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Why is it okay 4 a man 2 sleep around but not a woman Why is it okay for a man 2 sleep around , but if a woman sleeps around she'll get labeled a hoe?
What y'all think women don't get urges? What y'all think one man can satisfy all a woman needs? Hell I often feel like some of you guys do, I want to try a lil bit and then make up mind which flavor I like the best... However there's a price 2 pay in that, not only would I get labeled as a hoe from a man, but you know women would label me as a hoe as well... Why does this double standard still exsist? | |
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DigitalLisa said: Why is it okay for a man 2 sleep around , but if a woman sleeps around she'll get labeled a hoe?
What y'all think women don't get urges? What y'all think one man can satisfy all a woman needs? Hell I often feel like some of you guys do, I want to try a lil bit and then make up mind which flavor I like the best... However there's a price 2 pay in that, not only would I get labeled as a hoe from a man, but you know women would label me as a hoe as well... Why does this double standard still exsist? just fuck away from your town ...works for me 
...that way no woman can come looking for me claiming the new born kid is mine 
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Ardeo said: DigitalLisa said: Why is it okay for a man 2 sleep around , but if a woman sleeps around she'll get labeled a hoe?
What y'all think women don't get urges? What y'all think one man can satisfy all a woman needs? Hell I often feel like some of you guys do, I want to try a lil bit and then make up mind which flavor I like the best... However there's a price 2 pay in that, not only would I get labeled as a hoe from a man, but you know women would label me as a hoe as well... Why does this double standard still exsist? just fuck away from your town ...works for me
...that way now woman can come looking for me claiming the new born kid is mine C'mon now if u know a woman has had more then one partner... you would be quick 2 call her a hoe 
Now I know I'm not making this up it's happened so many times..... [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:28:54 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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Or if a woman is not afraid 2 express her sexuality, you'll see her as a freak or a hoe where if it was a man, we wouldn't think nothing of it | |
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DigitalLisa said: Ardeo said: DigitalLisa said: Why is it okay for a man 2 sleep around , but if a woman sleeps around she'll get labeled a hoe?
What y'all think women don't get urges? What y'all think one man can satisfy all a woman needs? Hell I often feel like some of you guys do, I want to try a lil bit and then make up mind which flavor I like the best... However there's a price 2 pay in that, not only would I get labeled as a hoe from a man, but you know women would label me as a hoe as well... Why does this double standard still exsist? just fuck away from your town ...works for me
...that way now woman can come looking for me claiming the new born kid is mine C'mon now if u know a woman has had more then one partner... you would be quick 2 call her a hoe
Now I know I'm not making this up it's happened so many times... [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:28:54 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] well, only if she was being paid for her services | |
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Personally it doesnt bother me how many people a woman as slept with. I wouldnt call her a 'hoe' either if its a lot. Im not gonna put any1 down if thats what they enjoy doing. | |
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I think it's perfectly okay for a woman to sleep around. It just takes the rest of the stupid little world a bit of time to catch up sometimes, is all. | |
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lisa... i officially give you permission to sleep around... off ya go...get busy  | |
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See my reply in Bliss's "Girls, How Many Men Have You Slept With"... thread! | |
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MrBliss said: lisa... i officially give you permission to sleep around... off ya go...get busy
official 2, U heard the man! | |
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Whatever floats the boat. | |
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Okay the question is... for the single men in here, would you marry a woman who has had more partners then you, personally I don't think a males ego could handle it ...:Roll:
Come on now tell the truth and stop lying [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:46:55 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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DigitalLisa said: Okay the question is... for the single men in here, would you marry a woman who has had more women then you, personally I don't think a males ego could handle it ...:Roll:
Come on now tell the truth and stop lying [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:46:10 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] A woman who has had more women than he has? Like, that she's bisexual?  | |
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Oh, ok, you changed it... | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Oh, ok, you changed it...
Yeah... typo mistake... honestly | |
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DigitalLisa said: Okay the question is... for the single men in here, would you marry a woman who has had more partners then you, personally I don't think a males ego could handle it ...:Roll:
Come on now tell the truth and stop lying [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:46:55 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Certainly! My only concern is that once we are an official couple, I'm the only partner she has. I'm in love with who she is, not who she was. Besides, if that were the case, I'd have to marry a virgin. | |
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Moonbeam said: DigitalLisa said: Okay the question is... for the single men in here, would you marry a woman who has had more partners then you, personally I don't think a males ego could handle it ...:Roll:
Come on now tell the truth and stop lying [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:46:55 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] Certainly! My only concern is that once we are an official couple, I'm the only partner she has. I'm in love with who she is, not who she was. Besides, if that were the case, I'd have to marry a virgin. unfornately not alot of guys feel that way | |
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The answer is in the question itself, otherwise why question? It's not "okay" for either sex. | |
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Hooker, slut, bitches and hoes are all terms used by men 2 desribe a woman who sleeps around. If it was okay 4 a woman 2 be just as sexually aggresive as a man words such as hoe, slut or whore would not have been made and if that was the case if a man called us that would not be offended by them ... | |
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DigitalLisa said: Hooker, slut, bitches and hoes are all terms used by men 2 desribe a woman who sleeps around. If it was okay 4 a woman 2 be just as sexually aggresive as a man words such as hoe, slut or whore would not have been made and if that was the case if a man called us that would not be offended by them ...
i've heard many women call other women these names... you've lost the plot again lisa | |
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Infidelity, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, untrustworthiness... these are qualities equally unnattractive in men and women, in my opinion. | |
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Sleep around??? I call all females ladies and women, I leave my hoe in the garden. -------------------------------------------------
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ian said: Infidelity, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, untrustworthiness... these are qualities equally unnattractive in men and women, in my opinion.
true... I believe in monogomus relationships... I wish I can find a guy I can really trust, but u know how that is, everybody is trying 2 play some kinda game 2 see who can get who in2 the bed first and personally I'm getting tired of that... | |
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there used to be ahuge double standard, but it has gotten much better. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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DigitalLisa said: Okay the question is... for the single men in here, would you marry a woman who has had more partners then you, personally I don't think a males ego could handle it ...:Roll:
Lisa, I 'm glad you brought this up. I had this conversation with my best friend on Firday. I asked him this exact same question. His response was that if a woman will sleep with you on the first date, she'll sleep with anybody on the first date. He also told me he would not be willing to marry a woman who does certain sexual things the first time out. In our fucked up society, a man who has many conquests is looked up to and a woman who does the same is looked down on. How fucked up is that?Come on now tell the truth and stop lying [This message was edited Sun Aug 10 14:46:55 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa] | |
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It's all about how mankind has developed. Generally, man is designed to fuck a lot and spread his seed, while women are designed to take care of the offspring and not fool around. That's just nature. Once society began to develop, moralities and social standards began to form around this behavior, and that's why it's acceptable for men to sleep around and not women. It makes a lot of women angry and start screaming about double-standards, but nature is nature.
To see how people think, ask this question. If you had a teenage son and a daughter, who would you be more pissed at for loosing their virginity or partying? Most people would naturally say their daughter, cuz we're naturally more protective of our women. The same reason it's more disturbing to find out our mothers had an affair over our fathers. It's also about not wanting our women to be dominated in any way. That also gets into people having problems with interratial couples, especially with the women. Many white men hate to see a black man with a white woman, and many black men hate to see a white man with a black woman. It's a natural instinct to protect our women from that "domination." Some people can handle it better than others, but it is an issue with a good amount of society. I'm not saying any of it is wrong or right, but it's just stuff that goes back to the times of early man. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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DigitalLisa said: Why is it okay 4 a man 2 sleep around.
It isn't! NOTE: THIS ACCOUNT IS NOW CLOSED. PLEASE CONTACT “K A M  L L E” | |
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DigitalLisa said: Why is it okay for a man 2 sleep around , but if a woman sleeps around she'll get labeled a hoe?
What y'all think women don't get urges? What y'all think one man can satisfy all a woman needs? Hell I often feel like some of you guys do, I want to try a lil bit and then make up mind which flavor I like the best... However there's a price 2 pay in that, not only would I get labeled as a hoe from a man, but you know women would label me as a hoe as well... Why does this double standard still exsist? Why would you give a fuck about what boring people think about you...? If I were a woman and someone called me a hoe, I'd wear that label with pride... At least I'd be the one having fun, instead of all these boring losers who stay with one dude/chick cos they can't get anyone better and therefore call everyone else who can, a hoe... (Be aware that I'm not calling everyone who's commited a "boring loser", just the ones who are so sad they have to label women a "Hoe") Secretly these idiots wish they were the one's fucking around... But they can't... It's just a jealousy thing... And it's not okay to sleep around when you're commited to someone (unless you're both okay with it, that can be fun too)... They should cut off the nuts/slice of the clit to everyone who does... At least show your partner some respect and just say what's on your mind... If you make the choice to stay with one person, then by all means do that... But don't judge other people with a more fun and exciting lifestyle only because you can't have that... But even if a woman is not commited to someone and sleeps with lots of guys she'll still be labeled a hoe, whereas guys are labeled some kind of hero... I don't get that shit... If you're a woman and not commited then just do your thing like guys do, just fuck around... It's all good fun... People aren't monogamous creatures and if you claim they are you're a fucking liar and only deprive yourself from some good nasty sex and fun... Neversin. [This message was edited Mon Aug 11 10:58:43 PDT 2003 by Neversin] O(+>NIИ<+)O
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