex WOWSERS oh WOWSERS.
But since in this scenario you have to choose, intimacy is for those who want a connection beyond the physical, sex is for those who want the almighty orgasm.

just my thougts.
[This message was edited Thu Aug 21 20:57:39 PDT 2003 by pinkshoes]

Sweeny79 said:

Well...I don't see why I should choose.

tackam said:

Honesty is a quality one must respect.

althom said:

Me either

I want both.

althom said:

and u shall have both my Hunk of burnin tin'

Shroomsy said:

Intimacy;A meeting of one's minds. Closeness. Of course whereas Sex can be just for the actual Act;the release. The Orgasm . Whereas Love would be the Ultimate.

Muffy said:

What she said...

Yeah, cool...

It's the best post on this thread...

A million stars... This one plus 999,999 more.

i dont see the need for distinction really. my views arent the typical though. my life only includes sex when involved deeply with someone and only when there is an incredible spiritual connect. sex to me is a communication of bodies on some next level shit when done properly. no boundaries, no inhibitions, no issues or fear. just some pure soul involved. you can use higher sex as a movement from everyday limited levels of consciousness into an expansion of your energetic aliveness.

Deepak Chopra??? Is that you?

Chico319 said:

Chico319 said:

fuck ya, chico
my point of view aint gonna stop the what size is your dick threads, so dont be worried.

iridescence said:

This is beautiful. I don't believe you can have sex with someone without at least a certain level of intimacy.

Intimacy. That's what I miss now that I'm alone, even though I cuddle my friends very much. I don't miss the sex.

Cuddling might not be the term though, it's more intimate than what most people call cuddling.

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intimacy for me is the sharing of breath

the tasting of tears

the caress of the feel both spiritually and physically

..

this is a really pretty silly attempt at curbing some of the sex talk, but...

INTIMACY

of course!

i think we are all adults here...

i look at it like this...


i say a lot in here...i miss/want/need/desire sex...but for me...the thing is..i could have sex anytime...thats not the problem, is the closeness and the love that i miss the most...

problem is ...the men i have met and the things i have been through in life have taught me too build a wall around my heart...

although i miss the 'love' feeling and all that it brings...i dont miss the 'down' feeling that follows ...

so see...im stuck

but if i had to choose...i would say...i miss the intimacy...being close to a man and all that comes with that...

there is a huge difference between making love and fucking...i grew out of the 'fucking' stage looong ago
[This message was edited Fri Aug 22 7:26:56 PDT 2003 by justkelley]