Kobe incident??

must be an american thing, what happened?

so now the question is:
was it rape or cheating?
right?

and I still don't know who this Kobe is.

noepie said:

kobe is a famous nba

basketball player

for the los angeles lakers

my question is this:

is sex the ultimate pacifier

4 most men and why?

sumtymes said:

It is supposed to relieve you of stress, strange thing is that when i'm stressed out (almost never) i want to sleep in stead of have sex.
But i can understand that Kobe would want to have sex after playing with balls all day.
[This message was edited Wed Jul 30 7:11:05 PDT 2003 by noepie]

noepie said:

sex only complicates matters

if it does not go hand in hand

with love and monogamy

men often seperate sex from love

women often intigrate the two

sumtymes said:

often not always.

And I don't even like

noepie said:

do u understand

my point?

love is serious

sex with love

is sensational

sumtymes said:

yes, i understand.
but sometimes people have to go for sensation.

noepie said:

r u at least 21 years old?

i had 2 ask

I posted this elsewhere

and only got one good response:

in light of the kobe incident

it seems as if men use sex

as a cure all instead of

turning to family, friends

and faith


Men: is sex your way of dealing

with emotional stress and why?

sumtymes said:

Yes, why?
how old are you?

Men: is sex your way of dealing

with emotional stress and why?