teller said:

It is quite obvious that this goes on more times than not...and I believe that maturity plays a big role in this..

Personally, me, I would have taken it straight to the person.

Finess, I hear ya buddy! The org seems to breed drama. It's a FUCKING WEBSITE people come here for fun, to relax and meet some cool people who share their interests. Some folks here just don't get that. I've been baited in to participating in this nonsense before so I'm not saying I'm innocent but some people should really learn to stay out of other people's business. Hope your situation gets resolved quickly. Now that's all I'm saying on that, I'm a go post on a sex thread


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[This message was edited Mon Aug 11 10:31:28 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]

teller said:

Right! Ok who is teaching?

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

yes Dej, i hear ya but this has been dealt with on a private level. over and over and over and over and nothing has been resolved. so i figure by doing this it can at least make a change in the way things are done and peoples actions. on many levels.

this wasnt started to attract attention, no that wasnt the case. it was started solely on the basis of why people feel the need to become vendictive whena choice is made.

Finess said:

Finess, that shouldn't happen. ANd sorry to hear that is the case..

Finess said:

Ignore them completely. That's the best way to deal with freaks like this. Just turn the other way and don't give them the time of day

"Save the drama for your mama"

It seems like a good discussion so far. The reality Finess is that there will always be people that prefer to go behind the scenes and slant views and try hard to discredit others for trivial personal reasons. The "pick them or me" mentality is a stupid bullying tactic that is so lame it's laughable. As humans we should all have more moral fiber and let the others around us move through their world as they choose. I myself will just tell people to their face that I dislike them and then we can move on. It should be no big deal really. Misery loves company though.

Finess, you have lots of people that have love for you around here and off the net. Don't let lowlife mentalities bring you down. You are better off without them.

TwIsTeDmInD said:

so true!!!


misery loves company!!! The truth is painfull... if you can get rid of the misery do it!!!

sinisterpentatonic said:

Now thats whats im talkin about

easy to give advice and direction. hard to follow it yourself.


(not directed at anyone specifically, except you, you and you)

Don't hide. If you're going to infer a name then just be stand up enough to do so. Or don't mention it at all. Otherwise you just look weak. That's half the problem here, hiding behind things and hidden agendas.

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[This message was edited Mon Aug 11 13:09:14 PDT 2003 by TwIsTeDmInD]

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good golly, what happened? who said what to who about what or who? someone tell me please

XxAxX said:

I think everyones talking bad about you!

and to think i was out of town! dingdiddlydangitall!!!

pejman said:

Somethings been going on here.

And yet again I've been left out of the loop.

teller said:

:O you shunned me...



didnt you
[This message was edited Mon Aug 11 18:50:52 PDT 2003 by DORA]

This is where you spend alot of your free time at. You will find people in here you like as well as people you might not like. It is natural. This is no different than talking on the phone to someone. If you let it rule your life it is on you. If you have something to say feel free to say it.
I tend to bond to a persons personality more than physical features so i can feel close to some people here even though i have never seen them in person. Just like this thread was made to express an opinion of how someone feels about another, so it should be understood that other people may express(or already have) their feelings about particular people on here too. Hey i am not trying to win or make friends with anybody. If you cool with me, you're cool. If you are not we have nothing to say. If kept clean with me, i keep it clean with you. The people i have went after i feel comfortable with myself for doing so. If you have a hard time watching it go down. Then step away, you don't have to get involved. Alot of people think they knew what was going on. Funny thing is they don't know the half.
Cya

CtheUncanny said:

sinisterpentatonic said:

Co-sign!

CtheUncanny said:

You and I haven't always agreed on people and how to handle things but I respect that you never let it get personal and always respected the friendship!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

backatcha. The feeling is definitely mutual.

Finess said:

Back up my man...PUTTING YOURSELF "OUT THERE" ON A PERSONAL LEVEL IS WHERE YOU GO WRONG ON "ANY" PUBLIC WEBSITE WHERE PREDATORS CAN COME IN ALL CYBER SHAPES AND SIZES...Just come real and genuine...and fuck everyone else brotha!!!

some people just don't have a life, so their only alternative is 2 make sure they ruin other lives as well, y'all know the sayin' misery loves company... 2 tru. Y'all gotta learn how 2 shake them haters off. That's why you can't let the ugly green eyed monster get to you, just smile and don't let ignorance bother you or else, you'll be just as ignorant as they are. That's why I always try 2 have a smile on my face, especailly when I know somebody is purposely trying 2 make me unhappy...


(that kills them inside when they see you won't let them get 2 you)

Anyways Finess, Keep ya head up, Don't let the ugliness of this world bring u down ... even if it just a bunch of terd sh*t
[This message was edited Tue Aug 12 0:12:26 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]