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how do y'all deal with situations in your life ?

i use to like to confront and resolve the issue by
what ever means necessary, this ofcourse meant it was
not always a peaceful way. now i am at a stage of my life where i aspire to
the higher good. i believe a healthy discussion is the most powerful
tool for understanding and dealing with obstacles.

it takes true strength, to listen and understand the truth about one's self, to not to give in to emotions.

how do you cope with obstacles and demons,

do you react, do you let it slide, or do you run away ?

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I tend to talk through the situation. Trying to avoid confrontation. I am truely a "peace first" kinda person. But when i am left with no other option i will do what i have to do to get the problem "removed'. And i am respectable with "throwin them thangs" too. :LOL:

Pray ... Read the bible
Ask God 4 guidance

i evalute the situation to the best of my abilites and then weigh all the factors that are involved. most times issues are easily resolved and can be talked through or at least the we can come to the point of agreeing to disagree.

if its an emotionally charged issue and i am deeply invested to the point where it becomes a matter of principle, then i tend to be fairly aggressive with my words. not abusive but intense, because it matters to me greatly that the issue is resolved.

i feel that we are all mirrors of each other on some level and many situations are a direct reflection of something within us. so i try to untangle the problem to free myself from the veils of illusion.

after that? we gonna box.

DigitalLisa said:

All while he stomps a mudhole in my chest

CtheUncanny said:

I have no regrets

strange but true
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I don't air my dirty laundry out on the org, that's fo sho.

i doodle whack...sorts 'em out every time

MrBliss said:

Natsume said:

you are soo such a laundry air-er!

Christopher said:

You too

Christopher said:

Brat!

Natsume said:

dont you like your clothes to be april fresh?

Christopher said:

No, I like smelling of shit.

Natsume said:

are you magic?

Murder, she wrote.

Supernova said:

What up Nova?

Supernova said:

Paisley said:

What up Paisley! How 'bout them Raidas!

Natsume said:

Hi Nat!

Supernova said:

The real season hasn't even begun yet, the best is yet to come.

Supernova said:

Paisley said:

They're gonna suck more ass than ever before.

CoreyFeldman said:

Speaking of sucking ass...

Supernova said:

OK we'll see.

either escape:


or face it head on:

I deal with situations in too many ways to mention. I have learned a lot about my temper and how to control it!...KARMA takes care of situations !!! It took a lot of trial and error til I grasped the whole Karma thing!