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Printablestymie said: All the parents on this thread so far, raise your hand.
 Then, when you do, tell me that there has never, ever been a time your said a swear word to or around your kids.i have never said any swear word around any kids (i generally dont say them around adults either) I'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
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Finess said: iv'e never swore at my son, over the years ive learned to censor myself, but hes really never gave me a reason to scream on him except once... but i didnt scream at him or hit him,i called his mama. and said "come git ya boy"
 
See, that's the luxury that fathers have. I wish I could tell my kids to call their daddy when they start begging and acting up. Actually I do, but they just look at me like  **************************************************
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MrBliss said: stymie said: All the parents on this thread so far, raise your hand.
Then, when you do, tell me that there has never, ever been a time your said a swear word to or around your kids.i said swear at ... and i've lived with girlfriends who have had children...i had to discipline them | |
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illimack said: msserendipity said: in the right stuation and time the phrase F$^king C*%t is so empowering...not necessarily in anger...but never to kids
i been on buses and parents talking to their kids f'ing and blinding makes me feel sick. it show lack of language skills and intellect. very lazy. and i don't mean to sound like a snob here. I have to humbly disagree. It's usually due more out of frustration. Like I said, kids can get on your nerves. And after working all day, coming home to your kids fighting over one looking at the other one the wrong way can make you curse. Or mabye it't just me. | |
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BabyGirl said: stymie said: All the parents on this thread so far, raise your hand.
Then, when you do, tell me that there has never, ever been a time your said a swear word to or around your kids.i have never said any swear word around any kids (i generally dont say them around adults either) | |
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I grew up with my parents swearing at me ALL THE TIME. Sometimes I can hear their words playing in my head as if they were soundbites...
"These kids are assholes." "You little shit" "You're a shithead" Parents, those WORDS COUNT. I'm a 27-year-old man and they still haunt me. Don't SWEAR AT your kids. Swearing AROUND them is sorta acceptable (I have a potty-mouth) but NEVER EVER EVER use profanity TOWARDS them. | |
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Muffy said: Children are God's Blessing anyone who abuses them in any way be Penalized. I love kids and I get Appalled at all these fools for parents who couldn't raise a flower let alone a Child. There outta be a law that says EVEN IF YOU CAN HAVE A CHILD DON"T IF YOU CAN'T BE A GOOD ONE! Big Freakin Deal you have a child but Abuse it. To me there should be strickter laws regarding this.
 Laws such as?...And just what is considered abuse? Let me see, the last time that I remember cursing at my kids was because they let one of the contractors working on my house inside to use the bathroom when I wasn't home. I have a very strict rule...no one is to enter my home when I am not there. My kids are almost 14 so they KNOW this. They let a contractor, who was contracted out by my general contractor, who they had never seen before and who I didn't even know was there, into the house. The only reason that they called me at work, which was after the fact, was becaus they got mad because he took a dump. What did I say to them when they called..."You let an unknown person into the house with no adult there? What did you do some STUPID SHIT like that for? I could have come home and found you both slaughtered? You didn't know that man from Adam. He could have killed you both. Don't EVER let someone in the house when I am not at home. You both know this?" Now if that's abuse, then I'm guilty. I guess some parents would have given them a time out.**************************************************
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illimack said: Muffy said: Children are God's Blessing anyone who abuses them in any way be Penalized. I love kids and I get Appalled at all these fools for parents who couldn't raise a flower let alone a Child. There outta be a law that says EVEN IF YOU CAN HAVE A CHILD DON"T IF YOU CAN'T BE A GOOD ONE! Big Freakin Deal you have a child but Abuse it. To me there should be strickter laws regarding this.
Laws such as?...And just what is considered abuse? Let me see, the last time that I remember cursing at my kids was because they let one of the contractors working on my house inside to use the bathroom when I wasn't home. I have a very strict rule...no one is to enter my home when I am not there. My kids are almost 14 so they KNOW this. They let a contractor, who was contracted out by my general contractor, who they had never seen before and who I didn't even know was there, into the house. The only reason that they called me at work, which was after the fact, was becaus they got mad because he took a dump. What did I say to them when they called..."You let an unknown person into the house with no adult there? What did you do some STUPID SHIT like that for? I could have come home and found you both slaughtered? You didn't know that man from Adam. He could have killed you both. Don't EVER let someone in the house when I am not at home. You both know this?" Now if that's abuse, then I'm guilty. I guess some parents would have given them a time out. | |
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MrBliss said: are fucked in the head
oh what a happy thread what if the child is a telemarketer? is it okay to swear at them then? | |
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I think it's phucked up for a parent to swear at their children. I really hate the ones who only do it in private because they know they are wrong and try to give the "good parent" image. I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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I have been known to swear in front of my children, have been
known to jokingly say you "lil shit" when they are trying to be sneaky or say something smart and have even been known to throw in a curse when I have finally had it with 'em. I am such a BAD mother!! Give me a break! As I tell them... There are things you are allowed to say when you are an adult and things you CANT say when you are a child. That is the joy of being grown!!! An edit[This message was edited Wed Aug 20 18:12:10 PDT 2003 by luv4thepurple1] He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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I think there are two different understandings of the concept "people who swear at their children". I think what Bliss is talking about are people who call their children names like "fucker", "fuckhead", "shithead", "asshole", etc. NOT parents who use those words around them.
Am I right, Bliss? | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: I think there are two different understandings of the concept "people who swear at their children". I think what Bliss is talking about are people who call their children names like "fucker", "fuckhead", "shithead", "asshole", etc. NOT parents who use those words around them.
Am I right, Bliss? Well, if thats the case i am a good mommy!! YAY!  He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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luv4thepurple1 said: AnotherLoverToo said: I think there are two different understandings of the concept "people who swear at their children". I think what Bliss is talking about are people who call their children names like "fucker", "fuckhead", "shithead", "asshole", etc. NOT parents who use those words around them.
Am I right, Bliss? Well, if thats the case i am a good mommy!! YAY! Not cursing, but cursing at them in a mean spirited way. I GOT YA, I GOT YA, I GOT YA PUNKASS! REPEAT | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: I think there are two different understandings of the concept "people who swear at their children". I think what Bliss is talking about are people who call their children names like "fucker", "fuckhead", "shithead", "asshole", etc. NOT parents who use those words around them.
Am I right, Bliss? it's why i said at... to me, it doesn't even have to be name calling though... when it's used in any aggressive way to correct etc it a) is abusive ...and b) shows that the parent isn't in control | |
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CtheUncanny said: I think it's phucked up for a parent to swear at their children. I really hate the ones who only do it in private because they know they are wrong and try to give the "good parent" image.
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Are we talking about Ozzy & Sharon? WHAT IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW? THERE WASN'T ONE TODAY! | |
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noepie said: Are we talking about Ozzy & Sharon?
Maybe soon about you and J.? I wanna be a godfather! | |
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noepie said: Are we talking about Ozzy & Sharon?
wouldn't that be more like people who swear with their children??...  -------------------------------------------------
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pejman said: noepie said: Are we talking about Ozzy & Sharon?
wouldn't that be more like people who swear with their children??... True! WHAT IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW? THERE WASN'T ONE TODAY! | |
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gooeythehamster said: noepie said: Are we talking about Ozzy & Sharon?
Maybe soon about you and J.? I wanna be a godfather! Join the mob!! WHAT IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW? THERE WASN'T ONE TODAY! | |
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