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Thread started 07/30/03 2:19am

crazyhorse

ONE 4 THE LADIES


If your husband or signif. other expressed his intrest in bringing a third party into your bedroom how would you handle that?
Would it make any differance whether it was a woman or a man? Would you feel threatend or willing to experiment?

And for those that have done this what were that effects on your relationship?
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Reply #1 posted 07/30/03 2:42am

CAMILLE4U

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Thinking of sugesting it?
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Reply #2 posted 07/30/03 2:52am

Fhunkin

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If I was your partner I would def. do it !! wink
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Reply #3 posted 07/30/03 3:02am

kiss85

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If it was my husband, hell no! If it was my boyfriend, I'd do it, ONLY if the third party was male. I MUST be the only female in a threesome.
They did WHAT??!.... disbelief
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Reply #4 posted 07/30/03 3:10am

crazyhorse

Actually in the past I've went that route of bringing it up carefully and blowin up in my face about 30 different it went.Unless she brings it to you men are shit outta luck i think.I just got outta a long term relationship, the wheels are spinning and I wanted a womans point of view.

basicaly what im asking is,ladies tell us men how we can bang two of you at once with you being happy about it.might as well be livin in oz
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Reply #5 posted 07/30/03 6:50am

cborgman

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crazyhorse said:

Actually in the past I've went that route of bringing it up carefully and blowin up in my face about 30 different it went.Unless she brings it to you men are shit outta luck i think.I just got outta a long term relationship, the wheels are spinning and I wanted a womans point of view.

basicaly what im asking is,ladies tell us men how we can bang two of you at once with you being happy about it.might as well be livin in oz


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Reply #6 posted 07/30/03 7:47am

stymie

This may sound really wierd but here goes: I've done the threesome thing. My ex knew I was bisexual(shouldn't have told him that). Our first was early in our relationship. There is something horrifying about seeing the man you love passionately kissing another woman, with or without your permission. The next one was at the end of our relationship. I pretty much didn't give a fuck about him anymore so watching him with another woman was really hot. I would not suggest threesomes to anyone in a committed relationship or marriage. The chick may fuck your man better than you or may blow your man better than you, which happened to me and had the guy calling me trying to get side action from me. I would never again participate in a threesome with a committed or married couple. Now, if one of my female friends was bi, and we knew a really hot guy we could do, then I would have no problem with it.
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Reply #7 posted 07/30/03 8:26am

tackam

You've gotta recognize the difference between monogamous people bringing additional people home just for sex, and polyamorous people bringing additional people home in the context of actual relationships. Not that either is bad, but there is a difference.

I'm poly. I think bringing additional people into a relationship is a lovely thing, and there are many, many people who make it work, and love living with multiple partners. www.lovemore.com

Have *I* had such a relationship work long-term? Stay tuned. mr.green
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Reply #8 posted 07/30/03 8:46am

stymie

tackam said:

You've gotta recognize the difference between monogamous people bringing additional people home just for sex, and polyamorous people bringing additional people home in the context of actual relationships. Not that either is bad, but there is a difference.

I'm poly. I think bringing additional people into a relationship is a lovely thing, and there are many, many people who make it work, and love living with multiple partners. www.lovemore.com

Have *I* had such a relationship work long-term? Stay tuned. mr.green
You fascinate the hell out of me, tackam. Coming to Chicago anytime soon? mr.green
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Reply #9 posted 07/30/03 8:54am

cborgman

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tackam said:

You've gotta recognize the difference between monogamous people bringing additional people home just for sex, and polyamorous people bringing additional people home in the context of actual relationships. Not that either is bad, but there is a difference.

I'm poly. I think bringing additional people into a relationship is a lovely thing, and there are many, many people who make it work, and love living with multiple partners. www.lovemore.com

Have *I* had such a relationship work long-term? Stay tuned. mr.green


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Reply #10 posted 07/30/03 8:55am

Paisley

Naw I aint into that freaky shit. I like my sex one on one. nod

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Reply #11 posted 07/30/03 10:48am

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i would tell him no...and if he if says i don't love him because i won't do that ...then he is the one who do not love me.
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Reply #12 posted 07/30/03 10:49am

Sweeny79

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It would be fun to talk about but not to do, I think it would ruin the relationship.
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #13 posted 07/30/03 10:55am

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It would be difficult.. Surely, one would feel left out.. wink
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Reply #14 posted 07/30/03 7:40pm

tackam

stymie said:

tackam said:

You've gotta recognize the difference between monogamous people bringing additional people home just for sex, and polyamorous people bringing additional people home in the context of actual relationships. Not that either is bad, but there is a difference.

I'm poly. I think bringing additional people into a relationship is a lovely thing, and there are many, many people who make it work, and love living with multiple partners. www.lovemore.com

Have *I* had such a relationship work long-term? Stay tuned. mr.green
You fascinate the hell out of me, tackam. Coming to Chicago anytime soon? mr.green


Well, thank you kindly. Might possibly be in that part of the world before too long. . .I'll let you know. . . wink
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Reply #15 posted 07/30/03 7:41pm

tackam

cborgman said:

tackam said:

You've gotta recognize the difference between monogamous people bringing additional people home just for sex, and polyamorous people bringing additional people home in the context of actual relationships. Not that either is bad, but there is a difference.

I'm poly. I think bringing additional people into a relationship is a lovely thing, and there are many, many people who make it work, and love living with multiple partners. www.lovemore.com

Have *I* had such a relationship work long-term? Stay tuned. mr.green


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