marrk i think you're gonna shag her anyway...then deal with the consequences.
that human nature.

i ain't here to judge you. if you want to have sex (and generally its just for the sex) with her, do it...it means you're being unfaihful...but hey...if you think you can handle that then so be it.
if you want a relationship with the girl, then this is more complex. you have made a commitment to your wife. your circumstances have changed...maybe you need to have this "fling" to sort your own head out. in a perverse away it may make you realise you're own relationship is better then you think.

either way...whatever you do ...your heads gonna be fucked.

can you deal with it?

Marrk said:

Does she know that you're registered on the Sex Offender's List?

Have you stopped masturbating in front of the old ladies at the bowling green?

I think it's only fair she knows the real Marrk. Don't you?

msserendipity said:

Life is one regret after another.

if i do behave, i'll be wondering what i missed.damn.

applekisses said:

so...how do you really feel about it ??


:LOL:

justkelley said:

Well, I HAD to break it down for him...he's swaying and not thinking logically...

mcmeekle said:

i'm NOT a pervert.I'm just a regular guy with a problem millions of guys go thru.

Marrk said:

You'll miss fucking with a young girl's head. No matter how grown up she seems on the outside...on the inside she is just a little girl.

applekisses said:

i really don't think the age is the issue here...17 here in the uk is not a child. life should not be about regrets...life is about "moments".
this "moment" is driven by lust...so what?

the real issue here is your head. can you deal with it for this one "moment"...some can...some can't.

its only sex...no biggy...theres a lot of sex to be had out there after...once you decide what to do with your marriage...if you want a relationship then thats different.

Step away from the kid
Think about it at 16 u could have had a child, think how you would feel if your 17 year old daughter was going out with a 33 year old.

Well, in the US she's not allowed to vote, drink and is barely old enough to drive on her own. So, here she would be a child.
Not to mention, she's half his age and is still in high school.

katt said:

yet if the girl was just 3 or 4 years older it would be ok?

applekisses said:

its a hard one

i have nothing but love for you, sammy but is it really hard?

yes, it takes self control and some discipline but at the end of the day wouldnt we all rather be proud of ourselves for making the right choices? we all make mistakes but some mistakes have great bearing on the soul. and this can potentially hurt quite a few people.

mark, do the work, dont take the easy way out. the young girl is not even the main issue here. i am sure you are flattered with the attention but repectfully take care of the commitment you have already made, then move forward. if you decide to leave your marriage there will be plenty of opportunity to explore new situations.

not trying to preach here, just giving my thoughts. i'll shut up now.

msserendipity said:

When you're only 17, three or four years is a big deal...it's about 1/4 of the time you've been alive.

Marrk said:

Mark...just THINK about this before you do anything.

What happens when it gets complicated? You bang her, she wants more and decides to tell your wife.

katt said:

msserendipity said:

Nope it would not, 2 much off an age difference in my eyes, but hey i'm a mother. Someone off that age goes near my daughter and they have me to deal with.

1: Let a Kid be A Kid
2: This persons married
3: U should never mix Buisness with plesure
4: Respect Urself and others around U.
5: Resolve the problems in Ur private life not complicate them more.

Everything is wrong with this situation.

I'm 27 and would never think about messing with a girl so young, even if it was legal here.

Have you seen some 17 year old girls lately? They look Much older and yes guys can get into alot of trouble like R.Kelly and all. True also mixing business with Pleasure is wrong. Complications arise. How about all these Rock Stars that go with much younger Women. The STUD factor. Case in point Prince and Mani. Mick with his Brazilians and Rod Stewert. Get this in my opinion Mick needs a face lift and Rod Stewert also should retire his hairdo. I wouldn't get jazzed or excited for no old man like them not caring how much money they have. Yuck!

Muffy said:

You are Natasha. No one else uses the word "stud" or capitalizes the way you do.


Welcome back, beautiful.

EvilWhiteMale said:

Yeah! And YOU'RE evil!

dont fall into it, you will regret it later on in life. and if you wont, she will believe me I know.

LennyKravitz said:

.. hi lenny

MrBliss said:

Hi. Dave, right?

YOUR MARRIED!


KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS!

Lenny Kravitz is one of my favorite Artists. I heard Natasha was off in Bali after getting Dumped by Ben.

LennyKravitz said:

actually, the way he feels about you, you're just gonna wanna call him "baby"

Don't u have to go to school till you're 18 in the UK?

And i'll predict a mess @ work.
But if she knows you'r married, and you let your wife know you want a divorce, the hell, y not.

Marrk said:

Tell your wife about it & that it won't affect your marriage adversely (how could it..since it sucks anyway?)

SpcMs said:

no you can leave school at 16 here.She does know i'm married.

i've decided to not be stupid, my marriage does need tweaking a bit, i suppose it'll take a bit of effort on both sides, but it's worth fighting for.

Hopefully i can retain a platonic friendship with this girl, i like her alot, she's funny.