Nikster said:

That's true

Where do you live again?

Sweeny79 said:

Illannoy

Sweeny79 said:

INSATIABLE said:

co-sign.

if he hasn't changed in the time you've already been together, no matter how good the good times were, there is a chance he won't in the future. it's better to let him go and work on yourself as a person that to wait for him to change. no amount of love is going to do that. he has to make that choice on his own. it's better to be alone and happy than to be with someone and miserable.

to quote dr phil: "the worst thing than being in a bad relationship for four years, is to be in one for four years and one day."

anyway, my

ps: long distance relationships suck even more.

been there, done that edit
[This message was edited Thu Jul 31 13:59:31 PDT 2003 by Phoenixxx]

Slave2daGroove said:

thanks, and ditto

Nikster said:

Come to NYC !

Phoenixxx said:

Sweeny79 said:

as if that's new news!

who wants to be far from who they love?

INSATIABLE said:

it's just that I didn't expect someone to say that!

Anyway, My parents had a long distance relationship before they got married. They have been married since 1968


a d is not an s edit
[This message was edited Thu Jul 31 14:29:18 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]

Sweeny79 said:

wowzers!!!

my dad was 10!


that's awesome!!

INSATIABLE said:

geography:



But other than that, relationships kick ass. They do, however, require that everybody involved love themselves first. Gotta get that little detail straightened out. After that, they are GREAT. Highly recommend. Five stars, and two big thumbs up for relationships.

Sweeny79 said:

Can I sleep on your couch?

INSATIABLE said:

Yup, it's a pretty cool story too, maybe I'll start a thread about it later

Nikster said:

Well I still live at home , but can I sleep in your hotel room ?

Sweeny79 said:

Of course

tackam said:

THAT'S RIGHT! Son of a bitch continents! Why can't we have Pangaea again?

I wouldn't mind driving to Australia or Europe!

Nikster said:

Cool

INSATIABLE said:

Get a pilots licence...or a boat


(Ummm...you COULD drive to Illinois, ya know )

I've been married for 5 years! It's magic!

The Wife also kills her own bugs.

She also kills small birds.
Maybe I should be worried.

mcmeekle said:

Sweeny79 said:[quote]Boyfriends suck because...

• They Stink - well, I wash twice a day, use deodarant & shower gels
  
• They are mean - When the lady in my life is skint, I take good care of her
  
• They are rude - I'm always complementing her
  
• They fight with you for no reason - never aruged once
  
• They always want sex when you don't want it - once she didn't want to, so we cuddled up and went to sleep
  
• They never want sex when you want it - I'm always up 4 it!
  
• They think your not smart enough to do things on your own because your a girl - my girl's smarter than me!
  
• They force you to watch sports - I hate sports!
  
• They hog the bed, pillows,and blankets - I make sure she has her fair share
  
• They always think your up to something when your not - she's gone away to stay with a friend this week, I'm not worried
  
• They are afraid of commitment but get jealous when you so much as look at another guy - ?
  
  
  

Okay I'll change the name of the thread,

Someone make a why girlfriends suck list and Add to my list...



Sweeny79, I'm not contradicting your list to put you down. I'm in a cool relationship at the moment, but before that I was single for 5 years. Do you know what that was like? Being single for 5 years? It was cool!

Being in a relationship is great, but so's being single. They've both got their different good points and bad points. There is no point whatsoever in wasting any time on someone if you so clearly don't like him, never mind love him!

Being single is very under-rated. The way I see it, is you sort your life out before you hook up with someone. If you're happy and content with yourself, you'll give off the right 'vibe' and attract the right kind of person. If all is confusion and fear, well you're gonna attract someone who likes that.

Anyway, I'll stop lecturing and, well, take care!

Sweeny79 said:

Awww...sweeny.
Not ALL guys are like that. I'm sure you will meet someone who will treat you right and give you the love that you need.

Sweeny79 said:

Sounds like you got the wrong man! They can be wonderful when you're with the right person. Well at least I've been told that