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Do you believe in marriage? We had a discussion earlier in the chatroom, and many people say that piece of paper you sign ruins the relationship and would rather not get married.
I for one think that is a load of balls..if people love each other and wanna spend the rest of their lives together and wanna marry, why not? I lnow of a lot of long lasting happy marriages. What are your opinions on marriage today? | |
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I will never marry. I don't agree with it. | |
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Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? | |
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Yes I do! | |
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I don't understand why people are scared of the concept of marriage.. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. | |
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Yeah I do believe in it.And there is no way it could be worse than dating lol. | |
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YES! Just maybe not for me. I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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crazyhorse said: Yeah I do believe in it.And there is no way it could be worse than dating lol.
AMEN! | |
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Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. | |
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crazyhorse said: Yeah I do believe in it.And there is no way it could be worse than dating lol.
Too true | |
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Marriage is only believable when the couple in love is truly in love and wants to make the commitment. Prenups over money and belongings is crappy though. It's as if you're saying "when I leave you I want this and that" not "if we part" or "i want you to have this of mine should we part because I love you". That's the part that destroys the marriage in my opinion. Caues heaven forbid you lose his Benz and $500 when he falls for Sally at the strip club. | |
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i believe in marriage...BUT i do think that there are so many more outside influences in relationships than there were 20 or so years ago. you have chat rooms, dating sites, etc. its hard for some ppl to stay faithful with all of these temptations | |
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crazyhorse said: Yeah I do believe in it.And there is no way it could be worse than dating lol.
I been there and it can be alot worse than dating. It can be worse than most things. I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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nupowrfan71 said: Marriage is only believable when the couple in love is truly in love and wants to make the commitment. Prenups over money and belongings is crappy though. It's as if you're saying "when I leave you I want this and that" not "if we part" or "i want you to have this of mine should we part because I love you". That's the part that destroys the marriage in my opinion. Caues heaven forbid you lose his Benz and $500 when he falls for Sally at the strip club.
Prenups.. | |
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summerdawn said: i believe in marriage...BUT i do think that there are so many more outside influences in relationships than there were 20 or so years ago. you have chat rooms, dating sites, etc. its hard for some ppl to stay faithful with all of these temptations
That is balls..you can walk down the street and find some one good looking, it is about staying faithful and staying in love. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. | |
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Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. Ok, so you shy away from that...have you ever bought a lottery ticket? The stakes are alot higher, but I guess you do or have, hoping you might win... | |
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Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. ..and alot of marriages... hey the glass is half full, not half empty. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. Ok, so you shy away from that...have you ever bought a lottery ticket? The stakes are alot higher, but I guess you do or have, hoping you might win... About a dozen times in my life. And I'm not really shying away from marriage. I just don't agree with it. | |
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Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. Ok, so you shy away from that...have you ever bought a lottery ticket? The stakes are alot higher, but I guess you do or have, hoping you might win... About a dozen times in my life. And I'm not really shying away from marriage. I just don't agree with it. | |
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<--- happily married. wouldn't have it any other way. Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: REDFEATHERS said: Cloudbuster said: I will never marry. I don't agree with it.
Why not? What dont you agree about? I think it's unnecessary and pointless. If two people love each other then that should be enough. No more messy/expensive divorces. Why should there be messy divorces? Who mentioned divorce? not ALL marriages end up on divorce and I think that is probably why you fear marriage.. I don't fear marriage. I just won't get married. And 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. That's a lot of divorces. Ok, so you shy away from that...have you ever bought a lottery ticket? The stakes are alot higher, but I guess you do or have, hoping you might win... About a dozen times in my life. And I'm not really shying away from marriage. I just don't agree with it. You still havent said why you dont agree with ot though... | |
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teller said: <--- happily married. wouldn't have it any other way.
That's great! | |
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I do...but only if you marry because you've found the person you believe you can/will be deeply happy with for the rest of time... ...If that feeling doesn't exist, then the relationship, no matter what form it takes, will not last.
Don't marry to have your "needs" met, or for money or out of fear & insecurities...marry because you can't even slightly imagine finding anyone else you'd love sharing your life with more... | |
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I Do...
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I believe in it, but not to be political or anything, apparantly, it is does not believe in me. Someone somewhere decided it was only for people who can breed Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Prenups..
I personally agree with prenups, sadly in this day and age it's a very wise move. Sad reflection on society as a whole, but reality none the less. "Waiting to be banned" | |
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